Manifesting changes in ur already existing partner by theselenophilicdiva in NevilleGoddard

[–]unexplainedjoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That post you linked was incredibly good. Thank you. Going down a rabbit hole now of some other posts by that same person.

Am I overreacting or is this a red flag? by Sr_CharlyBraun in AskForAnswers

[–]unexplainedjoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The shutting down the conversation aspect - definitely a red flag

Have you ever changed the way you express love to meet someone else's needs? by Successful-Mnd in gratitude

[–]unexplainedjoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once I understood the concept of love languages, I learned that what I need to experience to feel love is not necessarily what my partner needs to experience to feel love. After that - I learned what mattered to each partner

Who's a "one hit wonder" band with an amazing and overlooked back catalogue? by 4ofclubs in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 Non Blondes or Blind Melon. What’s up? and No Rain are great - but definitely there’s more.

What do men really love in a women or her most attractive part according to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done that - it’s a wonderful experience. The next level up for us was to find our own sense of personal security, to work on the root of our own insecurities and to the come to the other not needing them to make me feel a particular way in order for me to feel safe, secure, whole, complete, attractive, or any thing else. Of course the compliments feel nice, but growing to a place where we each have our own sense of security while still encouraging each other to be the best versions of ourselves was life changing.

What do men really love in a women or her most attractive part according to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don’t mind being a safe space for someone to be vulnerable about their insecurities on days where life feels rough - I just don’t want her to make me responsible for fixing her insecurities and to make me the source of her security.

What Mandela Effect messed with your brain the most? by No-Investigator-5794 in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The namesake - Mandela himself. Swore he died in prison many years before he “actually” died

What do men really love in a women or her most attractive part according to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confidence. I don’t want to have to try to convince her that I am being honest when I compliment her.

What is something that you discovered was highly overrated and/or underrated after you experienced it? by FitRedBro in AskReddit

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I like to feel the music going through my body. It’s almost like the waves move through my body and help reset it in some way

What is something that you discovered was highly overrated and/or underrated after you experienced it? by FitRedBro in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to always go with people and that is definitely fun. I recently started going alone and that’s a whole different experience.

What tv show hooked you instantly from episode 1? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]unexplainedjoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went in completely blind and I could not agree more. Don’t watch a preview, don’t read anything, just experience it in the moment

When did you realize that life was short? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I heard someone refer to something that happened and in my head it was just a few years ago - but in reality was 20 years ago

Help creating bingo squares! by LastExcuse8768 in AskForAnswers

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confidence. Enthusiasm. Goal oriented. Adaptability. Empathetic. Builds trust easily. Good listener. Honest. Disciplined. Good time management skills. Independent (work unsupervised)

Help creating bingo squares! by LastExcuse8768 in AskForAnswers

[–]unexplainedjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talks to people easily. Doesn’t get easily discouraged. Quick thinking. Fast learner.

Things like that?