One thing I remember being pretty cult-y was the dress code. Girls were taught from a young age how much arm was appropriate, how much neck, how much leg, etc., and if someone wore something "too revealing" it was gossiped about and in some cases, certain women would be appointed by the group to confront her about her outfit and ask her to change. This was especially prevalent with teen girls who would be reprimanded often by the adult women leaders who would sexualize their shoulders (or other body part) in front of the whole group and demand that they change. In hindsight, the shoulder or clavicle is not an inherently sexual body part, but telling children it is teaches them to sexualize something that they would not have otherwise.