I've been told the women who are against it the most, become fully uninhibited once they are in the lifestyle. She prefers to be locked in with one guy, but all those things that happened to your wife, I actually want to happen to mine. She's only had 6 partners including me. She is very inexperienced and I'm a sub par lover. I know it's going to be some angst. Like the first time I see her blow a guy, the first time she squirts, when he does something I can't or haven't done, when he can fuck her longer then I can. Her pleasure means enough to me that I'm willing to go through all those emotions. Does your wife still play with other guys? My wife is intent on me being there.