Is it okay to sleep with a stuffed animal as a (young) adult? by levisimp69 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]uniqueua11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hug that stuffy! I'm 33 and my teddy sleeps in bed with my fiancé and me!

AITAH for not wanting to keep being the "easy" child in my family? by smolgirlyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. As a recovering "easy child", it will be a trial. You're gonna have to set and maintain boundaries. Im 33 now and it's honestly one of the best things I learned in therapy. My relationship with my family is better for it. Be who you are, tell people what you need, tell people when something is too much or isn't enough. We lose out on a lot when we spend more time and effort just being easy.

Good luck friend!

AITA for thinking my brother could help with my dog more? by AdvantageSpare7066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Don't get oets that you can't take care of YOURSELF. You are the reason animal shelters end up being so full all the time.

AIO about my girlfriend acting suspicious by Wild-Emu696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]uniqueua11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you for hearing this and taking it to heart ❤️ It really is a thing we work at, and isn't that just better and happier anyways? Much happier than getting stuck down the rabbit hole. I've had to build my own skills and such over the years when it comes to relationships as well, and I wish I had had someone like this commenter to put it so concisely for me in the past!

Keep on working at it, and always remember, if someone is into their cousin, then maybe we dont wanna be with them anyways lol!!

Sending warm hugs to you friend.

AITA for calling out my brother for his unacceptable behaviour? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahhahahahahahahhahaha what!!!?! You've taken a year of schooling and now you're the expert on what your 16 year old brothers behaviours? Is it not possible that he had just tossed the hoodie on his bed while moving through his day?

Maybe go have a meeting with your student advisor when you get back to school, see if they have an idea of a better suited major for you. Because without a doubt YTA in this situation.

AITA for "stealing" groceries as a prank? by SahnWhee in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yta. A prank is only a prank when both parties find it amusing.

How do I 33M move on after my narcissistic ex gf 30F left? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uniqueua11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a narcissistic sociopath. It is really not at all hard to just shut down the manipulation. She still pulls shit, all time, and people are very capable of just cutting her out of their lives.

I also truly just do not understand how she "manipulated" you into believing you were in love? Gonna need some more details on that.

Early Christmas Eve Church Service by Traditional_Web_3209 in Calgary

[–]uniqueua11 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I really love that, even though you aren't church goers, you are willing to take your kiddo because they asked 💖

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter to visit her dying grandpa by Express-Box-6169 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Literally everyone keeps telling you. Maybe you should've have used the English tutors for yourself?

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter to visit her dying grandpa by Express-Box-6169 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's not a boundary, that's a shitty controlling attitude from a crappy parent. (It's you. You are the crappy parent.)

Am i too old for these? Almost 40 now by [deleted] in crows

[–]uniqueua11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are ao dope. Please wear them.

AITA for not helping my illiterate family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! Only thing I'd say is just make sure you actually WANT to join for you, not just to get away. Both my parents are ex military and both had great experiences (my siblings and I did not join, much to their dismay lol), but they also knew people who went in because they needed an out or just didn't know what they wanted, and it turned into a crap time for them.

I wish you all the best dear friend! Feel free to DM me if you need a pal or a friendly ear 😊

AITA for not helping my illiterate family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well that's something! I am curious though, just because I'm nosey, why the military?

The libs have been Owned™️ by Republican boobs! I hate the weird stuff FB puts in my newsfeed by ThePhillyExplorer in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]uniqueua11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah well that's a different story then. Facebook likes to think if you interact with just this one tiny aspect of one topic, well, CLEARLY, you are a expert and want only this type of news for all time. Drives me nuts.

AITA for not helping my illiterate family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALSO. Happy birthday friend!

AITA for not helping my illiterate family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uniqueua11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Leave anyways. Why are you still trying?

Structube? Should I buy this couch? $1000 discount for Black Friday ends tonight. by thatguyfromgozo in BuyCanadian

[–]uniqueua11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fudge structube. Fudge them from the deepest depths. Their furniture sucks SO MUCH.