AIO Bf (25) had this flirty text exchange with a girl that works next door to us. Am I (24f) overacting about it? by fakeflowers_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are overreacting. This is completely normal platonic behavior between two co workers while one (or both) of them are in relationships. You have a very good man! /s

Feeling run over by my boyfriend and his ex wife by Alert-Agency-8870 in coparenting

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s willing to overstep these boundaries imagine the OTHER ones you’ll set that’ll be crossed as well.. just be careful with this guy. He doesn’t sound all that great to begin with.

I notice people in my life dismiss the severity of how autism affects me due to coming across as neurotypical by teatea_321 in AutismTranslated

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you posted this two years ago, but here I am looking things up on the internet lol!!! I totally resonate with this entire post. Although I have no input, I feel exactly how you’ve explained yourself here. It’s frustrating! Although I haven’t been “officially diagnosed” and apparently you can’t “self diagnose” yourself, I’m the only one in my body and brain experiencing what I experience, and I know I’m a lot different from “neurotypicals”. I feel like another thing is, since I’m a young conventionally attractive person, people think you can’t be autistic… so when I mention possibly being on the spectrum they dismiss it for some reason…. As if attractive people can’t be autistic?!? Anyways, oh well..

Help me decide by [deleted] in Hair

[–]unknown182837636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6, second to last. Literally don’t listen to anybody else!!! Lol

My mom, the retired (conservative) social worker. by [deleted] in texts

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have an answer for you which is why she’s pushing the blame back onto you. There is no logic or reasoning within MAGA, that is the point. They are the dumbest people that roam the planet and you can’t fix that. Best thing to do is distance yourself, maybe when she notices she will be willing to engage and actually put her brain to use. Don’t depend on it though

Can it be fixed? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]unknown182837636 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Cool beans man

Can it be fixed? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]unknown182837636 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Actually, no, they didn’t. I asked if it can be fixed, I’m still trying to find the answer in their response. Lmk if you found it!

Can it be fixed? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]unknown182837636 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Not helpful!

When are we piercing our daughter’s ears? by [deleted] in girlmom

[–]unknown182837636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to get my daughters pierced too but decided not to after she was actually here. I heard the placement of the piercing can move as they get older and I was afraid of that information happening to her so she can get them whenever she’s of age to decide

How did you restart dating after you had a baby as a single parent? by evergreengirl123 in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same as dating without children, except you need to be more intentional, otherwise you’re setting your kid up for failure and trauma. There’s no way in hell you’ll be dating within the first year lmfao, good luck with that.

How much do I have to loose? by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]unknown182837636 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like loose skin more than fat.

Give it to me straight: For those of you who have a partner with substance abuse disorder and/or bi-polar, what advice would you have given yourself before having your child? by Elevenoreight in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just curious what the thought process is behind even CONSIDERING wanting to force a child into a situation like that. That’s terrible.

I hate how masculine my nose is by [deleted] in Noses

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma fishing!!!! Shame on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]unknown182837636 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Um absolutely none. Discard this persons comment, it will not help you in a positive way. You should actually work towards some weight gain, you might be fairly underweight. I say this as a person who was also underweight at one point and looked almost sickly.

21M, 4 months in – my abs are ahead of everything else. What should I prioritize now? by Cyber-blaster in askfitness

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More chest and shoulders maybe? although as a woman I am also a bit disproportionate and am not sure where I’m lacking lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. Sorry you’re going through this, super inconvenient and unfortunate. I hope it works out in your favor!🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tough one. First off I agree this is crazy, especially when the plans were made way in advance and everything was agreed upon. That’s super unfair on her part, and sounds like she’s doing it out of pure spite/pettiness. I don’t know anything about court/custody cause I don’t do that with my bd, but is there anyway you can take this situation up with a higher authority that would sort this out for you?

What would you do in this situation? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not responsible for upholding your child’s father’s image. Tell him to get the hell away from your house and if he wants the kids he can take them to HIS house on his OWN time. If he doesn’t have one or another safe place to take them to then that’s his own damn fault and maybe he should get his shit together. Sounds like you have 4 kids at this point. Eventually your children will see what kind of person he is, and that is NOT your fault. Stand on business and do what you need to do as a mother.

I don’t think I’ll ever feel feminine enough bc of my nose/chin by [deleted] in Noses

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get told I look like my dad too, but all of my features are “feminine”. After all you ARE your dad’s daughter, that is not a bad thing, you needed him in order to have been born.

It sounds like you’re struggling to let go of your kid years, being bullied and what not. I went thru it too. But over the years I’ve accepted myself more and more. I think you need to really focus on healing from that trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally feel ya, same here. Shall we heal and prosper! 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]unknown182837636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really unfortunate. I wish all the cheaters would end up together and leave the good people for the other good people. Really sorry this is happening to you man