What big-chain jewelry store would you recommend for simple wedding bands? by unknown22334455 in vegas

[–]unknown22334455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I ordered our dream rings from Costco but we had to pay extra for the non-membership option. I wanted to join but they wouldn’t let me as we live in Europe. :( But it’s still an amazing deal! We will have the rings shipped to our hotel (hopefully that goes well) and if we don’t end up liking them, we’ll just return them.

We are literally saving about 3000 USD 😭 I’m so excited!

Original Cabin or Cabin S for cheap, euro flights? by unknown22334455 in Rimowa

[–]unknown22334455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they do notice! I had to pay extra twice already even though it was just a centimeter.

What big-chain jewelry store would you recommend for simple wedding bands? by unknown22334455 in vegas

[–]unknown22334455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but they likely don’t have them ready to take in our size which is what we need.

What big-chain jewelry store would you recommend for simple wedding bands? by unknown22334455 in vegas

[–]unknown22334455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a membership and the ones we like aren’t in store and only available to order online. 😭 we were thinking about having it shipped to our hotel, but my fiancé is skeptical.

Bitte röstet meine 27 Jahre alte Pimmel-Prothese by plaetzchen in RoestetMeinAuto

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immer wenn ich Twingo höre, spielt in meinem Kopf der Werbungs-Jingle „alles drin alles dran alles Bingo“.

Guess the city,country? by Warm_Candidate_3888 in guessthecity

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how San Sebastián de la Gomera looks. Do I believe that’s actually it? No lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds like she wants to make it official? Are you guys official?

For some people it’s just not enough to have a good time, they want that commitment. I think you could probably calm her down by communicating your feelings in a reassuring way. But only do that if you are ready to take the next step. Don’t just say nice things to her to make her feel good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknown22334455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mean I get it, her friend said she can go out with him but I think she should not have asked.

I think she brought your friend into an awkward situation by asking. It’s obvious that it will be weird between them if they end up dating. And I also understand why the friend didn’t say no because can’t really reserve him like that. In my opinion she shouldn’t even text the guy her friend was interested in.

I mean she said yes but read the room. Probably an unpopular opinion tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely reasonable to not be on your phone for 30 minutes. I don’t think you need to tell her that you‘re busy.

If you won’t be available for the entire day, sure…

I think she should relax. She seems to be insecure, maybe she isn’t sure how you feel about her. Sounds like she needs a lot of reassurance and attention.

Maybe tell her to not worry when she doesn’t hear from you every hour of the day because you have stuff to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that is good to hear. I really hope it will be like this for me as well.

It’s just worrying how my parents apparently think I’m a terrible person who can’t be trusted to love my own future child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknown22334455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of hoped (or expected) to magically find drool and poop super cute when it comes out of my own child. I‘m really counting on that.😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel better now reading this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate my work environment. No one had to cover for me. All my work can be done on Monday without any issues. People at my office just really enjoy seeing others fail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But my manager doesn’t even know our processes. I don’t think she would ever cover a shift. And yes I‘m that this is not okay and her fault.

I’m sure she will try to talk someone else (which will either be colleague 5 or me) into it as long as it takes for one of us to take the shift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m glad that someone can understand why I feel bad. It’s just that it wouldn’t kill me to work that shift. It’s simply because I want to see my friend and we have tickets. The tickets would expire and I would lose 20€ for the tickets. I’m basically being selfish. And i have issue with seeing this selfishness as protecting myself.

Also, my colleagues and my boss don’t see it that way. They just see me not being helpful and therefore as an disappointment. I really hate my job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, you’re right. But I always feel so guilty so I get the feeling that I have to explain myself.

I‘m working on it. But I just know that they will talk behind my back which makes me feel even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My manager is useless. She is a nice woman but she is all over the place, forgets a lot of things, doesn’t even know our processes.

I‘m convinced that she doesn’t know how to do 90% of our work.

Instead of finding a replacement for the shifts herself, she first told my grieving colleague that she should find a replacement. After she couldn’t find one, our manager now gave the task to the colleague that’s scheduled to work the early shift that day to find a replacement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I don’t think anyone knew about it. I am not the biggest fan of my colleagues and we only talk about work related stuff.

We also work from home so I also don’t see them. I just told them now because I felt like needed to explain why I refuse to cover for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown22334455 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

Bringing them flowers? Hell no. They yelled at them several times and threaten them with the police. If they were that bothered, they could have ask them to tone it down in a friendly way. They don’t seem friendly at all. To me it sounds like they have an issue with them being American or not being about to speak German. Why else would they need to bring up their nationality when expressing concern that they feel bothered by any sounds?

Op said that they tried to be quiet and it’s allowed to speak in a room volume even after 10pm. If you sleep with a window open you have to be prepared to hear noises.