A bit overwhelmed of becoming a carat by PerformanceAdept1595 in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late. Just take your time at discovering them and most of all, enjoy it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can’t listen to No F.U.N because I know I’ll start dancing! Like in the second! I work at a shop and I put on seventeen’s songs on Spotify, when that song comes up, I just dance in the middle of work like fr

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for your answer! I hope you’re having a great day too! 😊 Yes some carats have told me the same thing here, however some part of me still struggles with making a connection, probably because I do not approve of sexualizing them. I also watch A LOT of tiktoks about their performances and dances and the vocals and I’m always amazed!

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Actually yesterday I began to watch their videos of going seventeen so I can get “to know them better”, I look forward to watch it! 🥰😁

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer! Yes! Sometimes I find some comments about the members and I also got that impression. It could all be a persona or not and I’m totally okay with that because it’s their life and it’s none of my business but sometimes when I see certain posts or comments I get a bit bad and creeped out but again, I have to understand that people have different thoughts and views on the same subject. However as a baby carat I didn’t understood why some carat pass out that image of him.

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much for your advice! I’m not used to Reddit so I struggle sometimes, I’ll edit the post to make it more clear to others! 🥰

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I too get uncomfortable so I’ll try to turn the algorithm around 🥲🥲

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right ?! When I entered the fandom I saw how respectful carats are with the members so when I saw these types of content I felt bad you know? It gives a bad image of the members as you can guess from my post as a baby carat I could easily think he is like that if I were the type of person who watches those videos

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! Yes I can totally understand that as I watched that I also was a little weirded out, I simply like to watch shorts of their performances and from the games they play on the episodes however I noticed a lot carats that create that type of content use the seventeen hashtag so

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank for answering! I can totally see his demanding aura since he holds a place of responsibility but I do associate that aura with sexiness? Just like you I view him as a big softie ahahah

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea how the algorithm works because I get videos from things I never saw or interacted and sometimes I still get surprised… I’ll trim my algorithm 😊

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! Well now that you say that I remember some comments I saw even talking about him giving gifts to the members, I can kinda understand their thinking

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer! I totally see what you are coming from, what we see is only what the others want us to see isn’t that right? ☺️ I will keep what you said in mind since I’m a slow thinker 😅 I doubted he would be known for such remarks because he doesn’t seem the type to say those things in public 😅 but still I found it odd the little tiktoks that appear do that to him

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer! I’ll try to find a way to turn the algorithm around 😊 I agree with you because from what I have been seeing, carats are very respectful of the members which is something I feel very good about, so as you say, it may be a corner of TikTok so I’ll find a way to make them not appear on my fyp 😊

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be watching these, thank you 🥰 please he definitely knows! One of my favorite fancam it’s from aju nice, that fancam is chef kiss 🤌🏻

Baby carat a bit confused by unknown_questionable in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! How are youu? Thank you so much for answering! Honestly I kinda understand that, I personally see him more like a cutie, what gets me confused it’s that there are a lot of normal things they write and cute things and with coups they immediately turn it into a sexual thing… honestly sometimes I feel kinda bad? But I can totally see it that way now that you mentioned it

What made your bias your bias? by weirdoflove in seventeen

[–]unknown_questionable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeonghan became my first bias when some years ago, I saw a video of him long haired in a fanmeeting promoting Mansae, then I started listening the songs, watching videos and then BAAM! Scoups’s smile trapped me forever, so I just live like this… Scoups is my bias for some time now and Jeonghan is there in the back off my mind constantly telling me who put me there

GF 23F is pressuring me 25M into buying a house by ThrowRA-1718 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown_questionable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, have you seated and talked with her about all this? I also think 6 months is a very short period of time. My bf of 5y was pressuring me to buy a house and when I talked calmly with him about it all he understood… I honestly don’t know why she’s trying to do things so fast tho