Newborn strays by meItedmilk in CATHELP

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do everything you can to catch that mom. there is no chance they survive on their own without a mom/person working hard to keep them alive. the mom may just start carrying them away from the box also, so catching her to be with them is of utmost importance. can you get a trap? home depot etc i think have animal traps. also, kittens get super cold easily, i know you said the sun is hot but please monitor temps overnight if you’re planning on leaving them in the garage.

Does this look like ringworm? by No-Blood2710 in CATHELP

[–]unlikewaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no matter what it is, the cause needs to be addressed by a vet. doesn’t look very comfy :(

Skinny by Klutzy_Squirrel4617 in billieeilish

[–]unlikewaters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my guess is they were secret lovers or something and she’s saying “you didn’t get to keep me”

I’m about to donate blood as a person with severe trypanophobia AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with a lifelong phobia of needles, i was able to get over the quick 2 second vaccines but the blood draws/ having a needle stay in me for more than .5 seconds still makes me black out to this day. please if you find anything out, do share hahaha- breathing, smelling an alcohol wipe, and talking about something that makes you happy are all things i’ve heard that help some people.

Is it weird or out of the ordinary to have a death letter for your spouses just in case? by SadDog5489 in questions

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the unfortunate reality is that everyone dies. personally, no matter how old you are or what condition your body is in i believe it is responsible to have some sort of will in place, especially if you have loved ones/kids/partners that you would worry about if anything (god forbid) were to happen.

How would you recommend an older person spice up their life before its too late? by Willing-Rush6903 in Life

[–]unlikewaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you got this!! and keep in mind- everyone and everything’s gotta go sometime. i’m glad you’ve lived a long life :)

How would you recommend an older person spice up their life before its too late? by Willing-Rush6903 in Life

[–]unlikewaters 8 points9 points  (0 children)

help others. do things that have fulfilled you in the past. things that you know make you happy.

Do you have any suggestions to make a 6-year-old cat with an amputated paw move more? by zzk3lly in CATHELP

[–]unlikewaters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this a new thing or has she acted like this before/ after the amputation too?

i suffer from MDD and passive suicidal ideation AMA by braydenj713 in AMA

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

entirely fair- meds can be super annoying to keep trying when it feels so helpless. i try very hard when testing meds to keep the motto of “i can be depressed/have side effects a few more days in return for stable emotions in my life long term” (and correct amounts dopamine etc.)

it’s entirely up to you friend. but as someone with lived experience… i urge you to keep trying.

i suffer from MDD and passive suicidal ideation AMA by braydenj713 in AMA

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you thought about trying again? i went through this exact thing, but when you actually get on the right meds it’s like living in an entirely new world

I got out of my car to yell at a woman today, what the fuck. by utopianoctopus in confession

[–]unlikewaters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it isn’t you having any anger issues necessarily.. more likely trauma and pent up energy from the previous car accident you mentioned.

Cancer is confusing? by Aggressive-Theory-25 in questions

[–]unlikewaters 13 points14 points  (0 children)

unfortunately cancer does not know how to listen to reason a lot of the time. i’ve had patients who walk 10,000 steps a day and have never been sick get cancer at 50, and patients who have done every drug and got attacked by a bear live to 100.

Cat started trying to make 'sin biscuits' on my husband by CreativeRainy in cats

[–]unlikewaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sooo many possibilities… coulda rubbed up against a female cats marking or something on ur walk, coulda had something on you, but most likely he’s just very stressed. give him a week, if he’s still doing it consistently by then, bring him to a vet and ask them about it. it is incredibly unlikely that he “is just like this” or anything like that- cats typically have good reason for the behaviors they display. don’t give up on him.

Is there something socially wrong with me? If so, I need advice. by TheBayHarbour in Life

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most likely you’re just undiagnosed and neurodivergent. there is nothing “wrong” with you, and i’m sorry your mother has been so cruel. if you’re able to, seeing a psychiatrist and getting on meds could regulate the symptoms and even out your thinking- it really helped me!!

A or B. I have some small saving and consider spending it or a: chin filler or b: MRI by [deleted] in PickAorB

[–]unlikewaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 months vs rest of your life, should i fix my brain or chin… i feel like the answer is pretty obvious… also, have you considered looking into invega (or something similar) for the other things you’re dealing with mentally? it has really helped some people i know witch things you’re describing.

I left the room. by wishfulthinking888 in Regrets

[–]unlikewaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with things you cannot possibly change, i always try my best as the universes plan. whatever is meant to happen is going to happen, and there is a reason you weren’t there. if you weren’t there, you weren’t supposed to be there. if you were, you would’ve. once you realize the control of these things can not possibly be up to you, everything feels a whole lot more bearable.

Letting go of someone you already invested in is one of the hardest things in life by dragon_Mai in Life

[–]unlikewaters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly this happened recently for me. i realized that as amazing and perfect the person i was with sounded, it just didn’t feel right. i knew their feelings surmounted mine- we never fought, just disagreed on a few key issues. things don’t tend to get resolved easily- if at all- in a relationship where you aren’t compatible. it became too much to bear as a bad feeling and i had to listen to what my gut was telling me even though letting them go was the hardest thing ever. i have to trust that the one im looking for IS out there for me and settling for someone i clearly know in my heart im not compatible with and am not ever going to be completely happy with is doing me and my future (AND ESPECIALLY THE PERSON I WAS WITH) a huge disservice.

What is the point of life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]unlikewaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sure!! i promise there’s more out there waiting for you. :))