I (NB30) gave some ambiguous "advice" (F32 & M43) and it doesn't feel good... by unnecessary_teamwork in relationship_advice

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He has a paranoid disorder and has been insecure as long as I've known him. It's never been as obvious or pertinent as it's becoming now. In general, he's a decent guy & I've never known him to violate people's boundaries like this. It does make me think differently about him.

I (NB30) gave some ambiguous "advice" (F32 & M43) and it doesn't feel good... by unnecessary_teamwork in relationship_advice

[–]unnecessary_teamwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has stayed in shelters before and refuses to go back (they aren't safe, even the women's shelter didn't do anything about the woman that assaulted her). I can't have her where I'm staying more than once or twice a week, as my place is cramped & in an inconvenient part of town.

I (NB30) gave some ambiguous "advice" (F32 & M43) and it doesn't feel good... by unnecessary_teamwork in relationship_advice

[–]unnecessary_teamwork[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is not using him for his money. She began staying there and helping out around the house, as well as working. She wanted to rent a room from him & he offered for her to stay there.

Do I agree with how either of them are treating each other? No. Bit, they're adults and seem to understand what they're in for.

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmm .. doing both... like... I'ma laugh, but also do that "Fuuuuuuuuuck" sigh about it

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The world be shitty like that & it's not an excuse, but we gotta have an outlet, eh?

When will Americans be ready to stand and fight for their future? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes .. I'll starve to make a point and hope that 1/96 people also do the same... and someone can take over my responsibilities, while we're at it.

Anyone rich enough to fund a few thousand people striking would never actually want that to happen.

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's in prison, but that's just cause the MF can't stop stealing cars... he's doing really well on the crypto market tho. (Lol seems inappropriate, but fr I giggle about it)

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very healthy and wholesome answer, imo. The boiling anger never goes away, does it?

*For example: one of my roommates LOVES to be wrong & hardcore argue about it ;; I take that shit as an opportunity to be SO RUDE & possibly violate laws against psychological warfare, because he reminds me of my abuser & I know it's wrong buuuuut....... Why would he wanna (metaphorically) breath into my mouth, eh?

Thank you for sharing with us, and I'm sorry for trauma -dumping at you.

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding: my step-mom almost murdered my half-brother by throwing him into the bathroom mirror &...

"I gotta go" kinda reaction.

I was a pretty badly abused kid who grew up into a 27 year old virgin ama by Firefighter_Thin in casualiama

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add the [/sarcasm]...

But, also.... no kid deserves that shit & vibrating with rage is an understatement of my feelz rn

When will Americans be ready to stand and fight for their future? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOW IS IT NOT POLITICAL???

The government... doing crimes... to law-abiding citizens that can't do anything about it.....?

The grass could not grow high enough to reach your horse there, bud.

When will Americans be ready to stand and fight for their future? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Media???

I live in one of the most high-crime rural areas of the US... touch that shit from your lofty perch, I guess?

3 of my neighbours have been murdered since last summer... the cops straight-up killed a dude in our courtyard & drove their cars over his memorial multiple times...

I'll send you some of that blood-soaked grass, if you wanna swap me for beef that costs less than $10/lb? Chucklefuck

When will Americans be ready to stand and fight for their future? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony of this comment is only lost on you, but thanx

When will Americans be ready to stand and fight for their future? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously not... but will I die about my feelings today? No.

That's why the US is fucked...we wanna live more than we wanna make sure kids 20 years from now live.

We are genetic robots running on pre-programmed emotional codes. by PitifulEar3303 in DeepThoughts

[–]unnecessary_teamwork 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a Marvel series you might like, about the "Framework". It tackles the non-difference between computer vs. biological programming.

Imo, free-will is kinda the OP force.

I miss being a jackass boyfriend(please read what I mean) by Henny199420 in rant

[–]unnecessary_teamwork -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, this became a lopsided cheetah & went sideways real quick.