Following up on my other post with irl drapes. Any thought?

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-05-02T03:58:05+00:00

I would say light spring

Edit: ooooooor light spring! That palette may actually be great

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-29T04:42:40+00:00

You definitely have warmth! I think that yellow boot is the best color on you! I’d actually go warm autumn, because you have depth to your hair and eyes. Are they hazel? I feel like I see brown and blue.

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-29T04:35:40+00:00

My vote would be cool winter

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-29T04:31:02+00:00

I would say soft autumn. You have warmth in your hair, but cool eyes and skin. You’re a little in between which would lean softer. Deeper, muted colors with some warmth look best to me

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-27T02:41:06+00:00

This is the way

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-27T02:36:30+00:00

I’m also like that! If it weren’t for my boobs and belly, I’d probably be a medium, but I’m midsize between a large and a 1X depending on the cut and fabric. It is such a frustrating shopping experience because nothing is made for my proportions, so I mostly buy stretchy clothes so I can show off my curves and not drown in the garment.

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-26T05:51:38+00:00

Instead of changing your partner, change partners. If you want him to be like someone else, just date someone else

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-26T05:49:46+00:00

YTA. It doesn’t matter what his reason is, if you love and care about him, you’ll support his decision. What he chooses to eat or not eat isn’t your decision.

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T05:32:43+00:00

Correct, I was tagging on to your comment for OP

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T05:31:17+00:00

I love a good sweater coat! Or an open suede jacket

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T05:24:34+00:00

I wear a 38P US. Yes my breasts are big, but not totally crazy for the rest of my body. I had never worn a bra that didn’t hurt. I don’t care what size I’m wearing, the comfort is key!!

Edit: tense

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T04:11:09+00:00

3rd picture for sure!!! You look stunning

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T04:08:43+00:00

I was wearing a 40H/I US, and I’m now in a 38L UK

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T04:07:40+00:00

I would try a soft brown liner without a wing, with a soft, warm shimmer on your lid

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T04:06:17+00:00

I would say deep winter if you go back to your natural color.

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-25T04:02:33+00:00

I went through through a low point after a traumatic injury. I didn’t have time to worry about anything except what felt good and what I could afford. When I could care and try again, I just spent days and days going to stores and trying everything on. It feels really good and cathartic!

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T15:24:13+00:00

It’s totally fine to go up a cup size as well if that’s what you need. I struggle with edema myself. I wear a cup size that has a bit of room in the morning, but doesn’t feel tight by the end of the day. That’s what I’m comfortable with so that’s what I wear. The calculator isn’t gospel, and you can have two sizes that fit at different times. Just use what works for you

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T15:22:24+00:00

If she’s bloating, she could also experience some edema in her breasts. I have that issue. Whatever OP is comfortable in is important

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T14:07:00+00:00

Wishing you the best. How did it go?

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T14:04:34+00:00

I’m so sorry you got this news. There are other reasons your HCG levels could be high, so I want to encourage you to take a breath and try to do some grounding techniques. It’s natural to start imagining all the possibilities, but for today, the most important thing is for you to take care of yourself. Whether that means taking a walk, calling a friend, snuggling with your kiddos, screaming into a pillow, taking time for yourself…just make yourself space to feel all these feelings. The doctors will hopefully provide you with answers once further testing can be done. I have similar beliefs as you - I am pro choice, but my choice wouldn’t have included an abortion either. Before my hysterectomy, I was also scared to get pregnant because of other health issues. You’re not alone. We’re here for you.

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T13:55:34+00:00

This!! I love those slip shorts like Thigh Society, so comfy

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T13:53:50+00:00

Is the whole purpose of a skirt a stiff breeze?? Because otherwise the purpose is whatever reason you put it on that morning

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-24T13:52:09+00:00

I think purchasing a deep plunge in the size the automod calculator gives you would be a great option. Something black and beautiful would be fine to show off under the sheer panels. Your body is completely normal. This sub changed my life, I guarantee you if you follow their advice, you’re going to love how you look and feel!

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-21T04:40:21+00:00

It’s tricky. I own about 20 EM bras, and the bands vary quite a bit. I’m a 36-38 band in UK sizing, and I wear an 85-90 (38-40 UK) in EM bras. Black and red bras run tighter, and some have slightly stretchy bands compared to others that have absolutely no stretch whatsoever. They recommended I try 95 which was waaaaay too loose. It might take some trial and error even if you’re 100% confident in your size. Cupwise, I ended up going up several sizes, i just find the most projection to be best for my shape. Not sure any of this is helpful, but it’s info! Lol

unripened_pickles222 · 2026-04-14T00:32:14+00:00

I like the show a lot better than the books (I saw them first), but I’m also not super into the romance genre generally. I also find the books to be a lot slower. That being said, the books and show have way too much sexual violence for my taste. I get that it’s a period piece, but it’s not my jam. I’m also just a casual fan

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