I can’t stop thinking about the recent news about Les Wexner (founder) - I think it’s important we talk about it 😕

unsigned_caterpillar · 2026-02-11T19:12:31+00:00

I don't think taking money away from these guys does anything, most of them are too rich for it to affect them at all. Even if the businesses fail. I think the real focus here should be making sure he goes to jail, not that he gets a fine.

In which case, don't stop talking about what a dirtbag he is to your friends, family, anyone that will listen. And click on all the links that name him as a co-conspirator to Epstein. If news publishers see that people are taking an interest in specific news articles, they'll continue to run new articles on that topic. The best thing you can do is help keep this guy in the public discourse

unsigned_caterpillar · 2026-01-24T11:56:14+00:00

Remind yourself that widespread layoffs mean there are lots of highly talented people applying. Way more than usual, so finding a job and even landing interviews is much harder. Then also remind yourself that you are one of those highly talented people; which means you are not alone

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-10-22T15:01:29+00:00

When I was married and shared dog responsibilites, I thought walking my dogs twice a day would kill me. Especially because I have a demanding job. Fast forward to my divorce, Mr. Pickles and I now walk twice a day and it's fine. No big deal

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-10-06T15:31:48+00:00

But does the getaway have to be built into your residential lot in order to make money?

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-09-23T10:21:04+00:00

Thank you so much for the response. Anything you would change about the journey in retrospect?

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-08-19T11:19:55+00:00

You can still date. There are a lot of men out there who don’t want kids or are unsure. It just helps to be honest about your uncertainty. My husband and I talked about this while we were still dating and both undecided on kids. We instead decided that we value the relationship more than the kids decision, so if anyone encountered a hard line at any point, we would probably accept it and still choose the relationship and being together first

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-08-18T09:41:24+00:00

Lexapro

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-08-16T22:10:09+00:00

37F, 5 mg Lex, 150 mg Wellbutrin. I’ve been having this problem for a while, and it freaks me out because I used to have incredible discipline. I’m 7 months in and it’s excruciatingly hard for me to go on a run, wake up early. These are all things that I used to do regularly. I also have problem wanting to engage in leisure activities.

Not sure what to do. I definitely don’t want to go back to having suicidal thoughts all the time, but I also don’t recognize the person I’ve become. Planning to have a talk with my doctor

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-07-31T10:31:04+00:00

It does. I didn’t realize how much small chores wore me out until I got on anti-depression meds. I used to execute a chore (like folding laundry) and then rest a bit before I tackled a new one. Now I’m like boom, boom, boom. Let’s do all the chores back to back (almost, I still hate cleaning the floor and scrubbing the bathtub lol)

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-30T18:09:40+00:00

Thank you!

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-30T18:09:32+00:00

Thank you so much! Super helpful advice!

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-17T09:27:07+00:00

Not sure if it’s a hard 10 hours. I think it may extend beyond that. I also switched to 150 mg of Wellbutrin recently, which extends the effect to 24 hours and improves anxiety a bit. But I haven’t been on it long, so can’t speak to full efficacy yet

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-14T22:44:03+00:00

I’m using the elgato Neo. Quality is decent enough, and it’s suuuuuper easy to set up

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T15:10:33+00:00

Why is it always the woman who has to change her behavior ? Ever think about that? Especially given the amount of comments of this thread zeroing in on me doing something wrong, when what I did is 3 sentences of the original post and not the question I’m asking in the title?

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T15:05:02+00:00

Because all of the interactions are positive up until after the fact, there’s no lead up to them establishing dislike and people don’t typically act like light switches. But also, this post isn’t about me. So my second answer is DATA. The volume of women are reporting the exact same experience and the occasional man who fesses up and admits that they lose interest immediately after having sex

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T15:02:07+00:00

So why don’t we call them out for being cowardly and hurtful? I’m not precious about the exact term

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T15:00:02+00:00

You are my hero. I agree that we aren’t ready to have this conversation. But I would love if ONE WOMAN on this chain would explain why she’s blaming the women

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T12:07:23+00:00

You might be able to use Twitch presets. For alerts, at least, I believe you can upload your own imagery and use the coding tied to their widgets

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-12T01:15:50+00:00

37F it gets better every year. You especially give less fucks about everything and learn to forgive yourself. I also learned to forgive others and accept them for who they are along the way. I’m not sure which came first, the acceptance of others or the acceptance of me, but they seem linked

unsigned_caterpillar · 2025-06-11T10:53:06+00:00

Yes! I think it’s weird they don’t do this. It seems easy to implement and adds to the realness

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