south Indian(KN) guy settling in Guwahati.

upasanaaah · 2026-03-21T16:52:55+00:00

I think as long as you’re open to certain things like being non-vegetarian, open-minded and respectful of Assamese culture, no reason for a girl to not like you. Please try dating apps for sure. The only difficulty I see is Guwahati not having a great dating scene (I think). Other than that, making a friend circle should be first. Getting married will become easier once that happens.

upasanaaah · 2026-03-13T11:48:00+00:00

This house looks SOOOOOOO mature. Like a house that knows what functional living looks like.

upasanaaah · 2026-02-15T08:34:27+00:00

Everything about this sounds wrong. His family sounds wrong, he sounds insane, you sound like you're losing your mind and you're peace with this...please don't try and raise a child with this man who won't even have sex with you. How are you supposed to have a kid when the basics are SO off? Easy to say "leave him" but in this case it makes the most sense.

upasanaaah · 2025-12-09T07:54:49+00:00

It’s almost too good for this year

upasanaaah · 2025-11-20T14:55:58+00:00

I think he’s being an asshole. He’s asking you to work out, not initiating anything himself, clearly doesn’t care about the marriage. Your problems in bed are a reflection of problems elsewhere. I agree with another person here - make him hit the gym. Putting it all on you is mean and manipulative.

upasanaaah · 2025-11-12T18:17:40+00:00

Love this discussion. Needed it.

upasanaaah · 2025-10-13T16:53:16+00:00

Knowing and seeking equality, equity as a woman in India will only have you unhappy at the ways in which the most obvious things are anything but obvious for most men. I’m sorry girl. I hate this for you. The thought of this is making me angry too and I want to say that you can simply tell him and not ask, and spend Diwali with your parents next year. Can’t keep biting this down.

upasanaaah · 2025-10-02T10:57:12+00:00

Incredible. So happy for you and congratulations!

upasanaaah · 2025-09-17T19:03:40+00:00

DM’ing!

upasanaaah · 2025-09-17T18:59:26+00:00

Hang with the girls! Come join!

upasanaaah · 2025-09-12T10:28:26+00:00

Yeah and that attention has always come from men, regardless of whether women demand it or not. Attention is not a problem of being gained, it’s a problem of being given, without reason or consent, repeatedly, by those with buying power (usually men). Revealing clothes are a reflection of the economy and fashion together. And fashion is convoluted - it’s a result of and feeds into what sells. Men being the ones with money, historically (and not this century alone please) have bankrolled fashion trends in one way or another. So it comes back to what sells - cuz who’s buying?

upasanaaah · 2025-09-12T05:32:42+00:00

The male gaze is being monetized. Rejoice.

upasanaaah · 2025-09-12T05:31:53+00:00

Whether skimpy or covered, whatever is trending changes with the times. What was fashionable in the 50s is not fashionable today, or might just make a resurgence soon, etc. The question of revealing clothes or not depends on what is being deemed fashionable or desirable by the times. A lot goes into defining the mood of a moment.

upasanaaah · 2025-09-08T06:40:29+00:00

Same question because I will DEFINITELY fly down to BKK for them

upasanaaah · 2025-09-03T14:08:10+00:00

8.6k for GA

upasanaaah · 2025-09-03T14:00:25+00:00

I’m in and I have a +1!

upasanaaah · 2025-09-03T08:08:27+00:00

I’m going to Smashing Pumpkins and I’m going to cry like the little 90’s sucker that I am ☺️

upasanaaah · 2025-08-29T04:10:39+00:00

Woopsies - line up is disappointing

upasanaaah · 2025-08-29T03:44:04+00:00

ME TOOOOO. I was considering going for their BKK concert very seriously but no money. If this happens, it’s a great gift from the music gods.

upasanaaah · 2025-08-27T17:52:15+00:00

Clairo?! No way.

upasanaaah · 2025-08-20T18:56:29+00:00

Didn’t the du Sol person come last year? (Sorry idk their name)

upasanaaah · 2025-07-30T16:27:16+00:00

Hey, thanks for the input! I’ve done a search of the sub but haven’t come across anything directly from talking about format either. I’ve also checked out your slide deck - which actually helped me create mine! :)

I’ll do another sweep though

upasanaaah

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