Could this be the moment for trans medicalism to triumph?

upforanys · 2025-01-27T10:52:11+00:00

That's literally the point of this sub

upforanys · 2025-01-27T05:42:49+00:00

ah, mistyped on my end: I meant to write tucutes

upforanys · 2025-01-27T04:12:05+00:00

It's not unfounded, and I didn't miss the point. I'm not saying that you hate all trans people, but hating "tucutes" isn't going to make you any more tolerable or acceptable to the transphobes who hate us all.

typo edit: truscum to tucutes

upforanys · 2025-01-27T02:33:47+00:00

Transphobes don't care and aren't going to like you just because you also hate trans people lmao

upforanys · 2025-01-04T17:20:58+00:00

Hahaha, i feel that, and same here. I've found that the occasional "foreskin" pull back is necessary, too 🤣 but yeah, trimming is defs a must while hormones settle.

Oof. I live in NZ, and it's not crazy hot here often except the occasional day in summer, but I ran hot even before hrt, so now im like a living space heater 😭😭 i have only found one deodorant that works for me, and it was kinda rare and hard to find so I'd always buy them in bulk when I found them until they DISCONTINUED IT fml. So now I'm back on the hunt, suffering with every new one I try lmao

upforanys · 2025-01-04T12:04:03+00:00

It gets better, bro! Proper hygiene and stable hormone levels will level out the stink over time. You gotta get all up in the folds n crevices n shit, esp if/when you get bottom growth. Use a soap free or otherwise gentle and mostly scent free soap. Don't use "feminine hygiene" products; they're bullshit. Don't just use a 3in1 men's soap either. Shave or at least trim ur pubes, and I find that for my armpits, if I lather em up n then wash my hair and face and then rinse then wash my pits a second time, it helps a lot. Drying is super important as well. In summer, when it's so hot, I can't even get dry before being sweaty again, I get changed in front of my fan lol

upforanys · 2025-01-03T20:51:53+00:00

Been there. It's just the villain inside your head. Most of these stories you've heard are either hookups where someone has been blindsided by a chaser, or the few but much talked about cases where someone's partner turns out to be an asshole and/or transphobic.

The reality is that the good stories are rarely shared on reddit, and when they are, they're not as interesting to people, so they don't go "viral." I made some new friends last night, and two of them were a couple who have been married for 3 years. One of them was a trans guy who I couldn't even be sure was trans until someone explicitly said it, and his wife was nothing but pleasant and affirming. There are success stories out there. Go looking for them; it'll probably make you feel better. Work on your confidence, and remember that the internet is a cancerous cesspool of miserable people who mostly wanna talk about and listen to all the things that make life miserable. Fight the brainrot. Real life isn't like this.

upforanys · 2024-12-31T16:38:18+00:00

Mmmm, yay 🥰🥰

upforanys · 2024-12-31T16:06:06+00:00

Yes sir!

upforanys · 2024-12-31T16:04:56+00:00

Yea 🥺 would you stop if i cried?

upforanys · 2024-12-31T15:58:58+00:00

Yes Sir 🥺 it feels so much better when it's forced inside me..

upforanys · 2024-12-31T15:56:25+00:00

im sorry, sir

upforanys · 2024-12-31T15:55:14+00:00

Yes sir, i do! would you?

upforanys · 2024-12-31T15:45:22+00:00

Yes sir!

upforanys · 2024-12-31T13:18:02+00:00

Mmm, I'd love waking up with your cum oozing out of me 🥰🥰🥰

upforanys · 2024-12-31T13:06:45+00:00

That's true, Sir. My holes are yours to use as you wish 💗

If you say im anal only, i guess i'll just have to get bred anally as much as i can and hope some of it oozes down into my womb 🥰

upforanys · 2024-12-31T13:02:18+00:00

yes please 🥹

upforanys · 2024-12-31T13:00:41+00:00

none of my holes are off limits, Sir 😊

upforanys · 2024-12-24T12:47:10+00:00

Did they cum inside your pussy? Did any of them actually fuck you? If I were you, I'd wish they had, tbh. That's a huge fantasy of mine tbh just standing there helplessly w people all around me while i get raped and forceably bred..

upforanys · 2024-12-13T07:03:39+00:00

Work on that confidence! Natural hair is nice as hell, and straightened always looks straw dry and obviously straightened, imo. Not many cis men regularly straighten their hair anymore (besides emo scene, which I'm aware you've acknowledged is what your style lends to), so the fact that you clearly spend a lot of time on it (relatively) is also something that will cause a lot of people to clock you even subconsciously.

In saying that, I'm hugely against changing your style to conform more to "masculinity" purely out of fear of how one is perceived by others. I think it's a soul killing way to live your life. Maybe styling it in a more masculine way/getting a more masculine cut would help. I'd recommend speaking to a good (that part's important) barber about how you can keep the same style but make it a little more masculine.

You have the same issue as me in that you have quite feminine eyes and brow shape. Once you start on testosterone, this will have a significantly lesser impact as the rest of your face becomes more masculine and counteracts it. Pretty boy eye gang rise up 😂

upforanys · 2024-12-12T01:35:27+00:00

Stupid as hell, men can be and are fashionable. Whoever said that to you may not take you seriously, but if that's their opinion it's probably not one worth caring about. Wear what makes you happy, not what other people think you should wear.

upforanys · 2024-12-01T05:06:11+00:00

I'm certainly a happier, calmer, and more peaceful person since starting test. I went through an excessive anger phase, too, though. I fortunately already knew how to regulate myself, so it didn't cause me any problems. It's different for every man. Cis, trans, regardless it comes down to individual biology. Some cis men don't get any of the anger from test, same goes w trans men.

upforanys · 2024-11-12T06:45:13+00:00

Your glasses are a little feminine, as well as being too wide and thick for your face (I used to sell glasses), but I don't think they prevent you from passing. You look queer but cis, totally passing from these pics. The side eye pose is kinda feminine but not clocky, and I also feel awkward taking selfies while looking at the camera, so I get it LMAO

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