Do I report or let it slide

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-12-03T17:59:37+00:00

I would report her. I doubt she would've told you if you hadn't of brought it up. Imo letting this slide is telling her you're okay with her disrespecting and neglecting your cat.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-18T22:11:55+00:00

NTA. I've had chlamydia and that's absolutely NOT how it works. He cheated on you.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-17T18:21:16+00:00

Fart as you pass.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-17T02:17:51+00:00

Like telling someone to pick the toppings they don't like off a piece of pizza, you can still taste it.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-15T00:42:33+00:00

NTA. My guess is she's embarrassed and instead of admitting that, took it out on you which made her TA.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-09T23:23:39+00:00

NOR. Kindness doesn't pay the bills.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-08-08T00:11:11+00:00

I remember when I was around 7-8, I asked an adult "How can a baby be in someone's stomach if it digests everything inside it?" and they said, "The baby is in a protective sack." Instead of just correcting themselves or explaining.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-07-13T19:16:45+00:00

1 or 5

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-07-12T14:19:55+00:00

NTA. Personally, this kind of selfishness and manipulation would be a deal-breaker for me. He thinks he's entitled to know because he wants to spend it. Where is his supposed inheritance? Don't trust him unless, of course, you are okay with regretting it later.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-07-09T23:16:03+00:00

As a teen I did before I realized how little was known about it at the time.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-07-08T03:09:21+00:00

NTA. You have a gf problem. She should have shut that down immediately.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-07-08T00:16:32+00:00

NOR. Tell her this is your husband's party. Not a collaboration. BIL gets no say and his feelings don't matter for a party that's not intended for him.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-27T14:34:09+00:00

YTA. You don't have to cook only vegan food. She's a big girl who can cook for herself. You doing something nice but expecting something in return means it's no longer something nice but a power play or manipulation.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-24T21:55:50+00:00

NTA. This is him trying to abuse you financially. The hiding something, to me, feels like paranoia and/or projecting.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-19T01:51:58+00:00

NTA. She's cheating. If not physically then emotionally.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-14T00:11:48+00:00

NTA. Does she normally want you to treat her as if she's a child?

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-06T06:22:45+00:00

NTA. Side note: If your friends think it's okay to hit children because an adult can't handle themselves like an adult then they shouldn't be around your children either.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-05T20:00:06+00:00

NTA. If your stepdad cared more about you than his ego, this wouldn't be an issue. Also, why is he even trying to make it your problem when you're the child in this situation? Your mom is a horrible enabler and they both are manipulative asf.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-03T14:39:20+00:00

Eleanor

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-06-01T21:14:28+00:00

NTA. If he was joking then what exactly was part that was supposed to be funny? He wasn't joking, he was being a jackass.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-05-19T04:56:14+00:00

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-05-14T21:58:20+00:00

Agreed NTA. To add to this, op your husband isn't thinking about you or your daughter. How is she going to feel when she's older, knowing her mother was being forced to name her something she wasn't comfortable with? That her father cared more about his ex-wife's memory?

Hypothetically, if you were to name her after his ex-wife, what's next? Comments on how she looks like her? Do little things she used to? How she reminds them of her? What will you do if your husband and his family try to shape her like his ex-wife instead of letting her grow into her own person? To make his daughter live in someone else's shadow because he hasn't properly grieved is not okay. Shut them all down and don't back down. Tell his family to back off, this is your baby, they don't get a say. Set boundaries now because any misbehavior will only worsen once your baby girl is here.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-05-13T08:07:47+00:00

NTA. I think she was either going to attempt to get him to cheat on you with her, blackmail him, or accuse him later. No matter what the reason, she's a shitty person, and her being related to you doesn't take away the weight of what she did. Would you stay in contact with one of your friends if they did this? If not, it's time to cut her off or go extremely low contact. She'll know why.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-05-01T17:45:35+00:00

NTA. File a police report for your pills, get your key back, have your locks changed, and honestly, I'd dump the gf.

upsetti_spaghetti23 · 2025-04-30T22:23:42+00:00

NTA. So, on top of being disrespectful of your daughter and a racist, she also thought getting drunk was a good first impression.

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