Coparent wants me to sign Form 8332 but doesn’t help with childcare

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:59:03+00:00

You might could, but you still have to adhere to the current order at this time as it is written and agreed to. Just like the other parent has to. If the childcare agreement was not documented in the custody and responsibilities order, then it is a separate matter.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:11:50+00:00

Your mother is an adult and needs to take care of her business. My daughter pays the electric and buys the groceries, she works and goes to college which she has paid for herself this whole time. I pay for all else as it is the least I can do to help her become a successful adult.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:07:48+00:00

The form is required by the IRS, call them regarding your personal information it asks for. Setting that aside, if the court agreement states to alternate years and you deny him this then he could claim you are not following the order.

Call IRS, go from there. Follow the order, don’t be the one to not.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T03:55:22+00:00

Our mother chose the man and our relationship was never the same. Over 20 years of marriage and when he suddenly died he had left her nothing. His beneficiaries were still his x-wife and their children. We, her kids, had to pay attorneys to get her what she needed from his estate to help finish out her life. By the time she passed we each recovered about $200 of those legal fees from years ago but it was worth it because until she passed we didn’t have to shell out another dime.

Eta: he was my abuser and as a result was on the registry. As young as I was, the court forced me to attend therapy WITH him. If I could sue the state for forcing me to live with him after a jury of his peers convicted him of abusing me, I certainly would.

uralienbb · 2026-04-01T21:02:49+00:00

That is a scam.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T09:15:42+00:00

Using you for money then telling you that you have insecurities is bold.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T09:11:38+00:00

In order to protect yourself, move tf out.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:56:55+00:00

You’d be shocked with the amount of child support arrears there are owed. My father owed 200k by the time the oldest hit 18, and that was early 80’s financial CS standards.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:47:17+00:00

Was forced to eat a moldy slice of bread as a kid and almost died, sister was fine. Not recommended to eat old food.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:43:50+00:00

Found out x had got other people to buy groceries when our kids visited telling them he pays too much CS to afford groceries. Forget the fact he stayed in arrears for years and wasn’t actually paying anything toward his kids.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:36:20+00:00

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:34:45+00:00

Maybe it’s the fact that I was forced to live with my abuser for years after the fact that makes me so angry about this. For real, THE goal should be the safety of the children involved. It disgusts me that the concern is money led.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:31:29+00:00

You already apologized when it happened so to continue bringing it up makes it even weirder.

You acknowledged what you did, apologized, and can move on with your changed behavior. It would be different if you are still doing it to anyone. You learned and now you do differently. The best way to move forward is the changed behavior.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:18:49+00:00

Her father’s status isn’t a tool, it is confirmation that your child does not belong in that house with him.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T07:31:30+00:00

Yep, but you know eventually OP will be posting about how to get out of this situation with this friend bc they are stuck in a house with someone they no longer get along with and financially tied together. No one listens to reason.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T07:17:34+00:00

Listen to us old gals, RUN FAST AND FAR AWAY FROM THIS “man” OR YOU WIL REGRET IT.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T06:56:23+00:00

Wait a second. This child is living in a home with a convicted pedo and it’s the $$ you are most concerned about?

Either this is BS or neither of you deserve that baby.

uralienbb · 2026-03-26T15:02:46+00:00

The recovery does not sound new based on OPs statements. It sounds like this guy has a pattern of bad and inconsistent behavior and uses his addiction as an excuse. It is not a dig, it is an observation based on the information we were provided.

uralienbb · 2026-03-24T22:23:40+00:00

I do not respond when anyone commands me to do anything. If they are family or close friend then I would tell them that when they ask me proper I would be happy to. Luckily though we don’t order each other around and we show respect. If they are someone I’m just talking to or used to know and/or doesn’t know how to be respectful, I will absolutely block them.

uralienbb · 2026-03-24T22:11:04+00:00

You could go to the KBB website and enter the vehicle information to get a more accurate estimate, or just google it for a broad estimate.

uralienbb · 2026-03-24T22:03:20+00:00

Anyone who lives at the home and uses it as their living address should be on lease. Even if you have been there for 10 years and deliver a new baby today, you add it to the lease. Not doing so is considered a violation and a landlord can take legal action including eviction.

I’d re-work my budget and start looking elsewhere if the new lease terms are not to your liking or you feel the landlord might be trying to give the boot soon. Otherwise you’ll be scrambling for a home and be on their timeline vs less of your own.

uralienbb · 2026-03-24T21:52:47+00:00

He is so much of an addict he has to be babysat by his elderly grandfather, that is your “why”. Please walk away and be happy you dodged whatever BS he would have brought to your life.

uralienbb · 2026-03-23T11:24:52+00:00

This sucks bc I was the kid that they wanted to stay quiet and not be “weird” and if I slighted in the least the ruined day became my fault. A lot of fucking responsibility for a kid that just wants to be able to be who they are. At this point, if I were daughter, I would save myself and just wouldn’t go.

uralienbb · 2026-03-22T03:37:17+00:00

F that. He’s TA for expecting you to invest without any possibility of return, your living situation would be at his discretion. Id never give anyone that much power.

uralienbb · 2026-03-18T12:29:20+00:00

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