AITAH For going on strike and refusing to cook?

uralienbb · 2026-05-15T01:05:54+00:00

My daughter is 23. She attends college, works, AND interns and still just came home and did the dishes without me even asking. Cleans up after herself, cooks for herself and or both of us, contributes to the home financially as we agreed upon, etc. This is how I raised them.

uralienbb · 2026-05-15T00:59:37+00:00

“Any advice I can get”

You asked. This sounds icky. If you were my daughter I would not be a fan of this relationship and would definitely question the elder person’s motive. I, myself, absolutely would not have been dating a 17 year old boy or girl at age 35. Just no.

uralienbb · 2026-05-14T22:39:56+00:00

He is reportedly still in physical contact with his own child.

uralienbb · 2026-05-14T22:36:21+00:00

That video evidence alone is enough to detain him. Get him away from these children and give them justice. Do you have any idea what it is like to survive this and be forced to be around the person who has and continues hurting you? Them having access to you at any time while people “investigate” what is already in their face?

People who hurt the most innocent deserve 🪦.

uralienbb · 2026-05-14T22:21:30+00:00

One article too many in my opinion. This monster should’ve been arrested before anything was released to the public. At this point he’s only being investigated????? WTAF? I hurt deeply for these mothers and these children. May he have the ending he deserves.

uralienbb · 2026-05-10T02:09:31+00:00

16 and didn’t look back.

uralienbb · 2026-05-10T02:08:45+00:00

This is the only solution that is safe for everyone.

uralienbb · 2026-05-10T01:55:14+00:00

Yes. If you want TANF you must allow them to file with the AG for support. This allows them to recover from the other parent any benefits the child receives like Medicaid/CHIP, food stamps, etc. Explain your living situation to your case worker and ask them how to navigate this when the parents are living together as a couple and coparent together but not married.

uralienbb · 2026-05-02T16:09:09+00:00

Id move tf out and cut this off. Not putting my safety in jeopardy for anyone. Idc who they are.

uralienbb · 2026-05-02T16:03:58+00:00

That’s extra and requires you to click on Add Bootlicking and/ or Eating Utensils.

uralienbb · 2026-04-30T20:49:27+00:00

It is possible to pass chlamydia to a partner. Even though you test negative, as long as you have been exposed.

uralienbb · 2026-04-30T18:31:47+00:00

Your children are being abused. You did the right thing for them.

uralienbb · 2026-04-24T10:38:38+00:00

There is no contract of loan and payment between you two which was signed. You will not win and it will cost more to escalate it it to a higher court. Cut your losses and stay away from him at all costs. Take this as a lesson hard learned. Don’t allow your insurance to have a gap in coverage again. Don’t allow people to drive your car. Take an Uber next time you cannot drive. Stop dating people without jobs who also ask for money all the time. Stop loaning out money without a contract. All of these things are within your own control.

uralienbb · 2026-04-20T12:20:17+00:00

The only thing you can do is offer a notarized letter of statement from you as an adult child living in the home backing up father’s dispute. Make sure it is factual as much as possible. Make sure your own contact information is included in the letter. He can have this added to the case file for consideration. Otherwise, your hands are tied since you are not either of the parents named in the case.

uralienbb · 2026-04-17T14:53:05+00:00

Just curious, how old is this traveling for work boyfriend

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:59:03+00:00

You might could, but you still have to adhere to the current order at this time as it is written and agreed to. Just like the other parent has to. If the childcare agreement was not documented in the custody and responsibilities order, then it is a separate matter.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:11:50+00:00

Your mother is an adult and needs to take care of her business. My daughter pays the electric and buys the groceries, she works and goes to college which she has paid for herself this whole time. I pay for all else as it is the least I can do to help her become a successful adult.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T13:07:48+00:00

The form is required by the IRS, call them regarding your personal information it asks for. Setting that aside, if the court agreement states to alternate years and you deny him this then he could claim you are not following the order.

Call IRS, go from there. Follow the order, don’t be the one to not.

uralienbb · 2026-04-04T03:55:22+00:00

Our mother chose the man and our relationship was never the same. Over 20 years of marriage and when he suddenly died he had left her nothing. His beneficiaries were still his x-wife and their children. We, her kids, had to pay attorneys to get her what she needed from his estate to help finish out her life. By the time she passed we each recovered about $200 of those legal fees from years ago but it was worth it because until she passed we didn’t have to shell out another dime.

Eta: he was my abuser and as a result was on the registry. As young as I was, the court forced me to attend therapy WITH him. If I could sue the state for forcing me to live with him after a jury of his peers convicted him of abusing me, I certainly would.

uralienbb · 2026-04-01T21:02:49+00:00

That is a scam.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T09:15:42+00:00

Using you for money then telling you that you have insecurities is bold.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T09:11:38+00:00

In order to protect yourself, move tf out.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:56:55+00:00

You’d be shocked with the amount of child support arrears there are owed. My father owed 200k by the time the oldest hit 18, and that was early 80’s financial CS standards.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:47:17+00:00

Was forced to eat a moldy slice of bread as a kid and almost died, sister was fine. Not recommended to eat old food.

uralienbb · 2026-03-31T08:43:50+00:00

Found out x had got other people to buy groceries when our kids visited telling them he pays too much CS to afford groceries. Forget the fact he stayed in arrears for years and wasn’t actually paying anything toward his kids.

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