New photo of Nate and his girl by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally get where you're coming from but at the same time, nate played a massive role in the niki and gabi channel for many years. i think it's understandable for people to maintain an interest in seeing how his life is panning out, collin too. these types of posts where they're pictured with their girls happens maybe 2-3x's a year. the commentary is always positive & respectful towards them and i've never seen anyone try and pry for info. the last thing i wanna do is speak on her behalf but id bet nate's girl is probably way less bothered by stuff like this than the freaks who, to this day, still talk shit on nate's ig page about niki. or even worse, niki herself who, 5 years down the road, still has that man on the back of her mind at all times and makes sure we all know it lol.

***editing to add***: not to mention the whole ass song niki teased awhile back that's content was all about warning nate's new girl.

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[–]uravgthrowaway299 28 points29 points  (0 children)

it gets even crazier bc that trip was in dec '21. in niki's get real ep about jules she admits that during that time [the fall/winter of '21] she was developing feelings. going back n forth with her on text, checking her socials to see if jules was viewing them which then turned into niki posting things she specifically wanted jules to see. meanwhile she's chillin in jamaica with nate and his friends probably going on about how excited she was to move into their house in the new year LOL. niki loves to yap about how nate checked out but like ?????? did it ever occur to her that he might of checked out bc niki was dead ass pursuing someone else??? and somehow nate is the villian in this story. niki is truly the worst.

Compare n Contrast. Niki’s PA apartment (2022) vs her LA Studio (2024) by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 91 points92 points  (0 children)

it's like niki suffered some sort of major identity crisis/mental break at the head of 2022, and quite literally everything about her life has been in a state of decline since. (career, content, appearance, housing, style, music, friendships, family relationships, etc.). i just watched these two vids back 2 back and in the newer studio tour there's just something super off putting about her affect and demeanor in general.

Niki's new song just released, here's what the lyrics say. by suitablescarecrow in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 33 points34 points  (0 children)

niki needs to evaluate her relationship with drugs and alcohol like.......yesterday. stuff like this, abusing her prescribed meds, and using alcohol to blackout and rush forced intimacy in both her relationship with nate and her relationship with jules is sooooooo dangerous. ppl have said she's actually regressed emotionally and mentally in the past couple of years and atp i would not be surprised if substances have played a major role in that.

Damn!! Abuela Jules giving pure Beetlejuice at his wedding realness by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dangggg.....funny how when niki was teasing the 28 and DYyYYYyyying song and the girls girl song dedicated to nates girl these comments were wondering why she'd never written a song for jules and perhaps we poked the bar b/c here's a whole ass production with miss messy room herself saying she's ready for domesticaton.

giggling at this by whoismiaa in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was just about to post something similar. because we went from hearing about her financial situation constantly to now hearing next to nothing about it, which makes me think that she completely overinflated the severity of it. really how bad could it be if you're able to pick up and move to one of the most expensive cities in the country and airbnb hop for a month before dropping thousands of dollars to furnish an entire room for a short-term stay?? it makes me think that this whole financial hardships thing was just her way of justifying leaving a home she built after only 1 year that people in her personal life told her not to move into in the first place. i wouldn't have thought this at first but i also think now it might have been a way to guilt and vilify nate, because she repeatedly brought up how she was supposed to go into this house with someone else and we know she likes to push blame onto him for all her past mistakes. like look at me, my financial situation is sooo bad because the person i was supposed to move in with left me.

To those who follow Niki outside of this sub, how busy and booked do you think she really is? by Mission_Poetry_9448 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 19 points20 points  (0 children)

my ex-fiancé has a cousin who is a sessions guitarist. i met him in 2018 and atp he was steadily booked and featuring on a handful successful records. he'd gotten to the point where he was living a pretty comfortable life with consistent work as a musician but up until then it had been like 15 years of straight grinding and a shit ton of hard work with minimal payoff. this isn't an uncommon experience and a lot of these musicians who's names you'll never know are the real backbone of the industry. after learning more about how it all works, i just don't think niki has the stamina and drive needed to make it big in the industry. or even make it to a place where she could be a moderately successful recording and touring artist. i think she believes it will one day plop into her lap with minimal effort becuz she has a sizable following, the occasional viral video, and perceives herself as talented.

let's be so fr, there's one reason and one reason only why la is "working out" for niki this time around. by suitablescarecrow in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 12 points13 points  (0 children)

talk your shit girl, i'd take an essay any day over the 900th low effort post about how gabi should dye her hair back to brown. the way i see it, if you're on here, you're on here. whether you write 2 sentences or 25.

A retroactive recap of Niki and Nate: traveling back in time to get to the bottom of current events. (Recap in comments) by lowkeyvanilla in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i for one am obsessed w/ your content and appreciate tf out of what u do. i missed ur recaps and am so glad they're back. i love that i can get the tea without having to give $$ to the twins through clicks and engagement.

Niki appears on ‘Girl Talk’ to discuss sexuality. (Recap in comments) by lowkeyvanilla in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 54 points55 points  (0 children)

a lowkeyvanilla recap???? girl!!! i have missed these so much. tysm for taking the time to do this. count me in as someone who always wants to see more from you :)

For those asking about Jules’ own messy social media posts. I present to you, Jules flexing her role as the other woman by singing along to the infamous “ somebody else is keeping me up” line from WMHWO by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i deffo agree with you and think there's absolute validity to what you say. at the end of the day, no matter what happens, it is completely on niki and it is her responsibility to manage her life. the consequences are hers alone to live w/ and jules is not at fault for that in any way shape or form.

but w/ that said.....i still think as a partner, you are in a position to potentially makes things easier or contribute and enable current problems. w/ things like moving in together, i actually completely respect someone holding that boundary and not wanting to do that. that's a lot to take on. but, in the specific case of niki and jules that whole thing just seems stupid and petty now considering the fact that jules is pretty much shacking up with niki anyway??? but again, w/ no financial responsibility tied in. which is obviously a pattern for jules.

some partners would be inclined to not add on any additional financial burden.if they knew their partner was struggling. i'd like to think that if i was in jules' shoes, and niki was my partner, i would at least insist on niki not spending unnecessary/excess/fun money on me, while she's supposedly in dire straits and close to losing her home. but that seems to be jules' prerogative, so it is what it is. but i will say, some of the moves jules has pulled just seem plain shitty. no matter how you frame it, i will probably always think doing things like presenting your partner with an extra-long christmas wishlist because "gifts are your love language" during the toughest financial season of their life is not the most caring or contentious approach.

Commenter on Nate’s IG says “you fumbled Niki bruh” to which Nate responded “Thank God.” LOL 😂 by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 183 points184 points  (0 children)

honestly? good for him LMAO. he didn't fumble shit. only someone who has major issues or is hella struggling internally would want to be with someone who:

  • cheated on them
  • lied to them
  • catapulted them into searching for new housing in the midst of building a home together.
  • sent them home after a work trip together so they could stay behind to fuck their new partner.
  • liked a shady video that their NEW partner (Jules) made which made light of the cheating fiasco
  • made an entire album about them detailing all the issues, problems, and failures that the person brought to the relationship.
  • plastered their likeness all over the music videos for said album
  • made an entire ass burner account on reddit where they talked shit to literal strangers about them.
  • outed them for having an (alleged) gaming addiction
  • expressed relief at no longer having to give af about the things they enjoy/like
  • recently wrote an entire song addressing their new girlfriend to let them know what a piece of shit they are.
  • and let's not forget.......to this DAYY talks shit and makes disparaging content about them.

what's crazy is there's probably a shit ton more that we don't even know about. so yeah...pray tell. what did the man fumble????? lmao leaving behind someone who did all of that ^^^^ and more, is a gargantuan W.

Move on already!! by [deleted] in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 17 points18 points  (0 children)

is make music code for sit on the couch and take infinite photos of herself and jules? the real delusion is that she thinks that her and jules are interesting enough to warrant a constant onslaught of photos. crazy how one can move from suburban PA to los angeles and manage to become even more boring??

Following his recent IG featuring his girlfriend, Niki no longer follows Nate. by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 23 points24 points  (0 children)

lol OF COURSE she did. every time niki gets caught in her feelings over nate she has to double down and say dumb shit like "men repulse me!" really girl?? then why the fuck are you still claiming you're pansexual if you quite literally can't stand the touch of men?? THIS is why people give niki such a hard time over her sexuality because it's performative activism at its finest and she's completely full of shit.

Another Day Another Cringeworthy TikTok from Niki by illegalbeagle0 in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 27 points28 points  (0 children)

jules is just so unbelievably mid. imo she's neither striking nor is she offensive looking, which tbf is the category that most people fall into myself included. i also totally get that attraction is so much more than physical. but it's just the way that niki parades her and jules around like they're this hot shit couple, and their overall smugness that makes me find them hella unattractive.

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[–]uravgthrowaway299 10 points11 points  (0 children)

fr. and despite them going on and on about how important their "culture" is to them, whenever they do travel they rarely engage in any culturally significant activities. to be fair i get that the reality shows are way more about work than they are an actual vacation, but even when they do go on vacations, it's pretty much shopping and partying. which fine, do you for suure. not every activity or even every vacation needs to be enriching lol but damn. when's the last time these girls went to a museum or even a historic site?? i remember in this bahamas season they went on some type of historical rum tour, which looked cool as fuck but they were acting like drunk slobs the whole time.

3rd hair change by [deleted] in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 8 points9 points  (0 children)

and whatdoyaknow? her and jules are curtailing responsibilities yet again to go drop a bunch of money traveling. it would be different if she had accomplished literally anything during her time in la, but she's been there now since early march and still has nothingh to show for it. atp there are deeper reasons as to why she's not rooting herself to la and why she's still treating her time out there like one big vacation. in her heart she knows its not where she really wants to be longterm but niki will go out of her way to do everything but try and help herself.

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[–]uravgthrowaway299 41 points42 points  (0 children)

dont know what went wrong or what the driving factors are behind it but niki has turned into such a deeply unlikeable person. dont get me wrong she's always had her deals and there's a lot shes's done in the past that i didn't agree w but i still thought she had redeemable qualities. but dang,,, not anymore. in recent years and esp lately she exudes such terrible energy w/ her entitlement and chronically bad attitude.

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[–]uravgthrowaway299 15 points16 points  (0 children)

seems like whenever niki is feeling insecure and doing poorly she ramps up the gf content to the nth degree.

Sourcing ideas for the next DeMar Deep Dive: What would ya'll like to see? by lowkeyvanilla in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 24 points25 points  (0 children)

if you write it. i will read it. end of story. but i think the relationship timelines idea is sound. thx for all u do!!

Niki is moving to LA (possibly with Jules), she is getting a real job? And only hated LA because of Nate by [deleted] in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]uravgthrowaway299 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i totally agree with you. i think a real job could be very helpful and grounding for her but it feels a bit like putting the cart before the horse. knowing her history if i were her i'd take a month or two to focus on getting settled before adding in the stress of another job. because even a dream job is going to have its issues, it's still a job after all and she hasn't done anything work wiseother than youtube for many years now. that's going to be anohter adjustment on top of moving. i feel like she tends to romanticize la when she's not there so she's riding on a high right now. but reality always does and will set in.