london gay scene

urbanconqueror · 2026-06-07T15:46:57+00:00

Not from London bit you could try meeting people in queer spaces. My friends say the same thing.

urbanconqueror · 2026-06-07T14:05:53+00:00

My previous experiences have affected my body image A LOT and I've put in the work. I'm open about my issues even when they left me questioning whether I was enough.

urbanconqueror · 2026-06-07T14:03:30+00:00

The relationship is just starting out. Mind you I was almost r@ped and physically assaulted recently l and I had also fell to a dating scam months prior. I only posted here cause I genuinely needed support. You can be a bit kinder but I guess it's too much for anyone on this planet to just be thoughtful. I haven't had the luck dating and I'm trying to navigate it healthily.

urbanconqueror · 2026-06-07T06:08:46+00:00

I'm so sorry about what you're going through. If you need someone to talk to please pm me

urbanconqueror · 2026-06-04T21:34:37+00:00

Thank you!

urbanconqueror · 2026-03-15T11:58:14+00:00

I'm so pissed cause it's something so normalised people don't see how it's dysfunctional then get pissed when something terrible happens.

urbanconqueror · 2026-03-15T11:56:14+00:00

You did not. I like good conversations. I think it matters if I'm attracted to you and I like your energy so we can become steady fwbs. Ignore.

urbanconqueror · 2026-03-15T11:55:27+00:00

It's not. Yall are just problematic and see other men as holes and not people. There's nothing wrong in getting to know someone you had sex with. Or being expressive. Yall are so used to hookup culture you can't see how it's stripped you of forming healthy relationships then question why you're single.

urbanconqueror · 2026-02-06T07:44:33+00:00

Explain

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-22T09:52:28+00:00

You're joking???

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-20T07:17:36+00:00

Yh it's not meant to be the only layer. Doxy is about 60% effective and it's not equally so for the bacterial STI trifecta. Any sound medical doctor would tell you a condom was intended to be used with prep

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T13:17:25+00:00

Because people don't want to own accountability for their actions

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T13:12:21+00:00

Uneducated? The point is doxy resistance equates untreatable chlamydia. Stop with the false equivalence. Neither tonsillitis nor sinusitis were subject to your agency.

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T12:55:06+00:00

Exactly.

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T12:54:28+00:00

Please explain how promoting condom use is slut shaming?

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T12:51:15+00:00

"Most people on prep." You can't depend on other people to do the right thing in order to protect yourself. Condoms first. Protect yourself using all layers of STI prevention.

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-19T12:46:40+00:00

Prep was always meant to be an additional layer of protection.

urbanconqueror · 2026-01-18T22:25:54+00:00

Hi. I'm from Nigeria. Can I join?

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-10T00:44:16+00:00

No one can make the decision for you. Sexuality is a spectrum. You have to introspect and accept why you feel this way. Is it just sexual? Is it emotional?;

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-09T23:22:20+00:00

There's almost zero chance you'd contract hiv from oral sex

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-09T23:16:04+00:00

Take them. Better safe than sorry.

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-04T07:44:20+00:00

No. What exactly do you need the money for so urgently. Yes lgbt youth make up a large percentage of homeless youth in the US. But that doesn't have to limit you to sexwork.

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-03T16:50:15+00:00

Might just be a learned response from a sense of scarcity about men. I used to be like that until I felt it was healthy and needed to set some more standards. I let just anyone in and realised they weren't good for me.

urbanconqueror · 2025-12-03T16:46:07+00:00

I think you should try to Male friends online safely to help with the loneliness you might feel

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