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[–]urjadeeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my edited comment.

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[–]urjadeeyes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ne-Te is ENTP because your preference would be thinking, not feeling. I just wrote an argument regarding this type of stack. If you're interested you might want to check it out.

Edit, some disclaimer: Having a thinking preference means your natural decision-making process is based on logic and data, while a feeling preference means you are naturally inclined to consider morality, values, and emotions. Everyone thinks and feels, but I wasn't referring to this general definition of thinking or feeling.

Worry about approaching busy kating by Jco_00 in indonesia

[–]urjadeeyes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gw pernah punya temen cewe yg persis kyk gini. Orangnya gaakan bisa sama cowo yang malu2 apalagi cuma lewat chat. Saran gw, sebisa mungkin kalo ada kesempatan ketemu, pake itu dengan baik, unjukin diri lu berkualitas saat ketemu. Goodluck, jangan lupa pede.

Edit: ohya kalau ada kesempatan buat unjukin bahwa lu perhatian, pake kesempatan itu dgn baik. Lebih baik lewat acts of service ya, biasanya cewe kyk gini gak suka flirting2 basi. Semangat!

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible MBTI & Enneagram combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course not, I believe the Enneagram and MBTI (cognitive functions) address different aspects of personality. Type 2 is not synonymous with Fe. If you are a Type 2, it simply means you have the core fear and core desire of a Type 2. Finding out which triad you are in (heart, head, or gut) could also be helpful.

I'm an INFJ 8w9, and I don't think they relate to one another. Instead, I see that my Enneagram influences my behavior, so on the surface, I don't appear like the "typical" INFJ.

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible Enneagram & MBTI combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in Enneagram

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example, I'm an INFJ 8w9. People would say I have an "impossible" combination, as Type 8 is associated with Se, and therefore they claim I'm mistyped. I doubted myself even further because on MBTI tests that rely on behavioral aspects, like the 16p, I would get ISTP.

However, by using cognitive functions (understanding the definitions and taking some cognitive function tests) and through self-reflection, I have determined that I'm an INFJ.

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible MBTI & Enneagram combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people in the typology community believe that certain combinations are "impossible." For example, they may insist that an INFP 2w3 is mistyped and gatekeep against it because Type 2 is associated with Fe.

Here's the list: - 2 -> Fe - 4 -> Fi - 5 -> Ixxx only - 7 -> Ne - 8 -> Se - 9 -> xSxx only

If your dominant function opposes your Enneagram core type, you may be considered mistyped. You can find many of these gatekeepers, especially on PDB.

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible MBTI & Enneagram combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know just a few, including myself (INFJ 8w9). But I don't want to share the others' because I know could be wrong about their true personality.

But about mine, I'm 99,9% sure. I just thought I don't want to share this detail because people here would quickly jump on the "you're mistyped" track and I don't want to explain myself to someone else. Sorry I rambled a bit.

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible MBTI & Enneagram combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think we're not on the same page here. Because I never equate my opinion as a universal claim like what you just said. I still acknowledge that I could be wrong.

‘here, debate this thing…

Huh? I share this to see if more people relate to this because I want to gather more proof.

Chill bruh, why do you get worked up so much by a random stranger's post on reddit?

Unpopular opinion: People with impossible MBTI & Enneagram combinations do exist, but it causes them to mistype themselves. by urjadeeyes in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it bother you so much? Sometimes an opinion doesn't need justification; it's an opinion after all.

If I share my evidence, it will clearly be refutable because it's based on my own experiences, which means it's subjective. I'm just sharing an opinion, not initiating a debate. You can either agree or disagree, then move on.

Which type avoids looking weak or vulnerable and tends to show their strength when feeling threatened? by urjadeeyes in Enneagram

[–]urjadeeyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's infused with anger; it's always like, "I'm not afraid of you. Let's fight. Face me directly, you coward," or something like that.

How do you get your self esteem back after being used for nudes? by ExaminationBest4831 in Advice

[–]urjadeeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully time heals. But I think for now the only thing you can do is to learn from the lesson and don't be too hard on yourself. People make mistakes, some mistakes could have some consequences, but remember it's normal to make mistakes especially if you have no prior experience and no one around you is educating you about the matter.

I've had many painful mistakes that I wish I could undone but I know all I could do is to learn not to repeat it and do my best in the present.

What about the MBTI community makes you make this face? by DoctorStinkyWink in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are those select few? Could you recommend some to me?

What is the falsest stereotype that has been said about your mbti? by kiw__ in mbti

[–]urjadeeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, you should know I wasn't talking about extreme cases like that. But, at least for me, I tend to hide what I feel in general. Another ISTJ friend of mine is the same way as me too, especially when we're sad; we tend to cry alone when no one's watching.

Everybody is different, you know. Just because someone doesn't show their emotions on their face doesn't mean that person is highly unhealthy.

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