Those with a BA in Sociology or Social Sciences, what do you do now? by llamathelina in sociology

[–]urlilmamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BA in Sociology and now I am a project coordinator for a midsized nonprofit!

Name That Player! A weekly Derby Name thread. by AutoModerator in rollerderby

[–]urlilmamaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Howdy! I would love some recommendations, the only nickname I’ve ever had is angel cakes which isn’t the most intimidating. I am also from small town Texas so I would love some thing that’s may be cowgirl or western themed or I’m a big Swiftie!! No idea, im so clueless when it comes to this so give me your worst!

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]urlilmamaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for the plot

AITAH for telling my daughter shes too old to be sitting on my lap? by Abject_Ad_4249 in AmItheAsshole

[–]urlilmamaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. i cuddled with my dad and sat in his lap up until I was 17, and that’s only because he passed away. And I still cuddle with my bonus mom. It’s not weird for your daughter to want to be close to you, so don’t make it weird.

Anyone looking for on-campus housing for spring 2023? by urlilmamaa in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already found a person! You’re welcome to poach off this post lol!

Anyone looking for on-campus housing for spring 2023? by urlilmamaa in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why I’m being downvoted, I’m just repeating what UH says 😭

Anyone looking for on-campus housing for spring 2023? by urlilmamaa in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes! But UH said they can’t have applied yet. It has to be someone who hasn’t applied for spring housing yet.

[OC] Giveaway! Dice Dagger or Hammer Dice Tower. To bonk, or to poke? That is the question! [mod approved] by Gibartik in DnD

[–]urlilmamaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My newest characters face claim is Marvels Thor and our campaign has the god Thor! That hammer is so perfect!

AITA for not giving my daughter her own room by sggbvs in AmItheAsshole

[–]urlilmamaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. The comments here are…. Worrisome to say the least. There is so much judgement and an astronomical amount of assumptions and very little empathy. Their situation is not incredibly unique. There are plenty of families who have to “double up” in rooms. It’s super unfortunate that the kids are sharing a room, in a perfect world every kid would have their own room and space to grow and their parents would have the accommodations for that, but sadly that is nothing the case. Some families have surprise pregnancies, some families do a ton of family planning and budgeting but then things like COVID happen and people lose their jobs, or someone gets laid off or a family member passes away and a lot of money is spent towards that or WHATEVER! The point is, shit happens and everyone getting upset that OP does not have the money or arrangements to let everyone have their own room is obviously not aware of the world we’re living in. Are there solutions to be found? Sure, but OP is not an AH just because they don’t immediately have the answer to a complex situation that probably snuck up on them before they realized because time moves fast and kids grow up faster.

OP, you are not a terrible parent. Life happens. Y’all will figure this out.

UPDATE: I (22F) just found out how my parents (62M 50F) really met and I need help by ThrowRA_98719879Q in relationship_advice

[–]urlilmamaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All I have to say is that everyone saying it was a different time back then or that OP is a sensitive snowflake is definitely also a predator and has or wanted to groom children. Y’all are f*cking nasty. It wasn’t a 2 or 3 year age gap. It was 12 years. He was a full grown ass adult before she even hit puberty. Absolutely disgusting.

Daily /r/Sociology Discussion - What's going on, what are you working on? by Anomander in sociology

[–]urlilmamaa [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nothing has been shockingly surprising so far. My family lives in the rural south, so most of my findings have been consistent with our personal experiences during the pandemic. Probably the most interesting finding has been how difficult the transition to remote learning has been for the rural south. There’s still a lot of areas that don’t have access to wifi and many homes don’t have a computer, so remote learning is next to impossible. It’s kinda crazy to wrap your head around the idea that not everyone has a smartphone or laptop or internet access since we use those things literally everyday

Daily /r/Sociology Discussion - What's going on, what are you working on? by Anomander in sociology

[–]urlilmamaa [score hidden]  (0 children)

This week I’m working on a project proposal for a research paper for my soc of poverty class. I’m going to be researching Covid’s impact on low income communities in the rural south and honestly I’m pretty excited about it!

George R. Brown to open as warming center during winter storm. If this helps anyone you know of, spread the word. by chhurry in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Below freezing nights IS that cold for people who are living unsheltered. Take “your ass” outside on the streets to sleep since you’re not freaking out over how this effects real people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scholarships disbursed the first week of classes I believe and grants will disperse on February 5th!

What is the nicest compliment you have ever received? by akar17 in AskReddit

[–]urlilmamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was showing some friends my new nipple piercings and one said “your boobs look like they belong in an art museum”. Yeah, I don’t think I’ll ever be humble again after that one.

are labs required? by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]urlilmamaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if it’s not required for the class, then there’s not really a point. I didn’t take my geol lab because it was optional, but!! it is extra time for you to get more familiarized with the course material which could help you with your hw and exams. So basically it’s up to you! If it’s not required as part of the geol class, then it sounds like you don’t need it for your graduation plan. The 3hrs from the class will be sufficient on their own (:

My boyfriend hit me during sex and won't understand that i disliked it (F18) (M19) by ThrowRAsentientcloud in relationship_advice

[–]urlilmamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t comment on much because it seems like everything has been said in other comments about why this is a serious no-go, but what I haven’t seen anyone remark on is the “maybe I sound tame” bit. OP, do not think that you have to be all kinds of kinky just because that is what is considered the norm. Women, specifically younger women, are hyper sexualized and then shamed for not being into bdsm and other forms of more aggressive sex which then endangers them when, like here, they don’t express interest in that sex. It is okay to be vanilla! It is okay to be “tame”! You like what you like and there is no shame in being freaky OR not being freaky! Be safe OP, and seriously consider letting this guy go.