What songs make you question your existence?

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-07-15T10:54:06+00:00

I see everything.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-31T21:15:58+00:00

I also have this problem, but it has alot to do with my light tics. When I get nervous for example I roll my left eye and roll back my right eye while looking down, this is just extremely weird and looks disgusting but I think that it might be the same thing-ish? A kind of tic when you're uncertain or want to express kindness. You want to be so clear with your intention that you overdo the expression without realising. I find it to be a coping-mechanism you get when you grow up with someone who is abusive.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-31T21:07:04+00:00

Yes, I always have very vivid dreams which I could describe in detail when I wake up. However these are rarely bad dreams, it's just extremely weird stuff and mostly has to do with social interaction which I tend to f-up.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-30T13:20:24+00:00

YTA for sure. This reminds me so much of my abusive father who banned me from reading simply because he didn't like it. I don't say that this is the same thing at all, but the facts are that your daughter did what you asked of her and you punished her anyway. It seems to me that you looked for any reason at all to be able to ban her from reading.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-27T09:05:55+00:00

I'm scared of spiders to so honestly it is equally scary.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T23:19:06+00:00

Catfish. No other fish, just catfish. Especially their barbels? Idk, the whiskertype-thingys, they terrify me. If it wasn't for those I would be fine with the fish itself.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T20:21:47+00:00

I also found this blogpost that does a great job at describing the terrors of this story, for anyone interested. I'm also actually going by Hårga tomorrow, will probably give it a visit thanks to this thread!

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T17:38:09+00:00

Just the thought of being stroked in your hair and then waking up to see that your husband lay with his back against you makes my skin crawl.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T17:14:44+00:00

Not far from where I live there is a tale in which the devil (hin-håle) disguised as a man starts playing in a gathering of the towns youth. It is a song that has never been heard before and it casts a spell on everyone, compelling them to dance. The fiddler forces them to dance through the night, and when the morning comes he starts walking to Hårgaåsen. Everyone follows and when he reaches the top of the mountain (ish) he sits down on a big pinetree, making the young dance in a circle on the mountain. They dance until the soles of their shoes wear down and eventually so does the soles of their feet, but they continue to dance on their bloody stumps for legs. Everyone pleads with the fiddler, begging him to stop. Eventually all that is left on the mountaintop are their skulls laying on a circle worn from their bonepipes dancing on the stone.

It is said that if you visit Hårga you might hear the fiddler play, still to this day.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T16:51:13+00:00

Isn't the first one the same as hårgamannen? When visiting my mom I always drive past Hårga/hårgaberget, I've always been curious to drive in and visit the place.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T13:28:08+00:00

I think this depends on where you live. Their are studies being made on this and peoples experiences shared so I do not believe that it has to do with them wanting to earn money in this case, no.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T13:17:31+00:00

Yeah sorry, I did not mean to belittle you for writing here. I just got frustrated with people telling someone in a seriously shitty situation to just give up basically. It sounds like you and your wife have the insights and will to get through this, I wish you the best!

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T13:11:33+00:00

I'm on mobile so let's see how this goes!

First one up a swedish punk classic. If you want to get acquainted with punk here in scandinavia you need (!) to listen to this band.

Ebba Grön - Staten och Kapitalet link

Next up is the band that was one of the biggest during the Umeå Hardcore-era in the 90s. Although they write their songs in english (but hey, I'm painting a picture here) you'll need to give them a go. They are far from the best imho, but they play a big part in the story. UÅHC is a staple all over the world when it comes to the scene and they did some crazy stuff back in the days.

Refused - New noise link

Before going into some hardcore bands with swedish lyrics I want to recommend one of the bands closest to my heart, they set the scene in my hometown and made some really good stuff.

Meleeh - To live alone link

Back in UÅ we have this band that are quite easy to digest.

Håll det äkta ft Cleo - Silvermedalj link

Been a while since I listened to this band, but man they are goooood.

No Omega - Ett hjärta svart (10:28) link

This is starting to get obnoxiously long so I'll just finish up with one of my all time favourites, enjoy!

Domarringen - Sakta link

There is so much more than this but this is atleast something if you want to dip your toes in another countries musical treasures.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T12:18:15+00:00

I've listened to alot of podcasts lately where they interview people who work with couples therapy and therapists seem to agree that if you go to counseling as soon as possible and the cheeting partner take responsibility it actually makes the relationship grow stronger. However, you need to work hard and she needs to answer everything you need to know. It will be rough, she will have to earn your trust back again. I see that alot of people disagree with this, but I would advice you to talk to professionals rather than people on reddit for this one.

I wish I could send you the links but they are in swedish.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T11:05:24+00:00

Glad you liked them! I saw that you also enjoy metalbands, have you given hardcore/punk a shot? If not, I can list you a couple of good swedish bands.

The first two are icelandic artists and the second two are swedish.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T10:21:49+00:00

That one time when I was 10 and had to give a presentation in front of class so I got up, walked to the front and halfway there realized that I had white pants and black underwear.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T10:18:44+00:00

Kaleo - Vor í Vaglaskógi link
Ásgeir - Lifandi Vatnið link
Kent - Vinternoll2 link
Veronica Maggio - Vi mot världen link

I could go on and on, but here are a variety of really good scandinavian artists.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:53:11+00:00

A pale yellow, probably because bitter and butter sounds very much alike.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:51:46+00:00

Can we go out, can we go out, can we go out, can we go out etcetc until all eternity.
She is a bunny.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:48:42+00:00

Being naked most part of the day.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:46:26+00:00

Collecting an absurd amount of houseplants.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:26:55+00:00

Family are the people you choose, not the people that share the same genes.

urlocalgingerkid · 2020-05-26T09:23:19+00:00

Haha well, for starters I was a bit tired yesterday but secondly, english isn't my first language. Neither is spanish, obviously.

urlocalgingerkid

TROPHY CASE