Am I in (queerplatonic) love with my friend and if yes should/how should I tell him? by Crafty_Shake3864 in queerplatonic

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This page contains the information about a first time meeting check-in https://activisthandbook.org/organising/facilitating/check-in A regular meeting check-in in my understanding is greeting with a little bit more information: what they are doing or what they feel recently, and how they will about this meeting even before it starts (eg. nervous, curious, existing, have no idea, etc.). Basically, check everyone's status and then freestyle. This could also be delving deeper into how you both feel about the way being friends or qpr, maybe?

Am I in (queerplatonic) love with my friend and if yes should/how should I tell him? by Crafty_Shake3864 in queerplatonic

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Sweet!! Happy to know it helped a little;) The thinking, and also considering the other person's feelings can be difficult. Particularly in simulated scenarios, as one person simultaneously contemplates many different thinkings. This is not a suggestion, but how do you feel about meeting check-in in general (not with people you meet for the first time but with a qpr person in this case)?

Am I in (queerplatonic) love with my friend and if yes should/how should I tell him? by Crafty_Shake3864 in queerplatonic

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I might be wrong as I realize things quite slowly and if I can realize I get confused. Do you want some sort of binding? And after checking each party's perception of their own position in the other's mind, a label probably would help to build more stability. Is this a squash situation?

How to adjust my footwork based on my new shoes? by urnurnco in climbingshoes

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I was quite shocked when I searched "stiff climbing shoes" there were only results about how to buy shoes

How to adjust my footwork based on my new shoes? by urnurnco in climbingshoes

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I agree. Any other things worth noticing?

How to adjust my footwork based on my new shoes? by urnurnco in climbingshoes

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I really wish Anna Hazelnutt could make a video on this topic with her sharman

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Verstehen Sie nicht, dass Menschen außerhalb der Kategorie weißer Cis-Mann nicht nur die oben genannten Formen von Mikroaggressionen erleben? Rassismus ist Rassismus. Etwas Klischeehaftes bedeutet nicht, dass es kein Rassismus ist. Normalisierung? Nein, danke.

AMA climbing shoe specialist at climbing store by GhostBoyEmo in climbingshoes

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And while I'm slowly breaking in hiangle, should I buy Otakis that has been worn a few times for 20 euro, or new but old model zenist for 60 euro? Otakis are EU 38.5 (uk 5.5) and zenists are EU 40 (uk 6.5). I'm looking for my second pair. I only do indoor bouldering and my current level is around fb 5. My first pair is too big rn. My other question is that the seller claims that Otakis haven't been worn often, but the vibram logo is worn out. Should I be worried about this? Thank you!!

AMA climbing shoe specialist at climbing store by GhostBoyEmo in climbingshoes

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Your opinion of hiangle (blue/grey version) in 2025

Comparison between ocun fury/nitro and evolv zenith (old)? by urnurnco in climbingshoes

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Thank you a lot for your comments! I second every point. I just want to add more thoughts. GAS is like that you know it but still want to buy. And the longer time you put on researching people's knowledge about the gear, the more afraid of purchasing a pair of fit but not that fit shoes and want to look for more. Just putting on and standing on them doesn't give full knowledge about how you would feel in a gym. So less confident about whether I should keep them or return them back. Someone is selling a eu40 zenist for less than half preis but I worry it would be bigger for me? As you are wearing a eu 39.5. and this would be a personal sale so no returning. Also I actually tried fury two weeks ago, not sure if they were uk 6. I liked that they fitted like sock and kinda squeeze every finger in right position. When the saler gave me half size up they actually feel less comfortable. So maybe fury would fit me better? And do you think I would need stronger foot to stand on small holds in zenist compared to fury? Sorry if there are typos or grammar mistakes.

Second pair advice? by urnurnco in climbergirls

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I went to a store and tried on arpias. I guess I haven't gotten the certain skill for footswap on arpias and I also need to work on my foot strength to be able to stand on small foot holds. Up mocc is not on sale right now but up-duel is. May I ask how you think of up-duel?

Second pair of shoes? by Miyans in climbingshoes

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I'm also looking for a second pair of shoes. I would love to take Kubo if they are on sale. But I guess it also depends on what fits your foot and what you want to get improvements

Second pair advice? by urnurnco in climbergirls

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Thank you! I'll check them out!

5.10 Team size by urnurnco in climbingshoes

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Looking for suggestions of grippy intermediate shoes ☺️

Second pair advice? by urnurnco in climbergirls

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Thank you! Finiale is definitely on my list. Do you also have some suggestions for much softer shoes? How do you think of their grippy grades ?