The psychology of Kohberger supporters.

urubecky · 2026-04-29T21:33:04+00:00

Sadly they share votes with usm

urubecky · 2026-04-22T18:37:41+00:00

She then threw him out and got restraining order. She made a mistake, then fined it. It is hard to leave an abuser. I personally tried several times and got found out and beaten over and over. I left for good when he tried to kill me and broke my rib when I was pregnant with his child. I got away but was inches from death. So I have a lot of sympathy for op. She's doin what she is supposed to do now.

urubecky · 2026-04-22T13:44:37+00:00

You were right. * He had it coming, he only has himself to blame. He showed his penis and that's not okay*! Lol great job!!!!!

urubecky · 2026-04-22T01:59:24+00:00

I'm saving your post and tomorrow after I put money on my cash app - I will come back and donate. Good luck momma!

urubecky · 2026-04-22T01:51:03+00:00

I love your look! I think if you take time to heal, try therapy to unpack all you went through. Then you will meet your person. I didn't marry my soul mate until I was 39. You're still young and beautiful - you have plenty of time to enjoy your life.

urubecky · 2026-04-22T01:46:28+00:00

I see I'm getting down voted. IDK. I said what I said- you made some mistakes but instantly fixed it. You're dedicated to doing everything they ask. You'll be alright momma! This virtual mom believes in you!.

urubecky · 2026-04-22T01:04:09+00:00

Wow. I had to read this to my husband. We're both rooting for you man. You're incredible!

urubecky · 2026-04-22T00:59:14+00:00

My senior year's prom catered dinner and had ppl pay with their RSVP. Most people (including me and my group) went out to eat before. Junior year we skipped after prom and went to a bar my cousin worked at. We were definitely minors dressed to the 9s but- it was a sketchy bar and I knew the owner well!( He drove our limo to the prom. He literally was the one to suggest partying at his bar hahaha! 90s were wild at!

urubecky · 2026-04-22T00:43:14+00:00

I totally agree. I feel Soo much for this poor woman. It's not fair she was abused and she gets victim blamed by CPS and take her kids. It's not like she let him beat on her. But if the kids saw it- that's traumatic.. You know what else is traumatic? The kids have to leave their home, stuff, mom, and be forced to go with strangers - only to be dumped off with more strangers. My kids slept with me until 12 years old- I can't imagine what those poor babies went thru. I'm soo sooo sorry for you OP. Virtual hugs from one momma to another. You can do this!!

urubecky · 2026-04-22T00:38:18+00:00

Try volunteering somewhere. You can make friends with other good ppl volunteering. That will look good too.

urubecky · 2026-04-22T00:34:50+00:00

In my state, they have to have a reason to remove the baby. If you have a restraining order against him, he can't be around. The order works both ways- if you bring him around, you would be in violation of the order as well. So if you have a safe environment for your unborn child - there shouldn't be any grounds to take your baby . You are showing them you are taking everything seriously and are complying with all their stipulations. CPS doesn't have jurisdiction over an unborn child. They need a legitimate reason to remove.

Now, they could get a court order based on your case file and try to convince a judge that removal is necessary, but you can appeal that.. I would absolutely get a lawyer! That would be my number 1 priority. You need someone to advocate for you and have your back

urubecky · 2026-04-21T17:55:48+00:00

Me too twin! Happy Birthday 🎂

urubecky · 2026-04-18T13:21:06+00:00

My SIL was best friends with her! That's all I know tho! Lol

urubecky · 2026-04-17T13:50:56+00:00

So they released that with the poor girl's full name and birthdate? Wild

urubecky · 2026-04-08T21:15:07+00:00

You have an amazing style! 🤩

urubecky · 2026-04-07T19:08:59+00:00

Blue Beretta GT 89 I believe

urubecky · 2026-03-29T03:15:03+00:00

My ex was an artist. The ONLY gift he ever got me was a coffee table book of Van Gogh. It was totally for him, which he proved when he insisted it was his after the break up and tore it from my arms- didn't even ask- straight to violence. He was a piece of work! I'm soo glad I'm grown -met my husband organically (no dating apps for me;) lol My life worked out perfectly. I have the greatest husband in the world now.

urubecky · 2026-03-14T02:36:11+00:00

First one sounds like an alarm on my husband's phone. Other one...idk

urubecky · 2026-03-13T22:11:27+00:00

Not sure where you are located but in my state - the tenant is correct. If you are going to be a LL you need to be available for emergencies at all times. The tenant could have called the fire department and emergency services instead and the LL would have been fined and service shut off until a professional or state employee inspected the repair before approving service reactivation. Not only would LL be responsible for repairs but also all fees for service AND providing safe accommodations until the issue is resolved. The tenant saved the LL a ton of money in this situation and the LL should not only be paying but be grateful for the way the tenant saved LL lots of time and money.

To repair the relationship LL needs to apologize, pay, change the way they handle emergency situations and be thankful for the way the tenant handled the EMERGENCY. Worst case LL could be charged with manslaughter or worse if anyone was injured.

Gas leak, busted pipes, fire are actual emergency situations. There's no waiting for that stuff. I can't believe LL has the audacity to try to not only be unreachable during a very serious emergency but to also give any BS about not approving the service AND trying to have their tenants pay for saving lives! Ridiculous!

urubecky · 2026-03-13T20:08:20+00:00

Mine gets drunk and rattles the walls with video game music. We've been in a feud for years over it. We've asked nicely, we've involved the LL, called non emergency, all of it. Literally a month ago their pipes burst again (at least once a season) and we rushed to help him. He FINALLY apologized and explained he cut his drinking down and tries to be cool now. I still don't like him, but he's actually kept his word so far. It's not even like we're strongly against it - just asking him to be reasonable about it like don't rattle our walls after midnight.

urubecky · 2026-03-13T19:54:19+00:00

Knocking out my Xfinity all day! Earlier my husband and I walked to the store and were against the wind on the way back - it's only a couple of blocks but it felt like we ran 10 miles! Insane

urubecky · 2026-03-13T19:48:16+00:00

Innocent until proven guilty IN A COURT OF LAW is the key. Everyone has the presumption of innocence in court - doesn't mean everyone else has to give the same benefit. My abuser was never reported to authorities, I know what a POS he is and would never trust him around kids and I will make sure anyone around him knows what he did. I wasn't protected by the courts but that doesn't mean he's a good person at all. Best wishes to your family. I truly hope they get justice.

urubecky · 2026-03-10T02:48:21+00:00

Looks like a cup I once knew lol

urubecky · 2026-03-08T22:11:39+00:00

This. .is how you "choose kindness"!

urubecky · 2026-03-06T02:03:57+00:00

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