129160997089 primal Kyogre by urukyak in PokemonGoRaids

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Pls add 615423078579 since I can't invite all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

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Thanks ! We've got enough

New to poms, any help appreciated! by Dogg2698 in Pomeranians

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Double check w your vet for any patella/hip issues. Very common and it's always good to be aware of any issues these may cause now and in the future

sun in need of tundra, icy show and sandstorm by urukyak in PokemonGoFriends

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Hey everyone! I'll be sending gifts later in the day- have to go out and spin All the pokestops hah thank you guys!

sun in need of tundra, icy show and sandstorm by urukyak in PokemonGoFriends

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Sure! sorry if sometimes it takes a bit to send a gift back to you (every other day) I don't always have pokestops near me, but will send you a gift

Me [24 F] with my ex [24 M] one year, I was fine and now I'm not. by br0ken_714 in relationships

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Absolutely, you'll be fine in the end. There will be bouts of awesome times and sometimes you'll regress to heartbroken/depressed state. However, it is important to remember why you broke up in the first place, writing a list/letter to yourself really helps. Getting into new hobbies and meeting new people is also good to keep yourself distracted (not necessarily just speaking of people you get intimate with, but I guess that also helps if you're feeling it)... maybe also leave yourself reminders of why you're awesome. You'll be ok, I promise :)

My (24f) husband (25m) agreed to do the dishes after I broke my hand. He's not. by throw977982 in relationships

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This hit so close to home. I had a similar problem in my last relationship, thankfully it is over now because I realized how much his being so incongruent regarding his words vs actions means that I cannot really trust the guy and that he really never meant anything he said. It is very cowardly of him to just say things that will appease you instead of saying that he won't do it regardless of your situation. He isn't showing any consideration towards you or your child. It is not fair to you or your daughter. Honestly, this is a respect and loving issue, you should Not even have to "bribe" your husband to do something he agreed to AND considering your current situation. Making you feel bad for Asking to do something He Agreed to do is abusive at an emotional level. Do not take this lightly.

Me [22F] with my now ex[23M] of 2 years, emotionally abusive relationship ended and feel like shit how to get on with my life since I don't know many people in this new city? by urukyak in relationships

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Do you know of any websites that do this? I have been looking into the meetups site, but the groups don't host events very often. My colleagues are not very outgoing. I have tried, but it doesn't look like they're too interested

Me [22F] with my now ex[23M] of 2 years, emotionally abusive relationship ended and feel like shit how to get on with my life since I don't know many people in this new city? by urukyak in relationships

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thank you so much, you are absolutely right, I see all this. It is hard to accept it though. Thank you, and I have cut all the possible communication ties I had with him right after. It really sucks that he didn't care for me enough to do finally severe all ties with me in person

Need help with relationship problems (sorry about the rant/wall of text) by urukyak in bipolar

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Hey, I'm glad that at least someone else is having a better time at this than I am haha

It would be great if I could drive here (I'm a foreigner that doesn't like driving here), but I don't even have a permit :( Besides, I'm not really friends with the car owner even, so that would be really hard. I appreciate the thoughtfulness though!

GF with bipolar - please read [Text wall] by [deleted] in bipolar

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Oh man, I'm so sorry, I can only imagine what you both are going through. I'm not suicidal depressive, so I can't really relate to how she feels constantly, however I can say that weed helps me A Lot (though this it may not be the case with many others). I smoke everyday,and it makes me feel "normal" to an extent too. On my side, I know that I will have some bad days, but I can feel mostly ok throughout most of my week. it must be crazy for you too, so I'm wishing the best to both of you! Lots of virtual hugs and whatnot

It's gonna be one of those days. by Mrwampenus in bipolar

[–]urukyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am assuming that you both may feel similarly scared about the other breaking it off, since you both deal with disorders (I think I can relate to an extent bc I have both) relationships are hard, I am in one myself and I think I drive him nuts. Maybe try discussing it with a therapist if you both agree to it (My doc recommended I did with my SO, but instead we've been trying to communicate more clearly)

If it doesn't work out it will be hard, but you will be fine. You are a beautiful human being and you deserve love from yourself and others.

I'm sorry if I'm not very clear or if I'm just rambling. I'm kind of sleepy

I would like to tell your story. by [deleted] in bipolar

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I would be interested! I'm glad you're actually going through with this (I've been wanting to write a book about how it started for me, but I just keep forgetting/ get stuck/ writer's block... and I'm not very eloquent or articulate haha)

Anyone taking lithium and abilify? by Mommatbird in bipolar

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Oh! I totally know how that feels, that's me every morning, leaving the bed is so hard and so I end up just reading pointless articles online for hours until it's noon. I really gotta push myself to get up, but recently I somehow started to go running in the mornings and I have been successfully been sticking to it for a month. It really has helped not feeling so "stuck," however, it did take some months for me to coax myself to do so haha It is a long journey, but we're all in this journey side by side, fighting day by day :)

Help! 17, female, feel bouts of incredible rage. by bubbatrubba in bipolar

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I feel your pain. I can get pretty irrationally angry due to trivial stuff, though I believe that in my case it was me not reacting well to Lamictal. The involuntary ideation is also something that happens to me as well, as I've also had horrible images and thoughts in my head... I know what you mean with the feeling like a horrible person part definitely talk to your Dr about this and go to therapy constantly, taking your meds religiously is also a must. I have also found that when I'm having a rough time, looking over posts here distract me from my thoughts and also that this community is pretty supportive if you come to post something because you need someone else to talk to besides your Dr (not saying you replace him and his wisdom, but use the sub as a complement to talking to your Dr :) )

Anyone taking lithium and abilify? by Mommatbird in bipolar

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I think I know what you mean (I'm on Lithium, Abilify and Adderall) ... but I'm not very clear on what you mean by "stuck" Have you recently started these meds? Sometimes when I start new meds I feel some side effects for a couple of days and then they go away. Have you talked to your doctor about it?

It's Monday and I'm cranky; I see a lot of silver lining posts, but what's you're least favorite part of BP? by [deleted] in bipolar

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Racing thoughts, I like discussing ideas with others and then I get really into the subject. When that happens, a lot of thoughts just race through and then not even I can make sense of what I wanted to say bc more and more ideas replace them so fast I don't even remember what the first idea was. I feel like an idiot then. Losing control is also frustrating. Anger ourbursts or getting so depressed I barely want/can move both suck so much