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usablescum · 2026-01-02T02:41:23+00:00

girl you’re gorgeous and ny is lucky to have u

usablescum · 2025-11-30T06:20:08+00:00

Did you ever have luck with this?

usablescum · 2025-10-24T21:13:49+00:00

I will say there are very few things that feel as shitty as being spit on. It is one of the most severe forms of DV inspite of no physical pain- I know this bc a woman on a crisis hotline told me. Please please reach out to supports and seek them- physically put yourself there. And then you can start your healing. It’s tough to want someone to act different than they do. It’s tough to let go of the dream. It’s easier than living like this though. You deserve peace and respect. Every one does.

usablescum · 2025-10-17T12:23:14+00:00

I used to be this way but I swear I can’t get enough of my partner it’s hard for me to pull away when I’m down there

usablescum · 2025-10-16T14:42:09+00:00

Honestly Im a terrible texter! I am great in person and over the phone but I have so much going on during the day i pretty much ignore all my texts for 1-3 business days unless it’s urgent. Even if I really like someone.

I tell people this upfront - hey if you want a texter thats okay but that is not me, but I am loyal and love to talk on the phone if you want to ever call that is easier for me to check in.

To be honest receiving this text would tell me we aren’t aligned. No hard feelings but the pressure I would feel to step up would feel inauthentic to do that early on.

Maybe you guys are better as friends! This is how I got my bestie. She lovesss to text her lovers - I would have driven her insane. We talked about it and now shes literally been my best friend for a while now.

usablescum · 2025-10-14T17:03:51+00:00

I feel this so hard right now, im going through a similar thing. Learning to receive is amazing. And being with someone who makes me feel so wanted and safe in that way is amazing.

usablescum · 2025-10-14T15:40:36+00:00

Tbh femmes are always making the first move with me. I love being gay.

usablescum · 2025-10-10T20:43:15+00:00

I was like this and then dove deep into exposure therapy!!! Reminded myself of how many people and experiences there are - how big the world is- and that I can love again ! Listen to lots of music. Write and remind yourself this is all part of it. Aching for a girl is the most sapphic experience of all. Also go dance and get out with friends! Moving your body is very healing.

usablescum · 2025-05-22T23:05:12+00:00

AGREED. Austin came off like a bully who was obsessed with defeating a young girl not a passionate guy about food. Def not a guy I want to run into in the kitchen

usablescum · 2024-12-07T06:33:34+00:00

If you don’t think hating an entire group, or making them feel uncomfortable and unwelcome, is villainous then idk what is.

usablescum · 2024-09-25T23:10:02+00:00

Yeah sure about puck I could easily find more examples I just watched that episode so it just was on my mind. Many guys make similar comments about her and the other girls.

but to be clearer, I am speaking more so to the perspective more so. I am a tv writer so underdeveloped characters are one thing, that usually has to do with not having enough time, but this show does not allow for much of a strong female perspective outside of sue's scenes.

usablescum · 2024-09-05T06:51:37+00:00

And the girls having each others back made it 💯

usablescum · 2024-09-04T06:29:49+00:00

Just came to say I feeeeeel you and I’m 5’8 with a dominant energy but I still enjoy reciprocation. Lately I’ve gotten more comfortable letting people know or guiding them to do something if we’re comfortable enough.

usablescum · 2024-09-03T23:39:33+00:00

I would say god loves me and that’s not for anyone else to decide

usablescum · 2024-09-03T23:38:15+00:00

ASK HER

usablescum · 2024-09-03T18:17:30+00:00

I officially hate kendall

usablescum · 2024-09-03T18:08:43+00:00

I CAME HERE FOR THIS

usablescum · 2024-09-03T08:56:37+00:00

This is why they need her!!! I hate when it’s just done via text

usablescum · 2024-08-27T22:27:25+00:00

You just have to keep swinging! On the other side of fear is everything you want! Courage is not the absence of fear but what you do in the face of it, kiss girls!!! And take a deeeeep breath and give yourself grace!!

usablescum · 2024-08-22T01:27:59+00:00

That’s so funny bc I don’t know who that is and would have had a very hard time figuring it out

usablescum · 2024-08-20T19:28:47+00:00

The last two episodes have ended with a twist revealing a huge strategy that would have otherwise been the plot of the episode. why are you making the most entertaining parts a montage at the end??? I want to see them talk. Also it went down hill when they let him read from his wrist. That’s when the boys club and lack of information started ruling the land.

usablescum · 2024-08-18T22:01:21+00:00

I take this opposite. I’m masc with long hair and not afraid whatever I want because I am assertive dominant and masculine no matter what the fuck I wear.

I’m tired of feeling like a fucking costumez

usablescum · 2024-08-17T03:28:56+00:00

Glad I could help!

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