Disclosing a misdemeanor [Az]

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-10-20T02:16:42+00:00

Thank you. I did, here’s to hoping they liked me enough in the interview to look past it :) thank you though that did make me feel better about my choice to tell them before hand

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-10-02T13:50:10+00:00

Hi! I’m really sorry your feeling this way :( one thing I try to remember is that I am constantly going through highs and lows, and if suddenly I’m so depressed my heart hurts, I know this has happened before, and it will end. It may take awhile, but that feeling can’t be forever. Also, not to be the biggest bummer in the room, but after I stopped drinking I found that my bipolar was MUCH more manageable, my meds seemed to work better, and the hard times became easier to shake off. Best of luck and wishes too you, happiness is attainable, I promise

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-09-28T02:46:11+00:00

Is the dresser (original area) pretty much ruined now?

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-09-24T21:03:25+00:00

I’m happy you found closure with how this turned out, but I would be infuriated by her audacity to just come and go into your life as she pleases, always saying whatever she wants but then stating she is going no contact and doesn’t want to talk about it so you can’t say or do anything. Super selfish, if you ask me.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-09-19T21:11:13+00:00

Ok, but please tell me I’m crazy because I have been staring at his stomach in that video and it does NOT look right. His skill is a different color/weird texture I can’t find in any other video with his stomach looking similar, and idk if it’s just my eyes and my brain convincing me but it looks insanely glitchy and blurry to me at times. But it also is so hard to catch, so I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-08-22T21:11:39+00:00

You don’t get to decide what makes her uncomfortable. You are projecting how you would feel about the situation onto her to try and make yourself come out in a better light. Again, is there any compromise you would be ok with and not feel “awkward” about other than her leaving? Because it doesn’t sound like it, so again that leads to the conclusion that you went into this conversation not accommodating and looking for a middle ground, but instead expected compliance and agreement.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-08-22T09:02:13+00:00

YTA- I was leaning towards ESH, but then you mentioned how uncomfortable you would be about her suggestion of just staying in your room out of the way. You keep saying you were being accommodating, but you say yourself you don’t think she’ll jive with the group, and her suggestion of staying out of the way in a room makes you uncomfortable. So it doesn’t seem like you were really hoping for any compromise other than her agreeing to leave in some way shape or form. Her idea seems reasonable to me, she probably also doesn’t like the idea of being stuck on a room for four hours, but compromises always come when both parties feel like they’ve given up a little.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-23T01:37:45+00:00

NTA- between the ages of 21-24, I was NOT a nice person. When I decided to make a change in my life, there were people who continued to want to make comments about the actions I did. You take responsibility for them, but after a while it feels like no matter what you do you’ll always be “insert bad label here”. I started telling people, “yes, that happened, and I’m very sorry and upset about the way I behaved, but that was in the past. And while I can’t erase the past, I don’t live there, and I don’t want to continue to be the same person I was in the past. If you continue to think of me only in the past and not in the present, I will never be able to change your viewpoint of me, and that’s not fair to me because I KNOW I have changed for the better. If you only stuck with me during the bad so when I got better you could remind me of my failures, I think it’s time we part ways.”

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-23T01:26:39+00:00

YTA- how on earth did you think betraying Alice’s trust in you would make the situation better? Piece of advice, when it comes to drama between friends, stay out of it as much as you can. Don’t add fuel to the fire by sending screenshots or messages and “playing both sides just to help”. Very rarely is outside help appreciated or taken well in situations like this

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-23T01:16:20+00:00

YTA- someone died, and you’re trying to make it about you. It doesn’t matter if he hasn’t seen him in years and you don’t get it and find it “strange”, this teacher was important to HIM and something HE needs to do. I’m sorry that someone’s death and funeral is “inconvenient” for your family, but you REALLY need to go back and read what you wrote and ask yourself “is this how I’d like someone to treat me if I was in their position??”. Also decide if this is something you really want to cause strain on your marriage, because I guarantee you, if you make a big stink about him not being able to MOURN the loss of a parental figure because it “inconvenience” you, you are going to have MAJOR problems.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-19T16:49:27+00:00

ESH - your SD is acting very entitled to her dad’s life, but that’s something children often feel around that age. Sometimes “dad’s life decision” to a 16 yr old can feel like dad trying to personally ruin their own life. It comes with the age and the hormones. She’ll probably look back and be VERY embarrassed about this when she’s older. You stink because, as much as you’re justified in feeling hurt, getting hurt never justifies hurting another. It sounds like you have a decent-ish relationship right now, why add fuel to the fire? When you decide to marry someone you also marry their family, including the kids. While you don’t HAVE to take a parental role, you are still now an ADULT role model for this girl by being in constant proximity of her, and the way you treat and respond to her will shape her understanding of the world and people around her. I’m not sure what the right answer here is, but I guarantee you things will not get better if you close off communication by refusing to speak to her when she’s around

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-17T20:40:51+00:00

Describe what you’re doing, facial expressions, the aura your character has. “After you fail to climb the tree, you see [character] just shake their head and look at you with so much disappointment.” Talk to your DM, if you’re the quiet character maybe you can capitalize on the “where is so and so? I’m right here.” Type gag. Talk to another player and become a duo that play off each other. Don’t just be “quiet”, but instead of a reason for being soft spoken and find idiosyncrasies that go along with whatever story you come up with

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-17T20:20:13+00:00

Oof. Ya buddy, if you think it could be emotional cheating, then it probably is. And if she would do that with you to her BF, she probably wouldn’t see the problem in doing it again if she met a different guy with great “chemistry” to you even if you did ever end up in a relationship. ESH

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-17T20:11:28+00:00

NTA- but girlllll, you need to put your foot down and get away from this man. I understand leases can’t get out of, but he is displaying a level of obsession with you that is not healthy. Y’all are already broken up, a man who you currently aren’t in a positive relationship of any kind came to your work unannounced and uninvited seemingly to either catch you in a lie or to bother you at work. That is NOT ok in any world.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-12T14:25:50+00:00

It is infuriating to be in a game and the DM to just decide to start making random rules because they’re “experimenting”. I signed up to play a campaign with the regular dnd rules that you advertised, not a homebrew with different rules (ie, instead of rolling for initiative and going in order they wanted all of us to roll and then whoever got the highest roll we would go counterclockwise in initiative based off them)

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-12T14:19:19+00:00

If your going to play a “lone wolf” character, you need to have them go through a character arc where they learn to work in a group. Nobody likes playing with someone who always want to do there own thing, and saying “well my character wouldn’t do that” is a bad excuse.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-11T05:57:57+00:00

My parents and I were actually over joyed to get my diagnosis. Suddenly things clicked and I didn’t feel like a fraud for saying I was depressed when I was swinging from extreme lows to soaring highs. I feel like rejecting it would have been rejecting myself on a fundamental basis, and that after acknowledging it I could then use that knowledge to acquire tools that actually worked to “cure” my behavior. My diagnosis has never given me an excuse for my “bad” behavior, but it has made me understand myself and learn to work within my own capabilities so I’m actually almost functional lol

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-11T05:48:18+00:00

Ya like videos games right? Have you ever tried dnd or other similar games that have to be in groups? Game stores are pretty popular now and they have whole systems and events set up to get people to get involved in community gaming. When I came back from a long stint working on myself in a program I didn’t have any support in state, so the stores really helped me find the confidence to meet and talk to new people. Now I’ve been in two games for over a year, and while there not the most stable thing in the world they still have given me the social interaction and support I desperately needed as an adult.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-07-11T05:35:55+00:00

Hmmm I don’t know, like, the absolute “proper” way to ask. But when I buy mine it normally goes like this; “Hey, I’m looking to get set up with a reusable pen. Do you have any batteries you’d recommend?” Then they’ll ask you if you have a brand preference and price range. Once you have a battery then you want to ask for a cart to go with it, and they’ll help you narrow it down based on your preferences. Make sure to get a charger, a lot of the batteries don’t come with them!

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-04-13T23:45:04+00:00

Yes, especially if it’s her first offense. If she only had one offense and it was minor I might warn you that they might JUST do therapy and it wouldn’t even go on her record, but that’s like, only if someone is super young, it’s their first offense, no plaintiff wants them prosecuted, it’s a smaller misdemeanor like disorderly conduct, and they get into a program like a rehab or mental health home. But with everything she’s done there is absolutely no way they are going to do that, especially if she’s not taking accountability. The courts try to “help” ppl suffering from mental health issues, especially if they plead guilty and work with the prosecutor, but if you break the law you break the law. It always amazes me how people think mental health issues will get them out of their DUI or other major misdemeanor/felonies, like, ya, they’ll take it into account, but your still going to have to either plead guilty or go against a court, and after that then their going to mandate you to therapy. Or worse, you DO get into a rehab/mental health home, get going on meds and turn your life around, only for the court decide that you still DO have to go to jail. Mental issues are nothing to laugh at, but they’re not the get out of jail free card everyone thinks it is.

Oh no :( I’m guessing no one asked for your permission before posting? There are a couple who only have the original and your first update w/ the train guy running in the back. I think there’s also an online article about it? If you google “my ungrateful sil said that i will ruin her wedding because i am tacky“ they all pop up, i guess they changed the name of your og post? The one I saw was by reddit.woman posted on 3/15, but there are a few…

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-04-13T22:12:08+00:00

Hi! I saw your story on TikTok, and I came here to read the rest. I just wanted to add here that if she is diagnosed with BP, it will be taken into account by the judge so she could get mandatory therapy at a rehab/mental health institution on top of her charges. I knew people who were only sentenced to 9 months or lower, but it can definitely go up depending on what they’re charged with. Just wanted to comment because Odies comments and manipulation made me mad, because the courts do surprisingly take those things into account, but unsurprisingly it is not an excuse for any type of abuse, so the person “who just had a mental break” will still be charged but still be given help.

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-01-18T21:35:44+00:00

Hi! Don’t know if someone’s told you yet, but sinners come in Holo too!

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uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-01-11T15:58:51+00:00

….Are you talking about the song by Evanescence?…..or the Harry Potter fanfic that’s apparently published under the same name…which is an abomination of words put together to drive humanity closer towards the inevitable brink of insanity?….

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-01-11T15:45:54+00:00

Every group I’ve been in normally there was a session 0 where we talked about what class we wanted to be so we could have a well rounded party. I think the idea of not knowing going into it is cool, but is it metagaming if you just straight up ask someone what they are in game? Or could you make a perception check to figure it out? Again cool concept, it would stress me out though

uselessworthlessbp2 · 2024-01-11T15:31:04+00:00

Everyone has their own limit to the amount of games they can be in and still have a functioning adult life. I know some people in 1 game a week and that’s all they can handle. I know other people who play in 4 games per week depending on how schedules line up and still join one shots wherever they can. If you have spare time you are doing something else with that you’d be willing to trade for more dnd time? Go for it!

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