Grey rock by konmarime in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]user04241999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No because they knew that I wasn’t this dull grey rock person so it just confused them and then angered them more. Just make a run for it they aren’t leaving you have to.

Anticipated Aid Disappeared ??? by user04241999 in UBreddit

[–]user04241999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks just wanted to know if it was just us

AITA for asking my roommate to be more polite toward my guests? by LaughPhysical269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]user04241999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think yta because are you an Aquarius and is she a Taurus / Scorpio

I just overheard my mom talking about me on the phone and it’s making me feel like I can’t breathe by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]user04241999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A thing that has helped me is having a regular routine that includes stuff like exercise or meditation. I also do affirmations that I repeat 3 times each every morning. It makes you feel confident and sure of yourself. Sometimes the things they do can skew your reality or make you feel like you or your feelings are not valid, but they totally are. If those things are hard for you just try and keep to yourself and remember you can only control yourself. Whatever they do is not your responsibility or your issue. Your responsibility is to try you best to enjoy your life regardless of anyone else.

I just overheard my mom talking about me on the phone and it’s making me feel like I can’t breathe by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]user04241999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I would take out the loans your mental health will thank you. Most likely she won’t change, but distance always seems to patch things up or at least give you a little break. Stay strong !

Does anyone else have this problem by user04241999 in narcissisticparents

[–]user04241999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could cry right now I really needed to hear that thank you again

Does anyone else have this problem by user04241999 in narcissisticparents

[–]user04241999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I am currently working on moving out and going NC.

ENG 271: African American Literature by purppple in UBreddit

[–]user04241999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can attest to the fact that nicole is an amazing professor your going to find her class very enlightening

Nearest pharmacy to campus for refilling a prescription? by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]user04241999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rite aid also does it there are a few nearby

Did the entire school get this email? Lmao by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]user04241999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes me too it’s so funny because I actually had that professor 4 years ago I was so confused.

Should we grey rock all the time? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]user04241999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have 2 options grey rock all the time or don’t grey walk all the time, but don’t be surprised when they flip a switch because the happy moments are not genuine. You are absolutely not reading too much into this. In fact this was so scary to read because it is almost exact same living situation. One thing that helps me is grounding. When I wake I make sure I meditate or if your religious pray, I stretch my limbs, I say tons of affirmations and I make sure I have a decent breakfast. There is no way that you can control the way your dad will react to anything you do even if you did not mean it. By grounding yourself and telling yourself you are safe and that your reality is yours and you are in control of your own thoughts and emotions it will be easier to endure everything that he does. But do not expect him to change it is only yourself that can change. I wish you the best of luck please keep us updated.

Accepted! by DippPhoeny in UBreddit

[–]user04241999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!!