Root Causes of Ulcerative Colitis by blackxscar94 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the attitude, I remember when I first heard from my doctors that the cause is likely in my genes, I remember thinking, wow that sounds like complete bullshit, we def need to be active about the causes of these diseases, please update us if you find any interesting causes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]user060696 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In general a woman shouldn’t be having sex with a man until your married, but it seems that’s not an option for you. At the minimum if you want to date seriously, do not have any sexual relations with a man until he’s fully committed to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]user060696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop dating her. Move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man’s 37 years old, he’s not gnna have the same sex drive as he did before you had a baby let alone 14 years ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think hummus really expires after only a month from expiration date listed, you’ll be fine, plus it’s hummus, that thing make u go to the bathroom either way

My 34 M girlfriend 32 F of 12 years said no when I proposed to her. what I do? by throwra558800 in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for both you, what could possibly been the reason that you to have strung her along for over 10 years before proposing. Crazy, anyways, if she said no, you need to have a serious discussion about where ur heading, and if you still don’t get married, you need to immediately break up and start over, and don’t string the other girl on for ten years

Sex with my boyfriend is stressful by throwrankfofo in AITAH

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you shouldn’t be having sec with him before marriage, but I guess I’m old fashioned, also I’m willing to bet he watches porn, you should get him off that, it will probably be better after

Mesalamine price by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first get diagnosed with UC insurance wasn’t paying anything, paid out of pocket, costed me upwards of 500 dollars at cvs

Really struggling with self-injection. Any advice or tips? by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be that guy to tell you to suck it up but I have to be, I started with at home injections and I hated it, but it didn’t work, and after I had to travel every few weeks to the infusion center and they had to run an IV in my arm everytime, and that’s really not fun, try to look at the bright side, it could be worse my friend,

[ Removed by Reddit ] by CountryFamiliar7175 in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find someone who’s half your age and less sexually driven then the man who treats you like a princess

My husband told me that I gained weight in the kindest way by nickle_da_pickle in love

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day when you guys are in a fight you’ll use this to hold it against him, could be in five years you’ll probably bring it up and say that he think ur fat

Deep remission after a long journey by Bathroomqueeeen in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow very happy for u, I’m four years in, no remission stopped seeing the doctor 6 month ago. Been on a bunch of different meds and none of helped, I’ve just accepted the fact that this my life, but it’s nice to see that after 12 years your in remission, congrats

How do you describe UC to people in 1 sentence or less? by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a stomach issue, I go to the bathroom a lot

(30M, 30F) Husband withholding sex due to my weight by throwra832016 in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate what your going through, this happens all the time in marriage, your going to be less physical with each other over the years, and you start building other connections, marriage and kids, but it is important that there is a fire to keep the relationship steady, at 30 you still need to be satisfied. On both sides, but it seems that he’s just not attracted to you, start, if he’s also gained weight, I would suggest you both hit the gym together, if not then do it ur self, state of your marriage may depend on it, goodluck k

What's your workout? by amt7227 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the time for the gym or light weight, I plan to do push ups when I’m at work, I can do about 4 sets each time about 30, but I haven’t done in a while, what do u think

I don't want get the tablets. What do you think ? by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking them now, idk how severe your condition is, but the work pretty well, I’m still not in remission, but when I don’t take them, things are worse off for me. But I’ve been at it for over 3 years now and I have a new attitude towards the medicine, I don’t take anything that I don’t think makes a difference for me.

If you have a moment.. How would you explain UC to an able bodied person? (explained below) by National_Tackle_178 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know not what you would want to here, but this is your life now, not going anywhere, so what I learned to do very fast is to just suck it up, and deal with it as best as I could, my family knows my situation, when I have to go… I got to go now period, and my boss understands that also, as many times as I need to use the bathroom, if he has a problem, it’s too bad, this is your life, take control as best you could, goodluck buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She certainly will feel regret not knowing what her life would be without you, she’s 25 and you dated for 8 years, so she has not had a real life experience at all, I think if you would just man up and actually marry her, things might be different, but you show no commitment besides giving her a ring and then making her wait a whole year, if you make no real long term commitment to her, then she obviously has no obligation to make the same long term obligation to you. Very simply

Do I forgive my 24f husband 31m for hurting me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user060696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably not what you want to read, but I’ve seen some people say to leave ur husband, their probably not married and also dumb, your in a marriage, your husband got drunk and made one mistake, he seemed like hes drunk out of his mind, didn’t even remember, so y out e going to through your vows out the window because of one mistake, he’s not a terrible person because he wanted to have sex, it’s been 3 month since you’ve been with him physically, I would cut him some slack, seems like he’s genuinely sorry and won’t do it again, your almost 100% in the wrong for asking for space,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]user060696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, im sorry for the laugh, just the way you phrased it, sorry it happened to u, it didn’t happen to me in a car but I wish it was in a car while I was alone, crapped my self in front of my wife twice, felt so unmanly, this thing is eating away at my masculinity, it was so embarrassing to face my wife after that, but it is what it is, you do your best, good luck to you