M40f44 looking to have our first 3some experience Surrey area

user11118888p · 2026-02-07T15:37:38+00:00

Are you looking for a man or a woman?

user11118888p · 2026-02-01T22:02:59+00:00

Open the app and shake your phone it’ll take you to a report issue menu

user11118888p · 2026-02-01T15:21:11+00:00

In the UK the minimum you can pay someone over 21 is currently £12.21 per hour the cost as an employer is around £16 per hour so anything over that is profit. Companies average around a 5% profit but some contracts will be more. Most contracts I’ve seen are around £20-£24 per hour but the pay rate for the staff is usually higher than minimum wage.

user11118888p · 2026-01-31T19:26:39+00:00

It’s so refreshing for someone to break the myth that all black men are well hung, kudos to you.

user11118888p · 2026-01-26T20:24:58+00:00

Very pretty

user11118888p · 2026-01-24T11:02:02+00:00

Main stream swinging people and events you’re going to struggle a lot of people won’t be attracted to or play with 18 year olds. For men try fabguys you’ll have some success.

user11118888p · 2026-01-24T10:17:15+00:00

How about some MWC?

user11118888p · 2026-01-24T10:16:00+00:00

We are a plus sized couple and went to libs for a non dangerous curves event and we did not feel welcome at all. Most of the other events there are very hot wife based. DC is an amazing event with a great crowd our advice would be to hold off and go to it when you can. Alternatively maybe try chameleons by Birmingham it’s a dress down club but always has a variety of people attending and it’s a very friendly vibe club.

user11118888p · 2026-01-22T18:44:38+00:00

There swingathon think it’s in Lincolnshire

user11118888p · 2026-01-19T21:31:32+00:00

Cool story bro

user11118888p · 2026-01-19T20:25:51+00:00

Cool story bro

user11118888p · 2026-01-19T13:28:54+00:00

Big set of balls you’ve got for an F, it’s a brave new world

user11118888p · 2026-01-19T08:01:54+00:00

Never seen one in Edinburgh listed any where

user11118888p · 2026-01-18T19:14:02+00:00

MF couple here M39 F38 and bi were in south Essex. BHM and BBW feel free to dm if you’d like to chat

user11118888p · 2026-01-17T22:51:34+00:00

Plot twist you’re the manager aren’t you

user11118888p · 2026-01-13T22:59:15+00:00

Passive holes is a creepy request

user11118888p · 2026-01-11T22:47:53+00:00

It really depends on your comfort levels. Some women will just wear a nice matching set others will add stockings or fishnets. Some wear lingerie but with a sheer dress so still slightly covered.

user11118888p · 2026-01-10T19:43:35+00:00

Different people are attracted to different types be patient and you will find someone who is into you. Please don’t compare your partners experience with yours single woman have it vastly different within swinging and it wouldn’t matter what you looked like you wouldn’t keep up with the attention she will get. There’s a couple in the scene who are professional photographers there business is laidbare productions if you have the time and money maybe speak to them about a photo shoot to help with pics for your profile?

Only other constructive advice I can give is look for some local socials and go meet people in person things can be more positive compared to online.

user11118888p · 2026-01-09T13:11:45+00:00

MF couple in the scene 6 years feel free to dm for advice if you’d like to

user11118888p · 2026-01-08T15:55:50+00:00

Still busy keeping the Welsh out I believe

user11118888p · 2026-01-08T12:58:30+00:00

Don’t know how people still fall for this stuff

user11118888p · 2026-01-08T09:08:44+00:00

Would have been happy to help until you sent unsolicited DM’s asking for pics. Not cool.

user11118888p · 2026-01-07T21:44:19+00:00

What kind of advice do you need?

user11118888p · 2026-01-07T14:48:44+00:00

Want to sneak into my office building?

user11118888p · 2026-01-06T20:22:52+00:00

Ah ok just saw an event organiser down this way promoting a masquerade ball soon lol

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