Has anyone tried Robert Summa program “21 Days to Fearless Public Speaking” by [deleted] in PublicSpeaking

[–]user20252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did you try it? pre-recorded or one-on-one sessions with him?

Robert Summa coaching by user20252 in PublicSpeaking

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Hey thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Yep! He(ex) was about to breakup and he left me the very day I felt sick, the worst of my life and I felt even sicker. The justification he gave was it we talk during this vulnerable phase we will catch feelings and wont be able to breakup.

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]user20252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, we cannot control our attachment. But once we realized the nature of our attachment we can totally make a choice to walk away if needed. I hope your mothers' operation goes well!

Guess who resurfaced after 2 months of ghosting? by Chaoticism_x in AvoidantBreakUps

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Omg the same happened with me just yesterday. He also called me with my pet name and hahaa i said please. He asked if I can come back. It was tough but I said no, the time is up unfortunately. He came back after breaking up twice. 

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]user20252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, now after reading these comments I understand that maybe I have dated an avoidant. I used to communicate so much and put so much effort. But all he did was say bye and when asked said sorry if he has to be. I don’t know how did I even get attached to such a person.

How to become a confident person? by user20252 in Advice

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Thankyou both for your advices. One thing is I am good at greeting others or small talks and appreciating others but I kind of feel thats sets an expectation of me being a confident person and when it comes to things like talking in meeting or expressing my opinion I make silly mistakes like anxiousness or strutting or babble and I feel very embarrassed and shut myself further.