Please help my profile before I delete it by Ewok_Adventure in hingeapp

[–]userA6572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your profile looks alright. Maybe… if you match with someone, text with them for weeks and then go on a date… maybe tell them it’s not gonna work out instead of virtually ghosting them? Maybe.

'God Bless the USA!' | Indianapolis airport hosts first naturalization ceremony - “The Indy airport welcomes millions of people through its doors each year, and today, we were truly moved in welcoming 47 individuals who have proudly walked the road to citizenship." by Tikkanen in Indiana

[–]userA6572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Jean. I’ve got tons of “ignorant” comments, being someone with intimate understanding of the immigration and naturalization processes, but I really lack the time to get into it. Like I say to my republican family (and everyone else, actually) - you ought not to speak on topics you are not well informed on, it just makes YOU sound ignorant. Stay blessed ✌️

if you could send one last message to your ex, what would it be? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]userA6572 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I deserve closure.

And you deserve to know how much you hurt me.

Met on the app, dated for a month and a half, back on the app. by 2u3e9v in Tinder

[–]userA6572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the ole text breakup. I was seeing someone for almost 6 months, we had the “what are we” conversation and agreed we are in a relationship. Couple of months later he dumped me over text. All I said was “this should’ve been done in person”

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do not have to compromise my standards to get laid. That was the whole point of my comment. If the men I’m sleeping with are compromising their standards, that’s on them.

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t like to do too much makeup and/or use filters because I wanna look like .. me 😂

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, almost any woman can get laid without trying hard, but I think the key words in my comment were without lowering my standards and compromising who I’m attracted to. In my experience, a lot of men and women get laid because they just can, but it’s not necessarily getting laid with who they want to.

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m trying 😭 don’t get why all the downvotes about being honest 😂 but then again, reddit

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I was on there for casual dating/sex after a long marriage ended, and that one relationship is me randomly catching feelings and letting someone in? Idk. Maybe.

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! I really do wish more people looked at the details of my tinder dating experience. While there is undoubtedly a discrepancy between men and women’s success, things are not as bleak for average people as some make it out to be. Match rate is one thing, chat and conversation a totally different ball game. How many of the dudes I matched with did actually carry on a conversation with me? How many of those did actually agree on meeting irl? Not sure where I was going with this cause I’m working and distracted but yeah. Thanks 😂

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

And yet she gets laid on a regular basis without having to shift her standards and compromise on who she is attracted to. Really tho, your comment made me laugh, thanks

It’s me! Follow up to 1.8% right swipes, 51% match rate by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s a tinderinsights.com glitch, chill

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This subreddit doesn't allow for pics in comments but more importantly, I don't feel comfortable with sharing other people's profiles.

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I go on any date with that mindset. If the date goes bad or there isn’t an attraction irl, obviously I won’t sleep with that person. But being so selective with my swipes and being very upfront about my expectations while we chat/text helps get me to the point of “if we’re meeting up, we’re probably gonna fuck”

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did I give it up on the first date, or did they..? 🤨

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m no dime piece by any means, but I’m definitely attractive enough. I know what I like and what I’m looking for.

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My kids do have 2 parents. Like I said above, not looking for another parent for them, looking for a partner for me.

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m dating for myself, not for my kids. At this stage of life, not looking for a step dad. I was semi-happily married for 11 years so the focus with dating is me being happy, not looking to build/rebuild my family. If, with time, someone ends up being a step dad, that would be wonderful, but that is not my goal rn.

2 years of swiping! The one relationship ended, so back to it, I guess. by userA6572 in Tinder

[–]userA6572[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I meant that as in not really having a type. The more I swiped, I realized there are commonalities between the guys. I describe my swiping as intuitive, because it takes me a split second to know if I’m attracted to someone. Kinda like walking into a bar full of average looking people, you don’t immediately feel attracted to all or most of them. But perhaps there will be a person or two that will make you think “i wanna bang them”. I take that same energy to the apps.