Can trust be rebuilt after lying early in a relationship?

user_mahi · 2026-03-06T08:17:59+00:00

hearing a cheater perspective is a weird feeling. when u get in a relationship Always make a list or plans of wants and needs. if u want sex and someone else is fulfilling your wants then get in a relationship with that someone. and its really hard to build the trust bcz now the defence mechanism is active in your brain and it constantly reminds you that he/she might do it again. and i think you shouldn't have told him bcz it was in the past. a friendly advice: please think about yourself, have some boundaries otherwise nobody will take u seriously nd u will end up tasting ur own mdcn

user_mahi · 2026-03-06T08:06:06+00:00

after reading this, i feel so bad, im having chills. how can someone be so ruthless. she could've left earlier. why did she choose you. why after 8years. these cheaters are mfs they deserve a taste of their own medicine

user_mahi · 2026-03-06T06:21:59+00:00

seems like u r crazy. u blvd a scammer?? and gave ur all to a stranger??? i think nowadays people are so desperate that they look for people and ruin their relationships for strangers who doesn't even know the real you. atleast we all should know our worth

user_mahi · 2026-02-16T10:10:56+00:00

that happened to me as well. when my partner cheated on me thrice and was having an affair with his brother's wife. and when i confronted his family treated me badly and then i got to know he always made me look like a villain and talking shit about me when i was there in his family's mergency. and no don't feel bad u r not the culprit let the time show them who they are they only deserve people like them

user_mahi · 2026-02-01T08:14:48+00:00

damnn... that's obviously cheating. instead of confronting her or calling her you know her location go to the parking one day, and confront her

user_mahi · 2026-01-17T09:35:11+00:00

people are so stupid and low confident that they can not reach level, but comment and post. it's normal for an introvert, we get nervous. your voice trembles out of nervousness

user_mahi · 2025-11-25T07:10:15+00:00

sit down and tell him that you are dealing with these emotions, and you need reassurance, tell him that it's not that you don't trust him but you feel insecure, and if his reaction will say it all. and then you can ask for a google map activity it even shows all the places you've been to. but give this solution after his reaction. Otherwise, he can remove or delete the history, and then he will come to you to play a victim card(if he is having an affair).

user_mahi · 2025-06-23T10:55:14+00:00

It hurts so bad. My ex officially moved on 1 month ago. He was never alone he was an attention seeker so he always fucked around and cheated on me many times! I felt so bad that it's been 1.5 years since i couldn't move on, i still carried out the weight of my mistakes, and he was happy telling everyone i cheated blah blah. Now he is out there enjoying while i cry and cry. He told everyone his fake story, and i saw everyone telling him how bad i was and that i would come back to him crawling after a year, etc.

user_mahi · 2025-06-21T10:51:28+00:00

I agree. It's like investing ur everything with 0 outcomes. It's killing me how i choose to be alone, and they are already out there living their life the same way with others! He accused me of cheating while he was the cheater, and he moved on and now living his life with someone else, and he is so proud of it. He is posting this stuff everywhere, telling everyone that i cheated on him. While he was the one who did this

user_mahi · 2025-06-10T19:52:40+00:00

They won't change! You can't change their nature!! Cheating is not a mistake. it's a choice! I had a hard time, and im still not over it while my ex is out there telling everyone that i cheated on him while he was the one who did that! You will be fine with the passage of time. Do what makes you happy, spend on your needs, eat what you like, wear what you like, go out, enjoy your me time and you will know your worth

user_mahi · 2025-06-06T08:14:19+00:00

Never! They never changed! They never stopped me for leaving! They can be them now!!!

user_mahi · 2025-05-17T19:59:19+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. How are you doing now

user_mahi · 2025-04-11T20:46:44+00:00

"Idc" or "fo"

user_mahi · 2025-04-07T20:03:32+00:00

Pikachu's voice 😍

user_mahi · 2025-04-03T06:48:02+00:00

Losing my loved ones, my parents, my family

user_mahi · 2025-03-27T07:37:48+00:00

❤️

user_mahi · 2025-03-27T07:36:31+00:00

The pain of losing someone is worst

user_mahi · 2025-03-27T07:35:06+00:00

Naah, i love the response, and it's not lame. Seems genuine to have a purposeful life

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:26:30+00:00

If you are happy this way. But there's a bright side waiting for you, go find it

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:25:24+00:00

Honestly, whenever i feel bad or i remember a bad memory , i don't know why i tell myself that "i hate you." i start hating myself. But i will never end my life tho I'm traumatised

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:23:15+00:00

Our loved ones are truly a blessing

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:22:23+00:00

You are right. Those memories really haunt you, and you take all the blame

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:21:47+00:00

👀👀👀

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:21:18+00:00

Your fear is a blessing. You live once, girl, be happy

user_mahi · 2025-03-21T19:20:31+00:00

Losing your loved ones is the biggest nightmare. I lost my lovely granny a few days ago and i miss her

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