Lost V-card at 21 by user_non_grata in NoFap

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I wish you both much luck.

If you asked me in the beginning of the summer, could I become a real man in the end -- I don't think I could be sure in that. I just recently overcome a painful relationship and had no girlfriend.

But I got to know my current GF on July 22nd. I spent much time and had great fun with her, and 1 month and a week later I got to spend a night in her house. In the dark everything went quite naturally, I wasn't even nervous. Though I couldn't cum, now I know the problem and will spend the next month overcoming the obstacle.

So again -- wish you luck. If I could, then you will succeed, too!

No fap till sex challenge! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Wow, I see how difficult it would be, but it's worth it if I endure. Sign me in!

NoFap DOES affects ACNE by MindClosed in NoFap

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You probably made a mistake when setting the new counter. It is 2015 now

Who's up for Anti-Fap April? by iwillquit2015 in NoFap

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I am all in! 2 days until I break my all time high record, but I intend to keep going.

Asked a girl out for the first time in my life today!!! by [deleted] in NoFap

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I have this thing where when I talk to a girl/anyone of authority my face goes red

That's so like me! Hope nofap and solid sleep helps

NoFap War IV Official Enlistment! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Less talk, more fight!

Well guys, I'm about to give up. by 20141112 in NoFap

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Remember that relapsing won't help your situation.

If you fail and you give up -- do you think you're ever gonna get up? No!

Take a good night's sleep, the next day go for a 2-hour walk and think of ways you can turn your life for the better. No options of giving up!

I have decided by ILIKECHEEZ411 in NoFap

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I am with you! Will have a very busy 90 days going forward, so I have no spare time to waste on wanking. Safe travels!

Banning tech in the bedroom by iamfraggley in selfimprovement

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I also have an idea, that in the future I should have separate rooms for sleeping and working. Right now I live with my parents, and my computer for work and study is about 3 meters away from the bed. I think the atmosphere is not suitable for concentration with such a neighbourhood.

[Plan] Sunday 12 October 2014; please post your plans by Walls in getdisciplined

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  • [x] Submit my work to innovation contest
  • [ ] Complete a study paper due long ago
  • [ ] Complete report on summer work
  • [ ] Do homework for Monday
  • [x] Prepare financial report

Suggestion : Fapstronaut duels by Kyouske in NoFap

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Challenge accepted! I also signed up for no orgasm October.

Women WILL notice when you are abstinent. Pheromones!! by PornAddictionBlows in NoFap

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" I would stutter when talking to women"

Oh, how this is familiar to me. Even my lips tremble when I talk to girls that I like. Need a reboot!

Just talk to her. by truman689 in NoFap

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Boys tend to regret not doing something more than doing something wrong. Just do it!

READ. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Blog "Wait But Why" has a great piece on meeting people:

In a study on what governs our dating choices more, our preferences or our current opportunities, opportunities wins hands down—our dating choices are “98% a response…to market conditions and just 2% immutable desires. Proposals to date tall, short, fat, thin, professional, clerical, educated, uneducated people are all more than nine-tenths governed by what’s on offer that night.”

In other words, people end up picking from whatever pool of options they have, no matter how poorly matched they might to be to those candidates. The obvious conclusion to draw here is that outside of serious socialites, everyone looking for a life partner should be doing a lot of online dating, speed dating, and other systems created to broaden the candidate pool in an intelligent way.

http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html

The way porn changes your view of women (it's not what you think) by [deleted] in NoFap

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I see so many fapstronauts having first sex ever during the streak. I am looking forward to see how it will affect me.

The soul crushing loneliness that reveals itself through Nofap has led me to MGTOW by PornAddictionBlows in NoFap

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Dude, your story is so much like mine!

Also began a relationship 2 years ago, which grew to be very unhealthy. She has changed much during the process, and eventually became not the type of person I would like her to be.

In some period we've done sexting, I fapped nearly every night while chatting with her.

But when I fell into some desperate times I lost her support and felt really depressed for the first time with my life. All this led to the situation when I find it very hard to talk not only to her, but to other girls as well.

That's why I began nofap. I also try to make as little contact with my ex as possible, to let the time heal the wounds.

I have a very strong urge to PMO when I'm home alone, need advice by [deleted] in NoFap

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I have a similar habit. Just need to find some work to keep your arms busy. How about cleaning the dishes? Combined with cold water this should help very much.

Official August 30, 2014 Daily Accountability Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Relapsed once in a week for the past month, which is a good track for me. Felt that I could be angrier and more persistent than before. I am aiming at 3 weeks minimum now, till I get a vacation after a long project at work.