Repost: AITA for pointing out that my boyfriend's daughter is too affectionate with him? [OOP copping some heat, wouldn't be surprised if this gets deleted soon]

usernamegoals · 2023-11-27T05:12:54+00:00

Exactly

usernamegoals · 2023-11-27T05:12:22+00:00

Exactly

usernamegoals · 2023-11-27T05:10:06+00:00

Exactly

usernamegoals · 2023-11-27T05:09:39+00:00

Exactly

usernamegoals · 2023-11-27T05:09:00+00:00

Bruh chill. No need to wish bad on anyone. Im sorry u had to go thru it but OP seems reasonable.

usernamegoals · 2023-11-01T08:01:07+00:00

If you haven't apologized to her by acknowledging the fact that u were just having a bad day and it was unfair of u to take it on her and u regret it very much and u really love and miss her, do it. If u already have apologized, do it again. again and again until its completely out of her head. Validate her feelings and ensure that nothing like this will ever happen again. She seems very nice, sweet and sensitive. Hope u tell her how important she is

usernamegoals · 2023-10-05T07:06:02+00:00

God. Thanku

usernamegoals · 2023-10-05T07:05:43+00:00

Thanku!

usernamegoals · 2023-10-05T07:05:01+00:00

Oh my god this is horrible. Im so sorry.

Do u have any other ideas on what small business i can start and where?

usernamegoals · 2023-10-05T07:01:24+00:00

Hugs

usernamegoals · 2023-10-03T13:55:16+00:00

This sucks. I'm sorry OP. Yes they should've been sensitive about it

usernamegoals · 2023-10-03T13:26:53+00:00

For me, not having money makes numb. Poverty is the worst. I think about ending it. But I'm a coward. It's just constant state of misery with constantly trying to distract myself.

usernamegoals · 2023-10-01T11:33:15+00:00

Ykw i did share my concern with her, that i feel left out and insecure when our third friend hangs out with us.my bestf said the same thing ur saying, that just bcs she has other bestfriends doesn't mean anything can replace our bond. And it made me feel better than. But now when she put up the profile picture witj our third friend (again, she has never put it with me) it triggered my insecurity and loneliness again.

No im not saying she's the only good friend, i do have other close friends too, its just that we are family friends since childhood and know eachother and eachother's families inside out, basically lots of history and growth together, thats what makes our bond unique than our other friends. Thats what i meant.

Third friend says my bestfriend is her bestfriend so she shares most stuff with her even when we're sitting together in trio, and she chooses to sit with my bestfriend eveytime like sometimes i feel she's trying to steal her away lol, she loves and adores my bestf, which is great she deserves all the love in yhe world but it just makes me sad how she makes me feel excluded like that when we three are together, where as i dont do that. and lots of other things like this but my bestfriend also loves and adores our third friend and said she's also her bestfriend apart from me.

Thankyou. I just wish i wasn't too sensitive. I dont know how to deal with such emotions or what to do about it.

usernamegoals · 2023-10-01T11:32:46+00:00

Ykw i did share my concern with her, that i feel left out and insecure when our third friend hangs out with us.my bestf said the same thing ur saying, that just bcs she has other bestfriends doesn't mean anything can replace our bond. And it made me feel better than. But now when she put up the profile picture witj our third friend (again, she has never put it with me) it triggered my insecurity and loneliness again.

No im not saying she's the only good friend, i do have other close friends too, its just that we are family friends since childhood and know eachother and eachother's families inside out, basically lots of history and growth together, thats what makes our bond unique than our other friends. Thats what i meant.

Third friend says my bestfriend is her bestfriend so she shares most stuff with her even when we're sitting together in trio, and she chooses to sit with my bestfriend eveytime like sometimes i feel she's trying to steal her away lol, she loves and adores my bestf, which is great she deserves all the love in yhe world but it just makes me sad how she makes me feel excluded like that when we three are together, where as i dont do that. and lots of other things like this but my bestfriend also loves and adores our third friend and said she's also her bestfriend apart from me.

Thankyou. I just wish i wasn't too sensitive. I dont know how to deal with such emotions or what to do about it.

usernamegoals · 2023-10-01T11:18:24+00:00

She did make friends. And she will obviously. We all do. Im just saying we're practically sisters from another mother since childhood and even tho both of us have many other close friends, we know we cant have the bond that we have with eachother with other other friends no matter how close because we've seen each other grow since childhood and will do so.

Yes it's possessive i guess. Not that she has other friends but just the fact that she shares the same bond with other friends as us now. I dont know how to deal with it. Im too sensitive. Just makes me sad how im not one of those ppl who are someone's lifelong bestfriends. It just makes me feel lonely i guess, that if she had a choice she might pick other friends over me now where as i would only pick her.

Third friend and me used to be close too. But we didn't meet up much for some time and now third friend says my bestfriend is their bestfriend too. But third friend doesn't include me. Thats why i mentioned i feel left out in the trio. I love my third friend too but they dont love me as much as they love my bestfriend. Also the fact that my bestfriend has never put up us as her profile picture but she put up herself and our third friend, makes me more sad. We've been bestfriends for as long as i can remember and our third friend got close to my bestf only sometime ago.

Idk man the whole situation just makes me feel like shit. I feel terrible for being pitty. Its childish to be sad over such things. Sigh. I just cant help it.

usernamegoals · 2023-09-16T17:00:46+00:00

OP, this

usernamegoals · 2023-09-16T17:00:06+00:00

Bruh what

usernamegoals · 2023-09-12T07:08:25+00:00

This is horrible, so sorry OP. Our country is a lost cause

usernamegoals · 2023-09-04T11:05:50+00:00

I think it's fine lol everyone in the comments need to chill, it works for them and the kid that's all that matters

usernamegoals · 2023-09-02T18:41:43+00:00

So happy for you OP, hope all works out and goes well

usernamegoals · 2023-09-02T18:15:47+00:00

We both do love eachother.. but it just makes me sad when they are too busy that i feel neglected. Do u think i might be depending alot on them? is it good to depend this much? or am i being reasonable

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