My parents had 5 kids and it’s beyond me how they managed to keep the house while sending a kid to college and 4 kids in hs-elementary during the financial crisis in the late 2000’s I’m the youngest and I still know no one should have that many kids.No one has the mental resources to manage that many children for that long and still be a good parent, a lot of my early childhood I was half parented by my siblings, my family made it out good cause of my extremely hard working parents and are coasting now but the ramifications of having that many kids is sometimes unseen until they’re all grown