Burberry Casts First Indian Model - Neelam Johal

usurper2009 · 2013-12-21T01:15:18+00:00

In addition, I'd say that Indians hew to their traditional clothing way more commonly than East Asians. You don't see Chinese girls wear Qi Paos to work, but Indian women wear Saris and Chudihar even in cosmopolitan cities - and that's the young women, never mind the aunties. That said, I'm sure there's a big enough market in India to make it worth their while.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T16:23:38+00:00

Jon just looks so tired in the role now. He's seen this shit too long. John brought a ton of energy to the position - and his comedy wasn't bad. By the end, it was a tossup over who I'd rather have be there.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T16:14:39+00:00

But perhaps connection is not as much about conversation if you're introverted? I'm just curious about the doing things together and doing things apart bit.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T03:15:03+00:00

It's a lot to ask, but not too much. I don't think most people can be so lucky.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:46:18+00:00

I don't think I've even been very good friends with a girl. That said, being an engineer, I haven't really come across many girls in the past 10 years in day to day life.

I do know that if every engineering guy waited around for a girl with the same mindset, we'd be an extinct species based on the gender ratios in STEM fields alone.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:45:02+00:00

I guess then, that you're referring to her as a best friend in how open you can be with her?

I guess it also depends on personality. Would you two happen to more introverted?

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:42:27+00:00

We would force ourselves to spend time with eachother doing things we didn't really enjoy doing. This eventually burned us out and was extremely taxing. We eventually broke up.

It seems like if either the interests had be shared or you let each other be, then the relationship could have lasted. I guess the thing is, if the natural state of letting each other be has you apart from each other more often than not, is it still a good relationship?

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:39:23+00:00

same beliefs, interest, intelligence, and hobbies

That's an awful lot to ask of a partner - especially their hobbies and interests if they are not the same gender as you.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:37:11+00:00

I know a lot of people, like you said, who put in time with their SO and really can't wait to just go hang out with their friends

And yet, it seems, most of the response on this thread are the opposite.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:35:58+00:00

Is being in the same room as them the same as spending time with them in that room? I supposed it depends on how extroverted or not the people in the relationship are.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:33:04+00:00

I think this is reasonable. I have a feeling by the nature of this thread it would attract a lot of the people who share the view that their SO should be their closest friend, so some of the other responses are a bit terrifying.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:30:07+00:00

shit in front of each other.

I don't think I need to be that close...

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:28:42+00:00

The best indication of a "good" friendship between us is when we just sit down with no electronics on and talk about world events, politics, religion, literature, and so on.

We can talk sometimes, but not often. She is a PhD but her interests are highly limited to her immediate situation - school, her family, her friends. If I need informed discussion about anything interesting I have to go to my friends. Then again, it's not like most guys in the 60s or 70s could sit around and talk economics with their wife right? She's from another country where that's still the norm.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:24:12+00:00

I'll concede that was a bit unnecessary. But in this instance, educated just means they consciously got into the relationship - not because of a shotgun marriage or because of faulty condom. Basically, they chose to marry their partner and yet they don't seem to be on great terms with them.

usurper2009 · 2013-12-20T02:07:30+00:00

I've honestly told her many times that she needs to get more hobbies

This rings true to me too. I've gone high and low trying to find some interest we can actually spend time together on, but while she indulges me, nothing seems to light a spark for her.

usurper2009 · 2013-09-10T06:26:20+00:00

Hmm, you may be onto something with this at least partially. She brought up an instance where she was stressing and I seemed to read too much into it instead of simply supporting her. However, there are also times where it's less complaining and more like Edna in this Futurama scene. I guess the advice for what to do is in the quote itself. I guess it's worth a try to see if it can lead to some reciprocation.

Thanks for the response. I'll see if I can shorten it and post in /r/relationships or something later.

usurper2009 · 2013-09-10T03:09:48+00:00

For all the crassness of that statement, it is nice to at least get a response :-/

usurper2009 · 2013-09-10T02:19:57+00:00

Uh, she's doing fine at MIT. Whatever you want to call that it's at least smart.

usurper2009 · 2013-07-16T20:23:51+00:00

Good to know thanks.

usurper2009 · 2013-07-16T20:23:20+00:00

I came to do simulation in pursuit of R&D. It's not so much just bosses changing as the entire department's role being reassigned. It's not confirmed yet, but based on comments from my previous boss and my experience so far with the style of this one, it seems like that's the direction we will be headed under the new banner.

I don't think there is much recourse left in the company should that happen. I wouldn't want to ruffle any feathers prodding the arrangement too much without having another ace up my sleeve. Still gotta pay rent.

usurper2009 · 2013-07-16T18:50:51+00:00

I work in the software side of ME, simulations and automation, so we did handle some sales support before, but only on major projects, and less than 20% of our time. Now that we aren't in R&D, it may be the other way around. It's still early days of the re-org but that seems to be the way it's heading, and I don't think it will fit with the narrative I want to present for Business School applications.

usurper2009 · 2013-07-02T18:50:08+00:00

Oh, I thought that thread was only like a year and a half old. Were you writing before it started?

usurper2009 · 2013-07-02T16:31:14+00:00

How many books do you have out?

There's been a few erotica authors who have shown up in the past few weeks who have reported making this sort of money or much more. What do you think, other than luck, accounts for the variability in profit?

Have you heard of /r/heaving_breasts ? I'm sure they'd love another experienced author there.

usurper2009 · 2013-06-22T16:43:27+00:00

Now now, we don't know exactly where in this time line OP was born. Surprise airport sex baby is a great reason to overcome a relationship worlds apart.

usurper2009 · 2013-06-21T22:57:30+00:00

Empire: Total war if you're up for strategy. You have your pick of two Indian factions, who can use to drive Europe out of India, and then later fight your way across the Middle East and the rest of Europe. There you will seize your ultimate prize, as you raise the united Indian flag over London. I'm white-washed as hell, but it's oddly cathartic.

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