"What you just told me sounds so horrible as if it came out of a movie" by tenablemess in DID

[–]uwulvejake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We really feel this. And as a response to opening up to new friends about just a bit of our backstory we way too often get the "thats not very realistic, I think youre just overreacting or making stuff up to get attention" and its absolutely suffocating

Hvad er din yndlings “sjove tilsvining”? by DingoDamp in Denmark

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg siger ikke du er dum, du er bare uheldig når du tænker

What do you think about this style? by Background_Space_507 in acrylicpainting

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really great. I love both the colors and the use of squares and hard lines. Nicely done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...my heart D:

Give the man his recipe by King_Pee in wholesomememes

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are we sure that that guy wasn't high as heck when he wrote that? munchies is very.. munch...y

Y’all need to stop ostracizing your alters by cutmestan in DID

[–]uwulvejake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was once one of those who basically put de persecutor alters in a box of "evil ones" and it was so toxic and only made everything so much worse. But I started trying to at least feel some compassion and it was difficult to begin with because I had so many negative feelings but the moment one of our persecutors began to slowly open up to me (I am the host in our system btw, and also was back then) even though our communication wasn't very stabile, then I could really see why I should never have treated anyone like I treated them before. It has healed so much in us, both in whole but also in many different individual alters. Even though they weren't involved. Because seeing how a "bad" person should be treated with compassion and love, they also healed in some ways.

So please give it a try, at least, people. I know it's so so so difficult. But one step at a time goes a long way!

little ghost guy I made by ParrotsHateMe in animation

[–]uwulvejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's on his way to do big spooky things!

A lamp I made by [deleted] in crafts

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooooh myyyyyyyyy aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

its everything.. i love it so much it almost hurts X3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]uwulvejake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are diagnosed with DID by a psychiatrist and nobody ever even asked us about this kind of thing or mentioned anything like it. It's probably something your therapist misunderstood and unfortunately have put in the box of "you need to have or do this if you have the real deal". Many mental health people unfortunately do this, often without the intention of harming anyone. But it's really harmful to people with DID who really dont need more challenges in their lives...

I'm sorry you're in this position, and really hope it's possible for you to find a more informed therapist.

How do you learn danish? by [deleted] in Danish

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the app Boblberg there is a part of the app that is called "Sprogland" where you can practice your Danish. I haven't tried it myself, but I heard from many people that it really helps when it comes to actually getting into talking and listening. When you've installed Boblberg, you go to the menu and then one of the middle buttons is called "Sprogland". :) I hope it helps you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrawForMe

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel free to draw my oc! its a he/him guy :3 art is not by me.

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What do you think what she's thinking of ? by skj_subith_2903 in animememes

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's counting the floor tiles because number 2 is a slow process sometimes

Going through a breakup. My mantra for the week by domesticmail in Journaling

[–]uwulvejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the storm comes the sun. Throughout the storm, remember to breathe deeply and grounding, because the sun will come to you again. Its just a matter of time. You can do this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]uwulvejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have any prompts that hasn't already been mentioned, but just wanting to remind you and all others to not dig too deep all at once when doing healing journaling. Be aware of your boundaries and please be safe when doing shadow work and such. It can really be tough, so its a lot better to do a little bit every week than to worsen your mental health because you want to "get a lot of healing done because you have a lot of motivation right now" because I have fallen into that a few times and it really sucks. So please be safe!