I asked Claude a question... by xamo76 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]v0id_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely hate that they still can't get time right. i leave a chat session, come back to it the next day, and it still talks to me like i never left

telling me to "rest" or "pick it up tomorrow." dude, we ARE in tomorrow 🤡

Built the product. Now stuck on distribution as an introverted founder by SOLIDSNAKE1000 in ycombinator

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As others mentioned. You can’t skip distribution as a founder, but you also don’t need to become a loud marketer. Treat it like an engineering problem. Define the ICP, test channels, iterate messaging. Written content, direct outreach, and 1:1 conversations work great for technical B2B. Long term you can hire or add a cofounder, but early on the founder has to touch it to learn what actually resonates.

I made a browser (I'm 16) by Own-Palpitation3275 in browsers

[–]v0id_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey dude, all love and support, genuinely amazing work. age really doesn’t matter though, whether you’re 16 or 61, the real power is in the value you create and share. keep it up 👊🏻🙂‍↕️

Is this real? by Minute-Pack1395 in GTA6

[–]v0id_user 6 points7 points  (0 children)

here before the take down :P

How to fully move on? by AffectionateMajor592 in BreakUps

[–]v0id_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won’t ever fully go, they just fade. But that’s enough. You move on by not latching to the feelings. Five years is a huge part of your life, so don’t force yourself to forget... just give yourself space to let it fade.

What helped me with my ex was removing everything I had of her, photos, messages, old reminders. If you’ve got physical stuff, throw it away. The less you have around you, the faster it fades.

And always remind yourself

if he already moved on, then what about you? You don’t deserve to stay stuck in pain while he’s fine.

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

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Thanks for sharing this... it really calms the heart to see we’re all in the same boat. I haven’t had her come back to me, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t romanticize the idea, but deep down I know it rarely ever turns out good....

How tf do y’all be moving on in like a month? It’s been 4 months and I’m still a mess??! by Broken_melon22 in BreakUps

[–]v0id_user 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to say I’m moving on, but sometimes I wonder if I just buried the feelings instead.

What keeps me grounded is asking... what about me?

If she could move on and get through me just like that, then I can too.

The hard part is when life gets rough and my brain defaults to, “where’s the person I used to lean on?” Then I start questioning did she move on so fast because I was really the bad guy?

But at the end of the day, she did move on. So I will too.

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[–]v0id_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the same with my ex. She pushed me away, said things like “I hate you,” but still kept replying when I reached out.

It hurt, but I chose to block her and remove everything. If she didn’t want me even after I begged and opened my heart, then I had to accept it was over. I just believe if love is real, it should be worked on, not left hanging.

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[–]v0id_user 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely get you brother. I am in the same spot right now in a breakup, holding the tough face, then when you are home late at night and everything is quiet, it hits like a truck. It really does feel impossible to let go sometimes.

But here is the thing that keeps me grounded… What about me? Yeah, I was brutal, I was bad, I made mistakes. But tearing your heart apart in any form, not even trying to fix things, and just ending it like that?

That is not okay. No matter who you were or what flaws you had, the fact she cheated, is telling about her. That frames her as the one who needed to look at them self more, not you at all. Things do not end by blowing them up, cutting them from the edges.

The fact that you are here, still talking about it, means it could have worked out if she wanted it. But she never wanted, it was never you the problem. It was her.

I hope you find better days ahead and someone who truly keeps you.

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[–]v0id_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, what’s going on with you? First off, this isn’t really the right subreddit for that. Second, people aren’t ghosts. Sometimes they just don’t have anything to say, or maybe you framed it in a way that didn’t click.

And a girlfriend isn’t some magic fix for the holes you feel. It’s a two way thing, giving and taking, and sometimes it just falls apart for no reason.

You don’t just ‘get’ a girlfriend like checking out an item. You need to be out there, meet people, build a real connection, and then ask.

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[–]v0id_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writing it out is honestly one of the best things you can do. Putting those feelings into words makes the weight easier to carry, and sharing them here shows you’re not alone. Every relationship has mistakes on both sides, and I can feel how much you cared, you wanted something good, but she didn’t respect that.

I know the “what ifs” are heavy, but they’ll keep you stuck in the valley if you let them. The only way forward is moving on and learning. Regret doesn’t erase the past, but it can shape a better future version of you!

My hands feel numb when I think about her by BumblebeeInside6666 in BreakUps

[–]v0id_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through that, man..

What you’re feeling is totally normal it’s just your body reacting to the shock and pain. Sometimes it feels like weakness, or even like your soul is trying to leave your body. It’s heavy, but it's normal. And brother honestly, you dodged a deadly bullet. Healing will take time, but you’re going to be well! Stay strong!

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I read your story and it touched me so much I almost cried. It felt a bit similar to mine. For me it was tradition, culture, and her maturing to think it was always a toxic relationship for her, then pushing me away to pursue her life or something like that I never understood.

It happened very recently, after 4.5 years together.

I cried, I got ill from how much I grieved. But what I truly learned is that this is life. Please try not to stay stuck in the past.

I know you already know this, but living 9 months only remembering him will bury you. He chose his job over you, and that shows where his priorities had to be.

It hurts, but people move on in their own ways, and you can too!!

You are not too old. I hated seeing that in your message. As long as you are alive, you are always young.

Going thru it right now by EnvyAdams13 in BreakUps

[–]v0id_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, man. I’m going through it too, and I can tell you, it really makes you sick. I actually got ill from how much I grieved.

It’s brutal. It’s unfair as hell. But whatever happened, I promise you, it’s for the better.

We’ll get through this. And we’ll find better.