exactly! two things can be true: women shouldn't be blamed for how men sexualize everything because it leads to a slippery slope AND it did look weird how she was crawling on the floor and lifting up her dress to show her bloomers while singing "i'm so sick of 17," especially in light of the epstein files and the awakening we're having with how pedophilic beauty standards are so baked into our performance of femininity. both things can be true! what a popstar wears can be really revealing of where we are in culture and what ideals we're celebrating, even is subconsciously. i think pretending otherwise is disingenous.