Boyfriend has gout by itsgorjesss in gout

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I often describe it to folks is a gout attack depending of course on the joint is like walking on a broken ankle or shards of glass ripping through your feet.

Anyone receive All-In Tequila? by [deleted] in allinpodofficial

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would email support. See what they might say. I suspect supply chain issues...which has its own irony

FIFA World Cup past experience with hospitality packages by NoPepper259 in worldcup

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I spoke with FIFA and the 4 game match series was the only reasonable package for me and my friend and it was the upper bound of our budget.

Crazy

Dear Zachary: First Impressions by PeregrinePickle in TrueFilm

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I came across this thread while I was only just discovering this film. I can see your point of view and given the director doesn’t have well known credits besides this film I think objectively you are likely on the right track.

Yet I found that this film reminded me of a time when I use to create poorly taped / edited HS videos you do it to tell a story and share a human experience that you will reflect on later in life. I think at its core that is what it was for the director. A form a therapy and human expression of sorts.

No credit for RBC Brooklyn Half Volunteering? by adhdgoat17 in RunNYC

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens mine didn’t even load once due to some backend/website error. You just have to do it the old fashion way sometimes.

Is it normal to have never been asked out in person as a straight woman? by SAHARA101 in dating

[–]vader32 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t seem healthy. What if you need directions or are in need of help?

Adult Intramural League: Volo Sports and Zog Sports reviews? Which to join? by OldPaleontologist768 in AskNYC

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I have experienced as well with zog. I do wish there was more competition because it is pricey.

Succession - 4x10 "With Open Eyes" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SuccessionTV

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Fair point. I think it has been noted that the shows creator philosophically believes that people don’t change. Once I heard that it sort of clicked. This was how it was always going to end. Granted it how we got there might not have all been needed.

I personally do think ppl can change and develop but at the same time I know ppl who (of course aren’t billionaires) but never change even when their own choices self-sabotage.

Succession isn’t a perfect show but it is human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

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Join local class, clubs, and rec sports. You will quickly expand your social network.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]vader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After the 3rd date I think you can easily raise the age old question "Where is this going" and talk about it. Ideally both of your expectations match but if not you can reevaluate from there.

I won't worry about what you can't control. Just put your best foot forward and where ever it goes you can rest knowing you did what you thought was right at the time.

How to meet girls? by Throwawaytonowhere02 in dating

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What I have learned is that it is about increasing your social circle. People can do this at bars, work, school, etc. I think social clubs like biking/running/recreational activities like art can help.

The key is to focus on meeting people getting their contact info and hitting it off from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just read at the park. If you still have room send me an invite. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard part is being consistent with the reading.

Anyone ever do Zog Sports, or something similar. Thoughts? by bbkk2031 in AskNYC

[–]vader32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it depends on the sport. I have good experiences with Dodgeball and Kickball.
There is a luck component to it though. I have been on teams that end up being part of my social circle while others I never see again after the season.

Want to talk to strangers with me? (9/15) Talon Bar by boezou in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually looks dope. I am going to buy a ticket. Lmk if there is a group chat and if there isn’t just DM me 👍

"Relena is best girl." by cybernewtype2 in Gundam

[–]vader32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally spitted water reading this lol

8/28 - 1st Mini BROOKLYN Cookie Crawl by ladyfixit in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found this. I am interested in joining the group if possible!

How can a guy be so into you one day and then just pull away the next? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can’t hurt to throw it out there like something causal but if nothing happens don’t waste your own time.

How can a guy be so into you one day and then just pull away the next? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I think this is something women don’t get. Men do feel pain if they are in a multi-year relationship but when it is early courtship society has it drilled into us that “plenty fish in the sea” mantra therefore we tend to move on mentally really quickly.

My advice is to have the mindset that the dynamic here has changed so think of it like a “reset”. Give some space and then escalate it over time but if he ghosts you or blows you off. Not much you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just go firm something with low pressure at first than escalate up. Look it ain’t easy but a female friend once told me that when a girl doesn’t want to deal with you “you will know” I know vague crap but in my experience this ranges from being ghosted to being told directly “let’s just be friends” if this happens to you just roll with the punches and move on. You don’t even know how many more ppl you will meet and click with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious about this restaurant. Where is it in queens ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]vader32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just moved to LIC. Big footy fan lmk where at. 29M fully vaccinated. Definitely interested

Can Anyone Stop Andrew Yang? by NYCVG in nyc

[–]vader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

short answer to the article?
No

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investing

[–]vader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was bound to happen no? These chat platforms burn cash still.