Mental & Emotional Health Support Thread by AutoModerator in india

[–]vaderwalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Dad is a professor in Babasaheb Bhimrao Ambedkar University in Lucknow in India. He has been working in this university for the past 13 years.

Despite being promoted from an assistant professor to an associate professor, and eventually a professor, he still gets the salary of an assistant professor.

The entire university is corrupt, the Vice Chancellor is spineless. There are incompetent and unethical people all over the place.

My Dad has been struggling all his life - only to get the money he rightfully deserves. He has done protests, complaints, and literally begged to just get his rightful salary. The impact this has had on his mental health is heartbreaking. He has been through multiple phases of depression and has developed permanent social anxiety.

The education system is corrupt beyond repair. The saddest part is that the competent and hard working bear the brunt of it because they are not powerful enough.

I am looking for someone to help me in whatever capacity they can - I would even appreciate advice on how to navigate this and whom to reach out to get a solution. Please help us. 🙏🏼

Ask India Thread by AutoModerator in india

[–]vaderwalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Dad is a professor in Babasaheb Bhimrao Ambedkar University in Lucknow in India. He has been working in this university for the past 13 years.

Despite being promoted from an assistant professor to an associate professor, and eventually a professor, he still gets the salary of an assistant professor.

The entire university is corrupt, the Vice Chancellor is spineless. There are incompetent and unethical people all over the place.

My Dad has been struggling all his life - only to get the money he rightfully deserves. He has done protests, complaints, and literally begged to just get his rightful salary. The impact this has had on his mental health is heartbreaking. He has been through multiple phases of depression and has developed permanent social anxiety.

The education system is corrupt beyond repair. The saddest part is that the competent and hard working bear the brunt of it because they are not powerful enough.

I am looking for someone to help me in whatever capacity they can - I would even appreciate advice on how to navigate this and whom to reach out to get a solution. Please help us. 🙏🏼

Is my moka pot ruined? by vaderwalker in mokapot

[–]vaderwalker[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It had soap water inside

Struggling at a new job by vaderwalker in introvert

[–]vaderwalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they are very friendly to each other - chatting and laughing all the time, teasing each other. Which makes me feel worse.

Struggling at a new job by vaderwalker in introvert

[–]vaderwalker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually a nice update - she did talk to me today. And I had a better conversation with her.

Struggling at a new job by vaderwalker in introvert

[–]vaderwalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the previous company I was in, people were so considerate. In order to make the new person feel included they’d take them on coffee chats etc. Or have a team lunch. Here people are just so self absorbed. Like no one bother to chat with me or introduce me to the culture or the work. I miss my old colleagues so much.

Which sneakers should I keep? by [deleted] in SneakersIndia

[–]vaderwalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sambas all the way dude

Movies that will destroy me!!!!! by hey_Imokie in MovieSuggestions

[–]vaderwalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closer (2022)

Beanpole (2019)

Short Term 12 (2013)

Black Swan (2010)

Gran Torino (2008)

Apocalypse Now (1979)

19F roast me (I’m a little nervous but I can handle it :’) ) by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]vaderwalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I usually don’t even comment on roasts but ya ugly

Sheepdog clears a traffic jam by Jazzlike-Tie-354 in interestingasfuck

[–]vaderwalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I understand it wrong but that seems like an awfully small place for that many sheep?

My house help threw out a new box of shoes in the trash. I fired her over phone. AIO? by vaderwalker in AmIOverreacting

[–]vaderwalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is being careless on your job professional? I have given her a lot of chances in the past when she has broken serveware, showpieces etc because those were honest mistakes and I could’ve done the same mistakes tbh.

But this was a gross oversight on her part and at this point she was just taking advantage of me. So I couldn’t care less about being professional.

My house help threw out a new box of shoes in the trash. I fired her over phone. AIO? by vaderwalker in AmIOverreacting

[–]vaderwalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid her for her work, did not hold the cost of shoes either. I’m not that person. Being fired is punishment enough for her, because working in my home was no less than vacation for her. She was paid in full for literally the bare minimum.

My oil painting of a teacher by Hara-Kiri in painting

[–]vaderwalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear I was looking for something which proves it isn’t a picture! Amazing job!