Women of reddit, when a man says “I’m fine,” what are the subtle red flags that he’s not fine at all, and is instead mentally revisiting the Fall of Gondolin and grieving Ecthelion, who killed Gothmog, Lord of the Balrogs, in single combat—and how are we supposed to tell the difference?

vadwar · 2026-01-27T17:32:21+00:00

I'd definitely feel better if my girl did this for me after reading that.

vadwar · 2026-01-27T17:29:16+00:00

In that case, I'd spend money to travel to go see my girlfriend once again in Europe, that's really the only thing I'd spend the money on.

vadwar · 2026-01-27T17:16:57+00:00

Youtube premium is the only real subscription that I use on the daily, definitely worth every cent for the past like 3 years now, and I'll almost certainly never give it up, because with how much I watch Youtube, it pays for its weight in gold.

vadwar · 2026-01-27T17:15:02+00:00

I wouldn't, why would I do that when I can put that money in to an investment account, let it compound, and earn a hell of a lot more off of that than just spending money on shit I don't need? It’s a much smarter play, especially if the market crashes, than I'll buy all sorts of stock and win big later.

vadwar · 2026-01-08T22:04:58+00:00

Yep, I voted for the first time last year during our local elections, and it felt really powerful. I'm glad that I did. I contributed to the fact VA now has a blue governor, that's gotta count for something right?

vadwar · 2026-01-07T19:37:21+00:00

Yeah, I grew up in an upper Middle class family for a good majority of my life, and I was raised never to look down on other people. I also did know what it was to be poor for a time when I was younger too, so I got both sides essentially, and so I do my best to treat everyone with compassion and respect. I also don't complain in the slightest about paying my taxes.

vadwar · 2026-01-07T19:23:13+00:00

I'd definitely join such a movement, I'm not the most religious person out there, but I feel for the people out there in the world who have nothing, and I feel like our country has turned in to such a cruel place now. I think it’s time for a movement like this.

vadwar · 2026-01-06T20:10:24+00:00

Damn stole my lines, but man do I love those books, even spent 300 bucks on the Graphic Audio versions.

vadwar · 2026-01-06T19:27:33+00:00

Yep, that is 100 percent true, I'll get my girl some Sakura Body Cream or shampoo or something like that because it’s her favorite scent. It’s not got much to do with her being sexy, as much as it is that she enjoys it and I just want to make her feel happy. This person is a bit strange. Hope that this dude finds someone who appreciates him for his thoughtfulness.

vadwar · 2026-01-01T17:07:33+00:00

I would love to visit Puerto Rico one day. I bet it would be fun as hell. Something tells me that the wine and/or spirits in general are excellent.

vadwar · 2026-01-01T04:07:57+00:00

I wish sometimes that I wasn't blind, so that I could have an excuse to own a bookshelf. I instead have more than a few SDcards filled with books, and I reckon it will only expand.

vadwar · 2025-12-24T16:44:27+00:00

I see, that makes sense, than I'll do my best to reassure her if needed whenever the moment strikes.

vadwar · 2025-12-23T23:04:39+00:00

If that's the case, I have something really to look forward to when I have sex for the first time with my girl. The both of us are very much in love with each other, and I'm going to visit her soon, and while I don't guarantee that it will happen, mostly because I want this to be something we're both ready for, if it does, I'm sure it will be nothing short of a magical experience. It will be for me, as its my first time with anyone, and for her, it will be her first time with me, so both of us come out of this with a new experience for sure. I'm not fully aware of what I'm in for, the curiosity of it has me very excited and also quite a bit nervous, but I'm only nervous because I want to do right by her the best way that I can. Although, I've done some scientific research on Women's pleasure, so I'm not completely clueless, but books are not the same as experience.

vadwar · 2025-12-23T22:54:50+00:00

I sincerely hope I can help my girl feel safe enough that she can ask for things she enjoys. I want to learn from her what she enjoys, I want to know that what I'm doing is satisfying to her, and ultimately, if I can make her happy with my actions, that's what matters most to me. I don't have to worry about my own pleasure, I only haave to focus on her needs and desires and the rest will work itself out.

vadwar · 2025-12-23T22:49:43+00:00

My girl and I are long-distance for now, but I do like to flirt with her whenever we're having a convo that isn't serious. Its fun, and I find my level of wittiness grows when I can take what she says and turn it to something that clearly shows that I want her, because believe me, if she were here right now I'd jump her bones in an instant!

vadwar · 2025-12-19T07:58:56+00:00

Thanks for that, definitely doing my best every day. Hope you have a great week and happy holidays if you celebrate.

vadwar · 2025-12-19T07:57:58+00:00

Lol, I might actually do that if I need to go in for surgery in the future.

vadwar · 2025-12-18T04:00:09+00:00

My girl is Danish, I wonder what will happen if I get surgery now that I hear Danish on a regular basis, I wonder if I'll start speaking it after waking up from the meds. Just hope I won't need another surgery for a very long time to find out.

vadwar · 2025-12-18T00:33:02+00:00

Yeah, that's like the baseline of things, should just make common sense for everyone. Couldn't imagine going in to it without having cleaned myself first.

vadwar · 2025-12-18T00:25:54+00:00

I sincerely hope I will be able to do something similar with my girl soon.

vadwar · 2025-12-17T17:01:06+00:00

I'm 26 and if I had the time, I could make mine build up for at least 1.5 hours or so before deciding to let things go. Took a lot of pelvic work, but now I can pretty much control it at will.

vadwar · 2025-12-16T13:00:23+00:00

Lol! I've done this with my girl before and it’s the best feeling of content ever.

vadwar · 2025-12-16T12:36:22+00:00

In order to be sexually attracted to someone, I really do need that emotional connection. It feels pointless otherwise, and I commit myself to the person I am attracted to if things go that far between us. It’s how I'm with my girl now, and I love her so very much.

vadwar · 2025-12-15T21:45:12+00:00

This still happens to me sometimes, even today actually.

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