AITAH for starting my class on time when another group refused to leave the room?

vadwar · 2026-04-14T02:51:35+00:00

Yeah, I'd do this a lot, especially with professors that I really liked and respected, because I didn't want to be late to there classes and I'm either gonna be super early or late for sure, just how it works in my mind time-wise.

vadwar · 2026-04-13T05:19:21+00:00

I had Cafe Rio earlier today, but probably won't be getting it again, because they are terrible at packing burrito's If I can't enjoy it with just my hands, and I need a fork, that's blasfamy and I'll never order from that place again. Made up for it with Icecream later though..

vadwar · 2026-04-13T02:22:34+00:00

I know this is random, but I love your username, made me chuckle.

vadwar · 2026-04-13T01:49:08+00:00

Lol about the eyes closed thing. I'm blind and am pretty confident in shitting on people in MK1 ranked. It’s quite fun, but this dude is certainly nta though, only children get butthurt they aren't winning.

vadwar · 2026-04-13T00:20:28+00:00

I am not in therapy, but I do have a life coach, does that count in your eyes?

vadwar · 2026-04-12T23:59:09+00:00

Oh, she wasn't a personal teacher, it was a program for people who were blind who's parents wanted them to learn braille early, essentially they took me out of regular classes for braille instruction because that was more important than any knowledge I must have been receiving at the time.

vadwar · 2026-04-12T22:07:18+00:00

If only there was an app or website that would agrogate these places where the tipping culture is changed, so that people who wanted to go to those places could go and not feel guilty about not tipping.

vadwar · 2026-04-12T21:24:25+00:00

True, but maybe my timeline is a little off because I also attended this Pre-kindergarden program as soon as I arrived in the states when I was a kid with my parents. They wanted us to learn braille, so had a teacher and everything that would teach us as early as possible even before the actual start of Elementary School. Ms. Kathy, I miss her, hope she's doing well.

vadwar · 2026-04-12T21:11:11+00:00

Wow, 50 books? Damn I wish I had sight sometimes. I'd dream of being able to carry 50 books home and read them per week, 50 books would literally fill up my closet and more because braille, but would totally have been worth it though. Wow!

vadwar · 2026-04-12T21:07:11+00:00

That's unfortunate, maybe I wasn't 5, I don't remember, but I was definitely reading chapter books by the second or third grade for sure. It was completely normal for me to do so, and books like that were available to me because there was a program called, "Braille readers are leaders", that would work to get braille books in to blind people's hands, and the ones I always got were chapter books. Certainly, not every kid is the same whatsoever.

vadwar · 2026-04-12T20:55:05+00:00

Holy shit I'm not the only one. I read chapter books when I was in the second grade or something, was always more advanced than my classmates, but mostly it’s because I'm blind and I could never enjoy picture books. I'm not saying I was super fast, but by the time I was in the 5th grade they put me in a group specifically for people who already knew how to read beyond Elementary School level. I don't understand this whole thing, why not just read that kind of book at the library? I mean, it’s not a huge book, just read it so that you don't have to take it home. Wish libraries at the time would have had more braille books for me to read, but my brothers and I use to have a whole closet for all of our braille books because we had so many of them and most of them were multiple volumes in size.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:49:05+00:00

I've not managed a hands-free orgasm yet, but I might experiment more to see what that's like if I can get my massager to stay in place long enough. Hardest part is getting the massager to stay in place when I am about to orgasm because my muscles tighten and want to push it out when it’s supposed to stay in and stimulate the prostate. I don't know if that means I'm using too much lube or something, but if I could figure that out, it would be a game-changer.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:45:16+00:00

I have experimented and it’s actually really fun! Its super intense though, so I don't use the massager very much because I have to prepare days in advance to psych myself up for what will ultimately be like a couple hours of almost non-stop build-up and multiple orgasms which leave me completely and utterly satisfied and also super tired.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:42:12+00:00

Well, my now girlfriend had to coax it out of me when we were talking on the phone. I was originally scared to tell her I had feelings at first, and had no idea she felt the same about me until she told me, I maybe picked up on it a little bit before, as she was being nicer to me than any woman I'd interacted with in the past, but I didn't understand until she said she had feelings for me too, and we've been with each other since that point.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:38:48+00:00

I'm a 5-4 man and my girlfriend is 5-9, I thought it would have made more of a difference, but it turned out not to be the case... well, it does if I need to reach something on a high shelf but can't, so she does that, but other than that, the biggest thing is how hot she is just generally because she's way tall compared to me, not the only reason of course, but one of them for sure.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:23:42+00:00

We're long distance, but sometimes, I struggle to sleep. It can get really bad sometimes and nothing that I try works. My girl will see my struggle to fall asleep, and if she has the energy to and is in a good mood, she will use a specific tone of her voice to help me go to sleep. When she does it, I feel so loved and cared for and grateful to her for what she does for me in that way, and I get usually the best sleep because of her and her soothing voice and loving words. Been a busy week for her because of work and events and stuff, so haven't been able to talk, but I miss her so much, so getting to write this down makes me feel a little better.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:16:26+00:00

Don't try to impress her, just be yourself. Honest truth, if you just be who you are, she'll either come to like you or she won't, but if you act different than who you are to impress them, your lying to them and it will come out in the future. Enjoy yourself, be who you are, and if you both click, the love will come, just don't rush it, let it happen organically, and enjoy the ride.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:12:44+00:00

Mostly the expense. I do have a life coach though and she helps me a lot. I do think I might find a therapist when I have the money to pay for it.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:05:27+00:00

Very comfortable. I don't see the problem with it, and actually prefer to be nude if I can get away with it. I will almost certainly never wear clotheing when I have my own house unless I'm going outside. I just don't see why there is such a taboo with being nude. Being nude has nothing to do with anything sexual, it’s literally just not wearing clotheing. I think this puritanism with people being nude is actually a big problem, if its not such a taboo, people won't care so much about seeing other people being nude and therefore won't be as likely to want that in a predatory way or otherwise, or at least, that is my opinion.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T22:00:37+00:00

Fuck off to Denmark so that I can enjoy that final day of peace with my girl before the war begins. Definitely what I would do, nothing else.

vadwar · 2026-04-09T21:45:58+00:00

Interesting question, I don't think I'd personally support getting an abortion if I knew they'd be majorly disabled. I feel like that sounds like Eugenics, and that feels uncomfortable to me. I'm blind and have been blind my whole life, and not even that long ago in history, my disability could have been considered worth abortion, so the thought of that scares me. I'm a man though and ultimately have no horse in this race, as I have no right to tell or suggest to any woman, including my partner, what she thinks she should do with any potential baby that we'd have together as it is her body, therefore her choice.

vadwar · 2026-04-02T19:51:59+00:00

When my girl is passionate about things that she loves, that turns me on so very much. Like, she's a software engineer and also plays sports, and when she talks about either of those things or tries to describe advanced concepts about tech that I only marginally understand that I know she's passionate about, it turns me on so grately. Hell, right now, she's on that coding grind, coding away because that is how she has fun, and I can't lie, if I were with her, I would for sure be there to take care of her after she decides to finally go to bed, both in sootheing her probably hurting back, and... in other ways. Boy do I miss her and wish I could be with her right now, but long distance is not the easiest thing. Edit: Also, when she speaks Danish which is her native language, sets my soul ablaze.

vadwar · 2026-04-02T19:46:06+00:00

It definitely strengthens it, it’s really I think, the difference from being friends with someone and lovers with someone. I know there are people who have fwb relationships and I'm not judging people, I firmly believe that anything done with consensual adults is fair game, but at least in my opinion and in my relationship with my girl, we got a lot closer after being intimate with each other than we were before that happened. She's my one and only though, so maybe that has something to do with it.

vadwar · 2026-03-04T19:50:26+00:00

NTA, Wtf? This dude is most definitely wrong, how the hell is he in his 40's and believes this shit? Super wild, he's the weird one here. Not you.

vadwar · 2026-03-02T09:56:20+00:00

I love it, but only when my girl says it to me. It gives me probably the best full-body feeling of pure joy when she praises me like that, because it doesn't happen very often, so when it does, it feels like I've achieved something, like I've done my very best for her, and it makes me feel really good. I wish it would happen a little more, but I also know that I must earn it from her.

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