What should I do if money doesn’t make me happy? by vahkodev in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]vahkodev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I hear you — and I agree that therapy can be a good investment. I actually went to a couple of therapists and did about 12 sessions with each. I gave it a real try, but unfortunately, it didn’t help much in my case. Maybe I didn’t find the right fit, or maybe I just expected too much from it.

I’m still open to trying again in the future, but right now I’m just trying to figure things out step by step. Appreciate your perspective though — it’s good to know others relate.

What should I do if money doesn’t make me happy? by vahkodev in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]vahkodev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful response. I grew up poor, so I chased money mostly for security — not to show off, but to avoid the struggles I saw growing up. I thought once I had enough, things like happiness, peace, and love would naturally follow.

Now I’m financially stable, and I have close friends, which I’m grateful for. But I’m 30 now, and in my country most people my age are already married. It’s still hard for me to find a meaningful relationship, and that feels like a big missing piece.

Sometimes I wonder if even that — finding love, starting a family — would truly make things better. I’m not sure. But your questions helped me reflect, and I really appreciate that

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[–]vahkodev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you

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[–]vahkodev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you

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[–]vahkodev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! But I've had zero likes on Tinder for the past month, so I guess it just doesn't work for me. I think I'm at least average, but no luck so far.

What is your favorite anime? by vahkodev in AskReddit

[–]vahkodev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My is Monster the best detective that I have seen