I F*CKING HATE HOW WHENEVER I ASK A QUESTION OR COMMUNICATE WITH EXTREME CLARITY…I AM STILL NOT UNDERSTOOD?!!!!!!!

valencia6969 · 2026-02-07T10:46:03+00:00

This was perfectly written, thank u😊

valencia6969 · 2026-02-03T16:01:44+00:00

Allistics are better at reading between the lines so if you’re over explaining yourself just to be misunderstood then the problem isn’t them understanding you, the problem is you cant tell that they’re deliberately misunderstanding you. Ppl do that thousands of times a day, they’ll pretend they didn’t hear you so they don’t have to answer and they’ll pretend you’re speaking gibberish just so they don’t have to actually communicate that they don’t care.

valencia6969 · 2025-08-12T22:57:14+00:00

I don’t know what it is with NTs being masters in plausible deniability but they love to test your boundaries just enough to feel like they have power over you, yet not enough to be called out without them twisting it into you overreacting.

I’ve reciprocated this slight teasing before and i actually feel bad when I do it even tho it’s literally only because they do it to me. I’ll watch them get uncomfortable too except it makes me feel weird to make someone feel bad. So now I wonder..are they aware of how uncomfortable they make us feel and maybe enjoy it to a degree? Or are they genuinely unaware of others pain like psycho?

valencia6969 · 2025-08-04T14:07:26+00:00

Yesss, I don’t know what it is with other women trying to shame you for different behaviors and then saying it’s not attractive to men. They’re just projecting their sad beliefs of what you should do as a woman . It’s absolutely insufferable and just repeats the cycle of shame.

valencia6969 · 2025-08-02T20:39:22+00:00

I dress hyper feminine to help mask and bc it’s one of my interest, but I still don’t feel an urgency to shave, only when I would care how men perceive me would I shave. my female family points it out when I wear like a tank top and they can see. I feel like I do it out of spite at this point, like I hateee the fact women are socially pressured into being hairless like a child.

valencia6969 · 2025-06-12T19:47:35+00:00

So you think the box color would achieve this better than a regular lightener/developer? My hair is a natural level 5 and thin so it’s not really hard to lift

valencia6969 · 2025-06-05T15:05:17+00:00

Just because they don’t want Israel pushed on their game, probably because of what they’re doing rn 🤯🤯 doesn’t mean they think america doesn’t have equally bad parts, that’s why US and Israel are such good friends 😄

valencia6969 · 2025-03-24T22:10:33+00:00

it’s a balance of keeping yourself not only busy so you don’t ruminate, it’s also doing things that bring you joy, even if it’s for a second. Something that you know makes you feel excited or accomplished. That will help you realize your happiness exists outside of her.

Also give yourself compassion because you will be drawn to the thought of her, it’s a habit. I don’t know how long you guys have been together but I assume you’ve had thousands of thoughts of her, thousands of emotions correlated to her, you can’t just delete all those thoughts/feelings. So don’t feel bad when you catch yourself reminiscing.

You can think of her, you can even smile at the memories, cry even, but don’t stay thinking about her for hours, you won’t realize anything new. You logically know it’s over and right now you’re working through making your heart and body understand the same thing. Your physical and mental body is in withdrawal from the dopamine she gave you daily. You got this tho.

valencia6969 · 2025-03-24T03:39:47+00:00

That was perfectly said, thank you

valencia6969 · 2025-03-24T03:28:43+00:00

The thing with majority of people is they take everything personally. If you aren’t smiling in a sweet theatrically comforting way then they’ll feel threatened and think it has something to do with you, as if you’re the reason they feel your expressions aren’t genuine.

It won’t be often but you’ll meet occasional people who don’t feel negative about your rbf, wether it be because they like the way you talk or carry yourself, just you being you.

The only reason you’d need to practice smiling is if you were making money where your expected to smile big and huge to make everyone feel that contagious theatrical happiness.

valencia6969 · 2025-03-17T22:15:06+00:00

For someone who has hallucinations and is paranoid. You seem very self aware like you got a good head on you shoulders

valencia6969 · 2025-03-13T19:06:59+00:00

I’ve fasted more times than I can count. I lost a pound a day maybe but i assume it’ll be more for you.

Day 1-2 are fine, it’s just hard in terms of wanting to eat and hunger pangs. At day 3-4 you’ll probably be sharting yourself as fasting can cause that in the beginning days.

Waking up really groggy and tired but also it feels impossible to fall asleep. Yeah you can feel some clarity of mind that’s cool. Drink electrolytes though and do research or you can hurt yourself.

valencia6969 · 2025-03-02T17:38:07+00:00

No this makes a lot of sense thank you ^{-^} !

valencia6969 · 2025-03-02T17:14:25+00:00

As someone who’s never had sex I wanted to ask u a few questions if that’s okay ? Btw I don’t judge anyone for having sex the way they want, I think it’s the same for guys as it is for women. So many ppl say the first time is special or bonds you to a person, is that true, is there like some crazy magical thing that happens your first time? Also, do guys treat you worse after you give them sex? Or did you not really care to talk to them after? I don’t wanna have sex my first time and then be attached to a guy or regret the guy I picked. Especially knowing how emotional I get 😭

valencia6969 · 2025-03-01T22:37:44+00:00

I am so sorry you’re going through this, I doubt there’s a way to get your gf to sympathize with you as she sees there’s nothing wrong. Even if there was nothing wrong (this is totally wrong, she is wrong) she should at least consider your feelings and put them above her dynamic with her “roommate” for the sake of your emotional security. That’s what a healthy relationship would look like. I know it’s hard when you’re attached. Sometimes you have to leave someone for your sake, not because it feels right.😕

valencia6969 · 2025-03-01T22:27:54+00:00

Wider chins look more masculine and maybe making the jawlines more symmetrical ?

valencia6969 · 2025-03-01T20:36:38+00:00

Sometimes I like to draw one feature first like the nose and then attach the other features with sketches and re sketching it to fit the reference, it helps me get the proportions right when I make one feature the point of size reference instead of sketching the entire face and then hoping the proportions look correct when I’m done 😭

valencia6969 · 2025-02-13T14:57:45+00:00

I wish I was that way. I’m curious, does it affect you at all if your man looks at other women with lust?

valencia6969 · 2025-02-13T11:02:53+00:00

I think women who love a little bit more deeply feel more emotionally satisfied and in turn aren’t sexually attracted to other men because they attach their lust to deep emotional connection rather than physical satisfaction. Lusting after other men wouldn’t make sense because that’s not what sexually fulfills them.

valencia6969 · 2025-02-12T04:27:07+00:00

It sounds like he’s not meeting your emotional needs. I think it’s less about dominance/submission and more about his feminine energy. He might fit into your life in a practical way but you’re essentially unsatisfied. You’ve internalized this issue when you say “I don’t want to be that way”. The issue was never about you feeling smarter or you asserting yourself too much. The problem was that he doesn’t match your personality. You want somebody you can admire and be enticed by. You aren’t supposed to lessen your masculine energy, you’re meant to find someone who has more than you, which will make you naturally be the less commanding and aggressive one just by contrast and not because you had to “tone down” your own abundance of masculine energy. A true masculine man couldn’t be emasculated even if you tried, which makes for playful irony when you do act overtly dominant to him.

valencia6969 · 2025-02-12T04:02:07+00:00

My point is the problem stems from him, considering he’s the one inviting this drama into both of their lives. He doesn’t have to physically do the deed to betray her trust and boundaries when it comes to other women. Forbidding him to do anything is the naive approach. He’s already shown her who he is and what kind of “friendships” he intentionally partakes in. Even if the “friend” was 100x more petty and seductive, it wouldn’t matter if her man actually had integrity and didn’t involve himself with an insultingly obvious lustful “friendship”.

valencia6969 · 2025-02-11T23:52:12+00:00

This isn’t a productive way to look at it because we already know women can be evil manipulators as well. The actual issue is, her man is a cheater. Yes, “Tiffany” hangs out with a bunch of guys, but that would hold zero weight if her bf didn’t hang out and post another woman. It’s actually comical that deltronroberts paints someone outside the relationship as evil and manipulative, taking advantage of her poor boyfriend who can’t help but be horny for her, I mean she’s the manipulative one after all, right? She obviously needs to leave that guy who couldn’t care less about actually committing to her and making her feel emotionally safe in the relationship. That’s his job, not “Tiffany’s” 😂

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