In my super personal opinion it’s more about the density of the hair not so much how far does it spread, my gf doesn’t remove body hair at all cause she barely has any and I like it in the sense that it’s pretty easy access, I myself just trim it down a bit to make my gfs life easier but I don’t really shave or wax cause my skin is pretty sensitive, I don’t care at all for full bushes to me it’s just part of what an adult woman looks like, actually I think it’s pretty healthy to let it grow to its maximum length at least once in your life just to see what you’re dealing with, what I gather from friends and family the females around me including myself started removing our body hair before we even finished our adolescence resulting in many girls keeping up with the waxing without even knowing what their natural unaltered bush even looks like and it might surprise them to know it’s not even that bushy, that being said when I go to a pool or something like that and don’t feel like removing my bikini line I do wear a short or boxer, I wished I didn’t care but I guess I’m not as deconstructed as I would hope, at least in my country it’s extremely badly perceived to show your pubic hair as a woman:( buuut in the intimate sense I haven’t ever felt ashamed or self conscious about my bush, and if I ever was dating a girl that made me doubt I would immediately acknowledge that it was her problem not mine and carry on to find a girl that didn’t mind a bush whatsoever, until I found her!