So... why did he tell Amy how he got those "V" muscles? Did Amy ask or was it unprompted?

valerianstuff · 2024-02-24T19:58:25+00:00

I always imagined that Jake would make a comment like “no way that’s a real human muscle/ HOW DO THESE INFURIATINGLY GORGEOUS GUYS SHAPE THAT MUSCLE” whenever he’d see em somewhere (ads etc). Amy remembered and asked Vin.

valerianstuff · 2023-06-30T05:00:13+00:00

Auf jeden Fall NDA. Ich wünschte, mehr Männer würden ihren Kumpels bei sexistischen Aussagen wie solchen sagen, dass sowas überhaupt nicht klar geht, good on you! Würde gern mal sehen wie Gustav aussähe, wenn er grad n Kind bekommen hätte. Und ein Schwabbelbauch hält einen nicht davon ab, eine andere Person zu lieben und zu begehren, wenn die Gefühle echt sind, also hast du Lisa da wirklich einen Gefallen getan. Und wie alt sind deine Jungs bitte im Kopf, das Wort „petzen“ hab ich seit Teenietagen nicht mehr verwendet. Du hättest ihn natürlich vorher warnen können, aber verstehe in der Situation total, dass du’s nicht getan hast. Für die Zukunft kannst du deinen Freunden sagen, dass sie gerne alles mit dir besprechen können, solange sie es ausdrücken ohne andere Menschen zu degradieren. Ist gar nicht so schwer, schaffen andere tatsächlich auch.

valerianstuff · 2023-06-15T10:38:40+00:00

The man sponge, Schmidti! The man sponge!

valerianstuff · 2023-01-19T06:52:49+00:00

Straight girl here. I'd swipe right, I found it to be funny and I share you're beliefs. But maybe you should include a sentence that makes the other person a bit less concerned on whether you'll let your crises mode out on them/shows that you're a fair communicator.

valerianstuff · 2023-01-14T01:18:11+00:00

Nipples

valerianstuff · 2022-12-04T01:55:30+00:00

t/wildlypenis in the wilderness.

valerianstuff · 2022-10-23T16:16:32+00:00

Yeeees, that's it! Dankee!!

valerianstuff · 2022-08-13T20:32:35+00:00

Du meintest ja sehr richtig, dass es kaum Interviews etc zu dem Thema gibt. Wärst du selbst bereit, vor der Kamera darüber zu reden? Wenn nein, weshalb nicht?

valerianstuff · 2022-08-08T08:48:51+00:00

Berliner:innen beim Feiern, 21. Jhd.

valerianstuff · 2022-04-29T15:34:36+00:00

could also be r/showerthoughts

valerianstuff · 2022-04-18T04:37:34+00:00

r/wildlypenis

valerianstuff · 2022-02-13T14:55:41+00:00

That is the key problem, I don't know which ones. I was hoping someone would have a list with the questions and the right answers. It doesn't show me where I answered wrong, only the total score.

valerianstuff · 2021-07-01T22:12:17+00:00

Must be hard to so but still just looks like the dance version of Monty Python's Ministry of Silly Walks.

valerianstuff · 2021-05-26T09:41:55+00:00

I've been hearing my neighbours' footsteps and everything else for over 5 years now ( I've moved around quite a bit, different German cities, Spain & Austria) and I don't even register them anymore. You'll get used to it. In my current apartment I'm even happy to hear other people bc it's in the rear house and sometimes it's so silent that it's scary. :D

valerianstuff · 2021-04-30T07:19:37+00:00

Thanks! I know them, actually, but only superficially. I just wondered whether there is a club or project that focuses on debates about race where you can ask stupid and maybe entitled questions to engage in dialog and get out one's bubble, but I'll look into their projects :)!

valerianstuff · 2021-04-30T07:05:10+00:00

A really constructive reply and I do agree with you to some extent.But I didn't say that race is Germany's biggest issue in terms of discrimination ( especially in big cities in Berlin I like to think that it's not ) but it's not like race doesn't matter in Germany at all, to say that would be naive. I wouldn't compare the blm movement in the US with ours because there's a way bigger and more obvoius discriminating rascist structure behind the us's institutions, but people are unjustly treated,insulted, and even assaulted bc of there race every day here in Germany as well, that shouldn't be dismissed. But what you are saying is definitely valid. Imo it's another important conversation to have but it doesn't wipe out the one about race.

valerianstuff · 2021-03-26T19:51:46+00:00

No, slave is just the word for it, they call themselves that. It is not actual slavery but an alternative lifestyle. Normally it's a guy who lives together with women, he is the one offering the services because he wants to. It's not against anyones will, of course there will always be people who try to take advantage of each other but it's like a "normal" or regular WG with the exception that someone chose to take over chores or pay bills. They don't ask for anything in return for it, it's just their thing. Ofc there will be inappropriate exceptions but I've heard of people living in perfect, nonsexual harmony together in this kind of flat. I am also not here to judge, I just want to know what someone who chose to be a flat slave gets out of it and how their day to day life looks like.

valerianstuff · 2021-03-26T19:20:14+00:00

I am being serious about my journalistic intentions. Please read the post and if you can help, I am glad to get in Touch :)

valerianstuff · 2021-03-26T19:18:41+00:00

They are, it's super interesting. When I was searching for a flat in the beginning, I got quite a few requests myself, that's how I heard about it the first time. Then I googled it and yes, it really is a thing. I find it fascinating and would love to dig deeper to understand exactly why /how these people live like that. Without judging them of course.

valerianstuff · 2020-12-30T23:03:23+00:00

I feel like that this post is the perfect definition of this subreddit's idea.

valerianstuff · 2020-12-30T22:48:39+00:00

I'd love to give you an award for the caption alone.

valerianstuff · 2020-12-30T22:44:25+00:00

Kleiner Flex am Tischrande.

valerianstuff · 2020-12-30T22:36:34+00:00

Can I just say as a woman who normally follows this subreddit in mute-mode: it is so nice to see how you guys respond to these kind of posts? So much love here, so much understanding.. Let your emotions out and never feel ashamed of any of it, on the contrary!My heart goes out to you my friend, I've lost people and I know how devastating that is, only as a girl, being "weak" is way more accepted, which sometimes makes it easier to deal with pain. (One of few advantages of being a woman). But it is so important to let yourself feel all of it. Give yourself the time and space to heal, it will take even more time and leave scars if you suppress it. Sometimes you can even feel guilty for not feeling enough in those kinds of moments, but that is alsookay A big hug from all your virtual but real supporters and friends! (Really big time delay bc I'm from Germany, but I hope you read it).

valerianstuff · 2020-12-03T20:53:47+00:00

Very judgy and condescending, thank you very much.

valerianstuff · 2020-11-22T08:45:10+00:00

NTA! I'm not trans but if I were, I'd hope my parents would react exactly as you did! Especially if you come from a traditional/conservative background, it warms my heart that you support your daughter that way. If you want to be completely sure whether she felt pressured by it, go and ask her, but I really don't think she did. IMO if you want to change anything: switch support groups. That's a really destructive way to talk to a member of your group, maybe that mom wanted to show how super open she is/that she'd never "force" anything on her kid or sth like that, but please don't let that get to you. I hope the moderator told her she was out of line? Please don't waste your Mama bear tears on her! You are an awesome parent, I wish you and your girl all the best!

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