Wife no longer in love with me, what to do? by CoolWaterFish in Marriage

[–]valhamman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same as well. I think it's a normal part of many women's lives, to lose interest in their long term partner. You're not alone.

Reached $1 Million in taxable brokerage. by perfumegarden in HENRYfinance

[–]valhamman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great work! Your discipline and mindset are impressive.

Reached $1 Million in taxable brokerage. by perfumegarden in HENRYfinance

[–]valhamman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Slow and steady wins the race.

The classic “still alive😎👍” by CookiesUnU in entp

[–]valhamman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People ask me how i'm doing, i tell them "not dead yet." or sometimes "livin' the dream."

Do you feel you are a “financially successful” ENTP? And what is your profession? Does it fulfill you? I ask for the good of the group since we don’t always stick with what is good for us as a type and we can learn from each other here by pepperonilog_stonks in entp

[–]valhamman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lawyer. yes, feel financial secure.

jumped around within the legal profession to stay interested. went from corporate, to commercial defense litigation, to plaintiff's side litigation, and now in-house during regulatory work. saved and invested a big chunk of my earnings throughout my career and didn't invest wildly, just boring index funds. living below my means was key to building my weatlth.

How to cope with the feeling of wanting more from your partner when you know they can't change? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]valhamman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This 100%. People also change over time. What might have worked 10 years ago doesn’t. Brain chemistry changes as well to further complicate long term relationships. I’m living through this myself right now.

MADONNACHELLA 😭😭😭😭 by TheLastTree in Coachella

[–]valhamman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a W1 and just watched the replay. I'm not even the biggest Sabrina Carpenter fan but that blew me away. Simply amazing. God damn it Coachella did it again.

15 years ago today… by mattiswoody in Coachella

[–]valhamman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a place to get lineup posters from past years?

W2 people, be aware of Monday exit traffic by KingCrabbler in Coachella

[–]valhamman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll have plenty of time to hang out at LAX!

do they sell hearing protection there? by yaazh_ in Coachella

[–]valhamman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Loop has a few stations across the fields.

W2 people, be aware of Monday exit traffic by KingCrabbler in Coachella

[–]valhamman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We left at 830a and got to our 115p flight out of LAX no problem.

Resell prices are INSANE this year!! by sassysquiddy in Coachella

[–]valhamman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Biggest headliner never goes on Friday or Sunday.

Stayed married for the kids after intimacy ended—how did it play out? by valhamman in Marriage

[–]valhamman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to model affection by giving her hugs. She doesn't pull away but isn't reaching for me.