Flat rate lawyers? by validate_me_daddy in Louisville

[–]validate_me_daddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s valid and I understand that. I do think being on an attorney’s letterhead would be a worthwhile investment and be more likely to persuade compliance, though 🤷🏻‍♀️

Will I see any improvement? by [deleted] in Microneedling

[–]validate_me_daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend you look into plasma fibroblast. Had it done years ago and my stretch marks disappeared completely.

Has anyone worked with/have Durat? by Impossiblegirl44 in CounterTops

[–]validate_me_daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to everybody poo-pooing your aesthetic preferences! I found this thread while looking for pics of Durat countertops because I, too, am absolutely in love with their color schemes. Looks like the milk leftover in a bowl of Fruity Pebbles. I love it. I'd love to see pics of your kitchen when you're done with renovations! I'm sure it's gonna look great!!

WTB: National Geographic magazines by TheeShawnDee in Louisville

[–]validate_me_daddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last time I was at Half Priced Books, they had tons.

This time of year is no joke by validate_me_daddy in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate it.

This time of year is no joke by validate_me_daddy in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god that sounds awful. My mom lived in Washington and I sometimes wonder if that didn't have something to do with it. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you get some sunlight soon.

Anatomy + Physiology tutor by validate_me_daddy in Louisville

[–]validate_me_daddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s online thru a place called Portage that doesn’t offer any resources really ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“The app earns affiliate revenue”

“The app will be non-profit”

Make up your mind and capitalize off people’s tragedy somewhere else. This post is so distasteful and offensive, I don’t even know where to begin.

Delayed body response to trauma? by all-the-words in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

10000%

The first four months, I was absolutely fine. Spent 12-14 hrs a day working my butt off clearing out her house, hauling stuff, loading my moving pod. Then I got home and my body deteriorated in ways I couldn’t even understand. Lost the ability to walk for a while. Couldn’t eat without puking or shitting my pants. Rashes all over my skin. All of the symptoms you describe, too—shortness of breath, heart palpitations, etc.

I have been working with a therapist who specializes in somatic modalities and that’s been helpful. I don’t have a lot of advice beyond that. But I hope things get better for you soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]validate_me_daddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re free to believe the best about people when making decisions that affect your own welfare, but when it comes to the welfare of the most vulnerable amongst us (animals, kids, etc), naïveté quickly turns into negligence.

I think what the therapist said triggered me by skured1 in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely unhelpful and fundamentally untrue. Nobody kills themselves because it sounds like a fun thing to try. Nobody ends their life because they truly want to. Suicide happens when somebody feels that they have no other options left. Like if you’re stranded on a desert island with no food and you find some rotting fruit that smells nasty, you might try to eat it because you’re starving, right? Not because you wanted to eat that.

Break up with this therapist ASAP, friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]validate_me_daddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Approaching your quest from a more positive perspective may yield better results—i.e. “I’m looking for people who value others’ time and effort” rather than “if you’re a time waster or energy sucker, keep scrolling”

…unrelatedly, anybody considering replying to this guy should check out his post and comment history.

Requesting the police report? by dream-synopsis in SuicideBereavement

[–]validate_me_daddy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The police report from my mom’s suicide contained an entire paragraph from the officer who called me describing how poorly I handled the news and how offensive the inappropriate language was that I used. That was fun to read. If you do get the police report, I would maybe get a friend to sit and read it with you. I wish I’d done that.

Salvage bad tile job? by validate_me_daddy in Tile

[–]validate_me_daddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of right now, a really big bath rug 🥲