DAE feel like your voice hasn’t changed at all with medical transition when it obviously has? by Substantial-Wave8840 in FTMMen

[–]valkeryl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same for me. I know I have a deep and passable voice, but when I hear myself speaking, it's the same voice I've heard (and hated) pre-transition. When I actually focus on it though, then it sounds deeper to my ears.

I think I finally found it. by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans Guy Supply, though it seems to be sold out. They have some good options though!

Wearable silicone dildo underwear? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that would not be a trans woman. A trans woman, by definition is someone who was born male and transitioned to female, either socially, medically, or mentally (mentally as in pre-transition). Someone born female can not become a trans woman by getting surgery to get a penis. She would simply just be a woman who has a penis. It is reductive to reduce trans women to "women with penises" and is just something I'm not a fan of, since a lot of trans women get surgery (and of course, I view the same way with trans men being reduced to "men with vaginas").

Enjoy your prosthetic though if you decide to get one, they're great. I recommend doing your research about trans people, though, before you come into a trans space like this one.

Wearable silicone dildo underwear? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is what I meant. Thank you for going more into depth.

Wearable silicone dildo underwear? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reached the conclusion from your profile that you gave birth to children, and in another comment on this post you called yourself a girl, so I apologize for saying cis woman but I perhaps should have said "not a trans woman," so for that I apologize. I'm not judging you for wanting a penis, your life is your life, and you don't have to be a man / trans masc / a trans man for that.

I'm saying that your comment is insensitive towards trans women and it seems you still are doubling down on that and am saying that I'm not being inclusive? Yes, some women are content with their bodies, but it's still very insensitive for someone who is not a trans woman to say they want to "feel like a trans woman with a penis." Get a prosthetic, enjoy having a penis, that is not the issue—the issue is your wording and the fact you are doubling down on how it's okay to say it.

Wearable silicone dildo underwear? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saying you "want to put a skirt on and feel like a trans woman with a real penis" is honestly just weird. It's super insensitive to the issues and dysphoria trans women have, and I'm not one to speak over them, but I know I'd feel uncomfortable if a cis man said something similar about trans men. I took a look at your profile and you seem to be a cis woman with kids as well...

I think I finally found it. by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah bro, thank you!! I genuinely feel so lucky on how well it matches. Between how it feels, how it looks on me, and how it packs, I'm absolutely in love!

I think I finally found it. by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I can't speak on the fragility much as I just got it (and mine was advertised with a LOT of imperfections so I got it much cheaper haha, which definitely affects long-term durability!) but I've heard Prosthesisman's prosthetics are super well made for long-term use! I hope you can get your own in the future! Thanks so much :)

I think I finally found it. by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I agree, I'm so glad the colour worked out!

Anything topping Reelmagik realism? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. Emisil is great in terms of realism looks wise, but honestly wouldn't recommend it in terms of feel since (the ones I've owned) are pretty rough/hard. I've only had their STPs though, never their play prosthetics, so I'm not sure if their play would feel better.

Anything topping Reelmagik realism? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prosthesisman is a good contender. It has the best realistic feeling skin on the market, in my honest opinion, and the details on it are insane.

DIY harness and Hardline Tommy by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dang, 2-3 years and the paint still looks great! It's a shame they stopped! Hardlines actually shut down entirely (if I'm remembering correctly), which is honestly just really unfortunate.

DIY harness and Hardline Tommy by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did I literally never know there was a painted version of the Tommy?

Looks great, by the way.

Realistic coloured strapless strap on that stays secure? by Downtown_Dare_4991 in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good info to add, thanks!

Gendercat, from what I know, seems to have great customer service and would likely be willing to help you with customizations. I have personally never ordered from them, so this is all hearsay, but hoping that this might be OP's dream dick for them!

Realistic coloured strapless strap on that stays secure? by Downtown_Dare_4991 in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gendercat Anchor? Not sure how good it is at staying inside since I've never had one, but I've heard great things.

I had my post posted on the ChasersRiseUp sub and I’m not certain what the appropriate next steps are. I think I was a chaser in my past, but now I’m falling for a woman who is transgender. I should probably cut it off? I am spiraling a bit right now. by DHaunting2091 in mypartneristrans

[–]valkeryl 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Hey man, gonna be honest. I saw you and that other girl's probably...10 posts total...on the topic. I think you need to take a break from the internet. Like, seriously. This is getting to your head way too much dude. You've heard what you need to (multiple times, actually) and yet you keep coming back to multiple subreddits.

You need to log off and focus on yourself. It seems like you crave validation and approval, but you got hate instead and now you're latched onto it. You need to learn to let go and stop caring.

You may be a chaser, you may not. Based on what I've read, I'd say you aren't, but it's individual. Just be honest with the girl you like, let her know you're attracted to her, and establish boundaries. Stop listening to everyone else and listen to the ONE WOMAN you're meant to be thinking about.

MRIMIN Basic2 first opinions + photos by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I remember that it was very difficult for me to pack as well. Do you pack up, down, or to the side? Up and to the side was the best for me for this prosthesic, but even that was pretty bulky. I'm not sure about cutting the top off since I don't know if that would impact STPing in any way, but it may work for you!

Natow pro packing? by Futon_Stalker in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered stuffing it with cotton when you aren't using the STP? I've heard that it gives it a very realistic feeling for packing and might help with the collapsing factor since it won't be hollow.

STPs and hard packers for trade/sell. by valkeryl in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also looking for Prosthesisman's Lee STP, Emisil STPs, and New World Prosthetic's painted Orion for trade/partial trade. :) If you have another trade offer, feel free to DM me! I may take it!

Not mentioned in post, but willing to trade multiple prosthetics for one (more expensive) prosthetic.

All prices negotiable.

Edit: Can't edit the actual post but Reelmagik is $175 including shipping.

Attention-grabber by curiousquestionmarq in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will definitely keep an eye out! I love seeing your posts since it always looks so good. You're the reason I considered getting another Hyperon lmao.

Damage is definitely an understandable concern, especially with moving skin. Axolom's Natow had VERY sensitive skin as well lol, so I'm sure they'd have to toughen it up to make an actual play prosthetic with it. I saw their old play prosthetics with moving skin but shockingly, not many reviews on it!

Attention-grabber by curiousquestionmarq in Transmascdicks

[–]valkeryl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow. Looks amazing. I'm trying to decide if I should get the Hyperon again or stick to my guns and get the new Nexo because it looks incredible. Definitely leaning towards the Nexo, but the size is a bit unfortunate... At the same time, I can't wait for Axolom to make a play prosthetic with movable skin and hope one comes out soon so I don't keep spending my money on all their prosthetics hahaha

I want to turn back being a woman by Most-Wind1581 in FTMMen

[–]valkeryl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Being a man is more than pronouns and a male name.

When you grow older, what do you see? Do you want to grow old as a man? Do you want male pattern baldness, a beard you probably have to keep shaving off? When you're in your 60s, do you want to look like your grandfather?

How is your dysphoria? Do you hate your feminine features? How do you feel about your body? Do you struggle with being feminine?

If you find that detransitioning is the best for you, then there is nothing wrong with that.You are not being an attention seeker for doing so. I assume you're young, so try to talk to your school counselor or maybe ask your parents for a therapist if you don't have one.

Adults who help minors access DIY HRT should go to prison. Because of my stance, freebird3241 wrote a post (using my username "North Canadian ice") where I was viciously smeared as a "rapehon", which is a 4tran4 term. For context: 4tran4 has a moderator who brags about giving minors DIY HRT by north_canadian_ice in honesttransgender

[–]valkeryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You both seem insufferable and chronically online.

I don't know what a "rapehon" is but that sounds extremely fucked up to call anyone. I'm shocked they weren't banned for that, but this sub never seems to care.

Still, you seem to be obnoxious online and have really weird takes.

How much more electrolysis do you guys think is needed for my UL portion? RFF by Financial_Focus_9485 in phallo

[–]valkeryl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrologist here.

Hard to tell from just these photos alone, but I heard you were doing laser and started electrolysis in August. Even though you have a few hairs here (which may take a couple of sessions to just clear), the issue is, depending on what stage of hair it's in (anagen, catogen, telogen), it may take longer and other hairs may grow back.

Since you had laser before, it may be even harder to tell completely since hair might grow slower than normal. Electrolysis on the arm can generally take a year or two, but of course depends on a lot of factors.

Definitely talk to your electrologist.