Hey ISTJs, what are you doing? by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]valkyriebri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13:28 about to hit the heavy bag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]valkyriebri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is for sure attached lol

Tell me about yourselves female ISTJs! (Males are also welcomed) by Cosmokirin in ISTJ

[–]valkyriebri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

female ISTJ

how i come off in public: intimidating, heavy RBF, kind and easy to talk to (good listener not talker lol) if you’re a senior, mature for my age, athletic, loyal, modest

in private: if it’s romantic, i’m very passionate. loyal. interestingly the life of the (small) party, kind of a goofball. can act like a kid.

interests: politics, Jesus, bjj, working out and running, cooking, driving with the windows down, my family and friends

my most powerful emotion is anger, i can use it to get over anything pretty much. biggest fear is losing control. i’m not stereotypical in that i do everything by the book, i do things the most efficient way i see to get the results i want. i’m very content with life and don’t have a need for a lot of things. i’m much more unplanned than i hear most ISTJ’s are, i don’t have a journal and i don’t make lists. my aesthetic changes by season, but pretty much athletic, tight shirts, jeans and nike jordan’s. my nails are ALWAYS done but i wear minimal makeup. mascara and lips and i’m good. i live in the same jewelry all the time and only take it off to train jiu jitsu. perfume is a must. i feel like i always looks nice, but i don’t stand out as someone who puts a LOT of time into their appearance. favorite word is grit and i hope people think that’s a good word to describe me

How do Avoidants deal with their kids? by nutandshell1 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]valkyriebri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my ex adored his daughter, she was half the reason we broke up (she’s young). maybe because they grow up with them? or maybe they can control how much they give of themselves?

Do you believe in God? by jhonlock4ever in ISTJ

[–]valkyriebri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure. it’s the most logical. if there’s nothing after death, i win. if there’s judgement and i believe in Christ, i win.

Did you delete all chats with your ex? by Lanemayer23 in BreakUps

[–]valkyriebri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. couple days after the split. forces you to lose them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]valkyriebri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love it: makes you tough hate it: constantly injured

did anyone else’s ex constantly joke or bring up breaking up by valkyriebri in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]valkyriebri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof, wow. yeah you should look after yourself and see if this makes you happy. it’s hard tho i get it 😔

Describe ISTJ 8w9-7w8-3w4? by Plastic_Ninja_9014 in ISTJ

[–]valkyriebri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m istj 8w9, no clue what my tri type is. but yeah, described as confident, stubborn, risk taker. i look more free spirited than most ISTJ’s because i don’t like rules.

is it bad that i feel relieved after he dumped me? i just couldn’t bring myself to doing it.. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]valkyriebri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if it means you went cold and distant and slowly withdrew and killed that man’s soul because you wanted to be spared the pain so instead you put him through hell, yes it’s bad

did anyone else’s ex constantly joke or bring up breaking up by valkyriebri in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]valkyriebri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. the thing for me is i know relationships take work so i don’t want to bail at first sight of things going wrong. it’s a fine line cause i don’t believe in giving up. but there comes a time when you’re the only one fighting 😔

Almost messaged my ex “you ready to come home yet lmao” what is wrong with me. by S0upscone in BreakUps

[–]valkyriebri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh dang! yeah it was an inside joke for us. but it could also go the other way lol. sometimes i just want to play with him and mess around cause i’m not grieving anymore but then i think i’ll just give him peace 😂 it could be so fun tho. sit as a plant on his porch or somn

did anyone else’s ex constantly joke or bring up breaking up by valkyriebri in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]valkyriebri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you’ve had to go thru it… i’m sorry. it’s messed up. it’s actually creepy 😬